AimoWänkä: Hey all, I wonder if there are others with the same problem. I seem to be a bit above average size (7*5,3) but i really feel small. Especially in a flaccid state I am very thin. Few remarks from my wife have stuck in my head. We were in sauna with a married couple who are good friends of ours. Well this husband is very well endowed and he is much thicker flaccid than I am erect. I don't know what my wife is thinking but while swimming she started fondling me and said "let's show your real size". Well I had to stay a while in the water to get the hard on down. It was just as if she was embarrassed about my size. Few weeks later I showed her an peer reviewed article about penis size and she found out that I was a bit above average. She took my penis in her hand, looked for a while and said "so this should be big then?" with sceptical tone and look on her face. So yet again I guess she thinks also that I'm small. She has had only one partner before me who doesn't seem to be big so I am confused. So I guess it really is not about what is in between your legs but between your ears.