Feeling small...

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by D_Poppy_Cocque, Nov 22, 2007.

  1. D_Poppy_Cocque

    D_Poppy_Cocque New Member

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    Hey all! Just wanted to post a little of my recent thought process...
    Does anyone ever doubt that they are big? I have been feeling this way lately and wanted to know how you guys get "over it". Please reply! Thanks:mad:
     
  2. T-Lex

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    You are definitely not small. Be glad for the very nice package that you have! =)
     
  3. tiggerpoo

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    You don't seem small to me. You look great.
    I've felt small all my life because I am small (5 X 4.5).
    But I've never let it interfer with my relationships or good sex life.
     
  4. viking1

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    Insecurity can strike anyone. However, you aren't small. I don't know how you get over it. I have been insecure most of, if not all of, my life.
    I have also felt small, (in more ways than one)...

    You look big to me. Wanna trade?:tongue:
     
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    You have more than a normal penis. Remember its what you do with it that counts.
     
  6. RamIt

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    Self perception and insecurities are tough to predict and impossible to control, in my experience anyway. Some days I wake up and feel terrible about how small my dick looks and how fat I seem to be getting, others I wake up and admire my size and think for a moment I might see my abs in the mirror. Most days are in the middle somewhere, but I would imagine most people encouter the same fluctuations.
     
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    I doubted myself a few years ago, while I was dating a girl. she pursued me, and I was involved with someone else. we broke up and one night after having no pussy for about 2 weeks, I ran into her in a bar. we talked, dranked, went back to her place, and everything went fine. she didn't seem to be getting turned on. I am doing all I know on top and I'm not getting much reaction from her, just a moan now & then. After about 20 minutes, I lose my self control and cum inside her. we lay around, more drinking, smoke some pot, cigarettes. I rise to the occasion and she pulls me back on top, throws her legs way back, and I'm pumping away for every it seems. I'm dripping with sweat, and she just lays there, moans once in awhile. I blow again, fall asleep. split the next morning. I kind of distanced myself from my normal hang outs for about 2 wks(got laid by other ladies), so she shows up on my front porch saturday nite, after not finding me friday nite, cuz i was in a nearby town, getting rode hard by a cowgirl.
    So stalker takes me to dinner, drinks and the whole same thing happens more or less. I pretend my back is sore to get her on top. she gets on top but can't or won't fuck me that way. we fall asleep, the next morning I ask her what is wrong? want me to do something that i haven't tried? my cock not big enough?? she says she doesn't know. she tells me that she really likes me and is falling in love with me. I left. that week I ran into a couple of guys that dated her in the past, one of them lived with her for over 3 months and both admitted she just laid there in bed. no one had a clue if there was something physically wrong or perhaps someone had abused her.
    I had one more date with her to her company picnic(i promised) and that was it. I fucked her that night because I was horny. in the morning I told her we were done, that I had to have a woman who enjoyed me as much as I enjoyed them and SHOWED it. so it was not me, but my tender ego took a hit for awhile. funny part was the fucking part was the part I never worried about in a reltionship, until I met her. not being the smartest, clerverest, or witty guy, I sometimes lacked in the conversation area of a relationship. live and learn
     
  8. Blocko

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    Here's a tip, if you're feeling small then looking at or taking seriously certain people at LPSG won't help. LPSG is full of people claiming things about size that are positively stupid and it's also full of out of proportion images that put emphasis on certain body parts.
     
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    Listen to Blocko. Good advice. And the same thing he said about LPSG can also be said about porn.
     
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    I've had my doubts the last couple months... In my case it was several things happening all at roughly the same time.

    Sex with a girl who doesn't react like the others have to penetration (like in 625's example). In this case it wasn't a lack of enthusiasm, but me just being able to pound away and even put a couple of fingers in there and her being able to take it. She seems to enjoy sex with me but it's hard not to notice that and other little things (like trying to back up on it when it's already in all the way) when others have had some kind of reaction to the size.

    In a threesome seeing that one of my friends was thicker. This was the 1st time I had seen an erect man in person.

    A female saying that I was average. I am not 100% sure if she was being honest, but that's what she said..

    And most recently when mentioning to the girl some of the reactions of the past (came up naturally I was not whining or anything), her reaction is like "girls lie". As if the positive stuff must've been made up or something.

    None of these things are that big of a deal but they were enough to plant a seed of doubt. Funny thing is that I could point to way more examples of good stuff happening, but it's the bad stuff that sticks and can affect your confidence.
     
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    "Does anyone ever doubt that they are big?"

    I never, ever even thought I was big in my whole life! I thought I was average growing up and in my college years. I read that 6" is average and I was 6" so I thought good, I am at least average!

    But after college I started to realize a cock's size is also based on girth. I found out I had a thinner than average cock that could be viewed as small by women.

    The more I read about women's preferences on cock size the more I hear girth, girth, girth!
     
  13. D_Poppy_Cocque

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    All,
    Good replies.... I have been able to come down from the place where I was feeling small, but I find that I have to withdraw, reconstitute, then enter the world again with new confidence. It is always disheartening when I see bigger than me. Rare occasion, but I rarely get out too. Also, about other's reactions, I have NEVER been dissapointed in either a guy's or girl's reactions to me. I guess I have something going for me there...
    Ya know, it is funny how men think so much about their penis (or with it). I have what God gave me, and I can be satified with that, but there are times when I do feel a little down in the mouth thinking that I am smaller...
     
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    DeathbyCarrot how could a girl say you are average?! You look massive!!!
     
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    i looks a tad small too, wad do u guys think :confused:
     
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    Good lord. You know you are not small, and size is not as important as skill and emotional IQ when it comes to sex.
     
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    Look, the best way to get rid of insecurities is to surround yourself with people who are lesser than you!

    Google "Small Penis Gallery" or something. You'll feel like a champion!

    ...

    I still feel small though, but that's because I came here and surrounded myself with things I can only IMAGINE. >>;

    Aren't you larger than me?
     
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    You are definitely not small!
     
  19. D_Poppy_Cocque

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    Well now,
    Everyone seems to be helping my ego.... I have begun to come out of this "slump" concerning my size. This is, after all, a support group isn't it? I really think you guys are beginning to turn my attitude around a little. Thanks again all.... keep those comments coming!
    :cool:
     
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