Feeling too fucking little...

[B_horribleperson]

I'd much rather drive my Saturn than a BMW...it's more fun, and a sexy blue color. As for penises, there are larger ones than mine, but my dick is the one that gives me fantastic feelings, and I like the look of it.

you have never driven a bmw at speed have you?

 

[ThaitAss]

...my insecurity [is] not whether my dick reaches a certain point on a tape measure. But losing my one and only true love for reasons I have absolutely no control on...

I've read the wonderful responses in this thread you've received, for example from Madame Zora and Dr. Rock. I've read the testimonials of the guys with large cocks - it's not all fun & multiple orgasms for them, you know.

It sounds to me, Cthulhu, as if you are simply looking for an excuse that will sustain you throughout your life. All your problems can be blamed on this "reason" over which you have "no control." Your girl already told you AND showed you that she enjoys sex with you. There is no problem, except the one you are creating.

No matter what size dick you have, you're going to have problems and issues. Small, medium, large, whatever. Being of "average" size is only a cause for concern here because you've decided to make it one.

And I think you're making it one in order to avoid dealing with whatever other shortcomings, personality quirks, idiosyncracies and failings. What a wonderful excuse you'll have when your girlfriend gets tired of your short temper or your morose moping. "It's because my penis is average-sized!!" you'll cry.

Recognize what you're doing with this issue - you're creating a scapegoat out of something perhaps beyond your control (if exercise, penis pumps and other techniques have no effect), instead of dealing with whatever real personality flaws you possess that are within your control.

Because what I'm hearing from your posts here is that it's not really about the size of your dick, at all. Is it? Be brutally honest with yourself and work out what it is that is really bothering you here. Does she want kids and you don't? Is she making more money than you? Are you not doing as well at your career as you wish you were? There is something much more substantial (and within your power to change), which you are struggling NOT to comprehend and deal with, by instead fixating on the non-issue of "what if my girlfriend wants to experience a bigger dick than the one I have."

 

[B_caneadea]

Dear "Cthulhu",

Following is a list of things that are NOT the problem:

The size of your dick
The size of your girl friends friends boy friends dick
Your girl friend
Your looks
Your personality
Your sex life
Your ability to please your partner

The real problem is you mentally beating yourself up every minute of every day.
STOP IT RIGHT NOW.
Why do you think that your girl friend is with you?
Why do you think other people want to spend time with you?

They like you just the way you are.

Your negative thoughts are destroying your life.

Try an experiment. You have nothing to lose.

Get yourself some sheets of paper.
Page # 1-
Write down a list of all your complaints about penis size, looks, etc.
Page # 2
Write down positive comments that contradict each of the complaints on the first page. For example: "I am happy with my penis just the way it is". " I like the way I look". etc.

I know this sounds silly. Please just try it.

Do not look at Page # 1

Several times a day, pull out your Page # 2 and read it over and over. Do this every day. When you are out driving or walking around, remember your positive statements from Page # 2.

At first, this will seem stupid, silly and worthless. But, before long, I PROMISE that you will feel better about yourself.

You deserve to be happy.

No one can make you happy but YOU.

Please check back here regularly and let us all know how you are doing. Okay?

 

[madame_zora]

I've read the wonderful responses in this thread you've received, for example from Madame Zora and Dr. Rock. I've read the testimonials of the guys with large cocks - it's not all fun & multiple orgasms for them, you know.

It sounds to me, Cthulhu, as if you are simply looking for an excuse that will sustain you throughout your life. All your problems can be blamed on this "reason" over which you have "no control." Your girl already told you AND showed you that she enjoys sex with you. There is no problem, except the one you are creating.

No matter what size dick you have, you're going to have problems and issues. Small, medium, large, whatever. Being of "average" size is only a cause for concern here because you've decided to make it one.

And I think you're making it one in order to avoid dealing with whatever other shortcomings, personality quirks, idiosyncracies and failings. What a wonderful excuse you'll have when your girlfriend gets tired of your short temper or your morose moping. "It's because my penis is average-sized!!" you'll cry.

Recognize what you're doing with this issue - you're creating a scapegoat out of something perhaps beyond your control (if exercise, penis pumps and other techniques have no effect), instead of dealing with whatever real personality flaws you possess that are within your control.

Because what I'm hearing from your posts here is that it's not really about the size of your dick, at all. Is it? Be brutally honest with yourself and work out what it is that is really bothering you here. Does she want kids and you don't? Is she making more money than you? Are you not doing as well at your career as you wish you were? There is something much more substantial (and within your power to change), which you are struggling NOT to comprehend and deal with, by instead fixating on the non-issue of "what if my girlfriend wants to experience a bigger dick than the one I have."

I would just like to buy you something expensive (too bad I'm broke!), that was some stellar insight.

 

[rob_just_rob]

Cthulhu, I've said it before and I'll say it again.

Guys, if a woman is dumping you, 99.99% of the time she's doing it for reasons that are totally unrelated to your penis. I speak from personal experience (and some observation), although my sample size isn't quite enough to derive the percentage I noted above.

The great thing is, most of those other reasons are things you can control (such as bad habits). So your interests would be better served by trying to remedy those things you can control, and not worrying about things you can't.

PS. Naming yourself after one of the Great Old Ones will not get you chicks. You have to trust me on this one

 

[D_Salmaine Sharpshlong]

When i was younger my penis was nowhere as thick as it is now. Sometimes it seemed really skinny, other times not. For several years i have used a cock ring during sex. my wife loves it. it makes any penis harder and thicker. i think having used it so much i have gained girth. try it. i guarantee she and you will feel the difference.

 

[Cthulhu]

Vrai pousti, exis tosso micro poutso? Na fepris ti gomana sto spiti mou, kai eyo tha ti yamiso me to megalo poutso mou. Oxi mono nesa ti mouni tis, kai nesa sto golo tis!

My Greek friend, I feel the others in this forum deserve a translation. If it's supposed to be funny, they will laugh too. If it's not supposed to be funny, well, they 'll know what a kind of guy you really are:

So, the guy from Thiva actually wrote
-----------------------------
You faggot, you 've got such a small dick? Bring your girlfriend at my home, and I will fuck her with my big dick. Not only in her pussy, but in her ass as well.
-----------------------------

So, what it is, is for you to decide:
-Weird (and wildly unsuccessful) sense of humor?
-Reverce psychology (and pretty successful)?
-Pure idiocy?


Oh, well, why bother? It' was so stupid I 'm still laughing...


By the way, Rob_just_rob, chicks are curius about my nickname, so they start asking questions. Whether they fall or not, depends about the answers. So, if eloquent and smart enough, you can get chicks even beint a Great Old One (not me, though )

 

[Dr Rock]

I've read posts here somewhere where hung guys don't necessarily drive the biggest of cars.

I don't got a car at all.

go figure

 

[RideRocket]

I find having a 3rd leg lets me get around that much faster...

 

[Happy2BHung]

...If there were ANY societal endorsement of smallness to point to to back up the assertion that small is good, it would be a lot easier to accept that there is no problem. But there is no small dick porn except negative humiliation stuff, there are no tales of smallhung men being ogled and envied and sought after by partners because of their endowment, etc. So when the message is given to "love what you have, it's all good," it has a really hollow ring to it because there is absolutely no reinforcement for it...
The opposite message however, that bigger is better, is reinforced constantly in society, even in a forum as basically understanding of all male issues as LPSG. If you look back in LPSG postings over time, many a guy who offers support and encouragement for smaller men when they're feeling down about their situation... will also have some exultant statement in his sig about his size or the glory of being big...
If you ask any of the well-adjusted unhung men, either here or on any other board, I'll wager that to a man they'll still say they wish their luck had been different...

Cottonfield

Like many of the large cock guys here, I have on occasion tried to show kindness to a smaller unhung man. This insightful post by Cottonfield allowed me to understand why my sypathies for less fortunate men often do not seem to cheer them up very much. Cottonfield's insight that sympathy from a hung guy has "a really hollow ring to it" because of a lack of reinforcement from society makes total sense. I haven't thought about how while my ego is being constantly stroked by the societal endorsement of "hung is good", at the same time a man lacking size is hearing the same message and feeling bad. I would never wish to give up my hung status nor the enjoyment I get from owning a big dick. I think there is a real reason (most enjoy and like big penises more than lesser sizes) why society endorses that "bigger is better". It is a shame that all men cannot enjoy that kind of confidence boosting message due to their misfortune of lacking size, but that doesn't make the message in itself false. This is probably why even the well adjusted unhung men that Cottonfield mentions continue to wish their luck had been different. So if anything this insight about societal reinforcement makes me all the more happy and proud to be hung, while giving me better understanding of the need to show more sympathy to those less well off. I will be more aware of the messages and reinforcements in society around me now.

 

[Hung Low in Thiva]

Isn't that what you want to hear. All this angst over being averagely endowed. This is your fear. Isn't it? You feel either she will go to a man with a bigger dick or the man with the bigger dick will take her.

What exactly do you expect to get out of this discussion? Affirmation? Or are you trying to subject yourself to some sort of humiliation.

And as for what I wrote, it is called sarcasm. Unless of course she is now available. Then me and her can talk.

My Greek friend, I feel the others in this forum deserve a translation. If it's supposed to be funny, they will laugh too. If it's not supposed to be funny, well, they 'll know what a kind of guy you really are:

So, the guy from Thiva actually wrote
-----------------------------
You faggot, you 've got such a small dick? Bring your girlfriend at my home, and I will fuck her with my big dick. Not only in her pussy, but in her ass as well.
-----------------------------

So, what it is, is for you to decide:
-Weird (and wildly unsuccessful) sense of humor?
-Reverce psychology (and pretty successful)?
-Pure idiocy?


Oh, well, why bother? It' was so stupid I 'm still laughing...


By the way, Rob_just_rob, chicks are curius about my nickname, so they start asking questions. Whether they fall or not, depends about the answers. So, if eloquent and smart enough, you can get chicks even beint a Great Old One (not me, though )

 

[invisibleman]

I think that all cocks are nice. I think what really matters is the man who's attached to the appendage. If you feel that you are inadequate because you don't have a large penis--you are most definately selling yourself short--(Take the pun how you like it.) . Everyone is different. Be happy with what you have. I am not hung like a stallion like most here on the site. I am content and happy with what I have. I admire penises--I just look at the big ones a little longer.

 

[Cthulhu]

Isn't that what you want to hear.

Well, no, but thanks for the consideration.

All this angst over being averagely endowed. This is your fear. Isn't it? You feel either she will go to a man with a bigger dick or the man with the bigger dick will take her.

Yea, pretty much.

What exactly do you expect to get out of this discussion? Affirmation? Or are you trying to subject yourself to some sort of humiliation.

Just to let off some steam - when I begun this topic, a good two months ago, I was so sad and frustrated I thought I was going to die. I wanted to talk to someone, but I had no one I could talk about such a subject - I guess many of you feel this way, or else there wouldn't be an anonymus online support group. And, the ultimate goal, was through discussion, and mainly through the thoughts of mine that it would trigger (and it has triggered a lot) to understand better myself and my relationship. This goal has been fulfilled and I feel much better about myself and my relationship, thanks to you, people.

By the way, I met the big dicked guy the other day. All I have to say is... well, he 'll never be a published author, and in this I am better than him, for what I have now I have fought for and won it fair and square, whereas he just happened to be born with the right genes. And I say, screw genes... If 5.5 inches are enough for multiple orgasms, they 're enough, period.

And as for what I wrote, it is called sarcasm. Unless of course she is now available. Then me and her can talk.

M' ayto to pleuro na koimasai, Thivaie. I gkomena i dikia mou den einai gia ta moutra sou, den pa na xeis psoli ena xiliometro.

 

[opabill]

Funny,when i was young,i got more pussy than you could ever imagine.I never had any complaints.Then i started to look at porn....man did i start feeling inadequate...all of a sudden i feel to small....this happen to anyone else.....i'm only 6.5 erect....

 

[Hung Low in Thiva]

There is a classic American movie you may have seen called "The Godfather." In it there is a scene in which the Godfather tells his real godson, "What's a matter with you, you can be a man!" Finally, something from you that shows you are a man.

Vrai pedaki, to poutso sou ine san micro poulaki, kai to dikomou poutso, san megalo sfidi. Ama ka mia meda, i ghomena sou da to di, da skispsi kato sta gonata tis, kai tha glipsi to poutso mou!

 

[Cthulhu]

There is a classic American movie you may have seen called "The Godfather." In it there is a scene in which the Godfather tells his real godson, "What's a matter with you, you can be a man!" Finally, something from you that shows you are a man.

Vrai pedaki, to poutso sou ine san micro poulaki, kai to dikomou poutso, san megalo sfidi. Ama ka mia meda, i ghomena sou da to di, da skispsi kato sta gonata tis, kai tha glipsi to poutso mou!

In the same reply you have thought and posted with both your heads. One of them is the wrong one for thinking - hope you find out soon which one.

Unfortunately for you, my g/f would choose a big brain over a big dick anyday, so, as the joke says, if your dick can reach your asshole, go fuck yourself, the cookies are mine...

 

[Hung Low in Thiva]

eki phtes, exo kai myalo. Ima dikiyoros. Tha ti vrome mia meda.

 

[Cthulhu]

eki phtes, exo kai myalo. Ima dikiyoros. Tha ti vrome mia meda.

And that you are a lowyer means you have a brain? Funny thing, I know a hell of a lot of people that would claim otherwise

 

[Matthew]

If you're going to argue in greek you have to translate for the rest of us. We want drama too.

 

[Cthulhu]

If you're going to argue in greek you have to translate for the rest of us. We want drama too.

Well, there's a huge difference between drama and stupidity, and the greek conversation has drifted deeply into the latter realm...

Really, nothing worth noting. Hung Low in Thiva insists he is going to fuck my girlfriend, and that will surely be the case, when the devil himself goes and buys a pair of ice scates...