been married going on 4 years have a two year old beautiful daughter. My wife used to be much more into sex etc. Obviously after the baby it changed, she physically doesn't feel the same about herself and we have very very little time to connect physically. Its taken it's toll on us both. The marriage has become rocky and we have grown apart. Communication, sex, it's all cracked. I don't know wether I should touch my wife half the time to initiate sex. She hasn't in what it feels like forever. I get tired of trying. Pretty much feel undesirable to her at all. She's gorgeous. I love her to death but i feel like we have grudges towards each other and we can't get past it? Any advice on getting past this discomfort? It's frustrating and weird. She's my wife?