Feelings about being Measured?

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I read a similar question in another post and thought I'd ask this here. Have any guys on here been measured by their gfs? I'm just curious. If so, what did you think about her doing it or just the whole situation?
 

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Tried it with a few, it's a huge ego boost!
For example, I hadn't measured myself since my teens.. I knew i had a 'big dick' but wasn't sure on exact dimensions.
A girl I was dating just 'had to know' so she got me nice and hard (spare the details) and measured me. 9x6. To see her jaw drop like that and and her own appeasement knowing she had such a huge cock under spell was pretty cool, to say the least.

Hope this helped.
 

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Total boner killer as far as I'm concerned.

Never had a girl do it and never want one to do it.
 

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I've had girlfriends ask if I've ever measured my penis, or how big is it, blah blah. The topic comes up, it's natural. I usually just say hey why don't we do it together, then you will have all your answers. It can be turned into foreplay too if you can to put enough effort in. Totally comfortable with it. They are usually surprised anyway :)
 
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Thanks for the answers, I guess I'm just a little surprised at how many guys actually would like it. I was kind of expecting to hear guys say it was a little degrading. I personally think its kind of wierd/funny that guys measure themselves anyway but to actually want someone else to do it is different.
 

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Total boner killer as far as I'm concerned.

Never had a girl do it and never want one to do it.

I would think what you said would be the normal answer but it seems like a lot of other guys disagree. I'm curious but why would you not like it?
 

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I've had girlfriends ask if I've ever measured my penis, or how big is it, blah blah. The topic comes up, it's natural. I usually just say hey why don't we do it together, then you will have all your answers. It can be turned into foreplay too if you can to put enough effort in. Totally comfortable with it. They are usually surprised anyway :)

I can see your point about it being foreplay, I guess that's what I would think it would be anyway but I just guess its kind of obvious how big or small it is and measuring just puts a number on it. It makes sense to me what you said though, thanks.
 

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I read a similar question in another post and thought I'd ask this here. Have any guys on here been measured by their gfs? I'm just curious. If so, what did you think about her doing it or just the whole situation?

i've brought it up with all the women i've been in past relationships with,but they thought i was weird,perverted,or insane.

i thought it would be kinda fun and a little bit kinky.but all i would get would be a reply of "who thinks to do that?"
and you can imagine the face they made after that..lol

i'm cool with being measured.
 

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Thanks for the answers, I guess I'm just a little surprised at how many guys actually would like it. I was kind of expecting to hear guys say it was a little degrading. I personally think its kind of wierd/funny that guys measure themselves anyway but to actually want someone else to do it is different.

i think you have to keep in perspective that most of these guys here are large and hence would want to 'show it off' that their are large. i believe if you ask the average or small man if they would like to have their penis measured then you would get a TOTALLY different response.

1. because most average and small guys KNOW that they are average/small and hence will fear they won't live up to her grandiose expectations (after all she is making all this effort to actually measure it)

2. it gives off the impression that size REALLY matters to her and if that's the case i'm not sure many guys who aren't large would want this to be a big factor in their relationship


but then again maybe you only care about how large guys feel and if that's the case, it's no surprise they want to/like to be measured.
 
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i've brought it up with all the women i've been in past relationships with,but they thought i was weird,perverted,or insane.

i thought it would be kinda fun and a little bit kinky.but all i would get would be a reply of "who thinks to do that?"
and you can imagine the face they made after that..lol

i'm cool with being measured.

lmao it's no surprise they reacted that way. i mean think about it, why would they really care about measuring you. as proud as some may be about their cocks, a lot of women don't give a hoot about ACTUAL measurements. i think it's silly that we guys don't get that. if it looks good and feels good, most women won't care to do that.
 

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Thanks for the answers, I guess I'm just a little surprised at how many guys actually would like it. I was kind of expecting to hear guys say it was a little degrading. I personally think its kind of wierd/funny that guys measure themselves anyway but to actually want someone else to do it is different.

Its sort of a timing thing if I am horny it makes me hornier if I am not horny it is weird to me that she bring it up when we are not going at it
 
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I would think what you said would be the normal answer but it seems like a lot of other guys disagree. I'm curious but why would you not like it?
I actually think guys would like it because the girl is giving attention to the guy's dick, which is rarely a bad thing.

I personally don't like it because I find my measurement to be depressing.
 

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i think you have to keep in perspective that most of these guys here are large and hence would want to 'show it off' that their are large. i believe if you ask the average or small man if they would like to have their penis measured then you would get a TOTALLY different response.

1. because most average and small guys KNOW that they are average/small and hence will fear they won't live up to her grandiose expectations (after all she is making all this effort to actually measure it)

2. it gives off the impression that size REALLY matters to her and if that's the case i'm not sure many guys who aren't large would want this to be a big factor in their relationship


but then again maybe you only care about how large guys feel and if that's the case, it's no surprise they want to/like to be measured.

You do t have to be mean, I'm not judging anybody and I don't care how large or not large anyone is.
I understand what you are saying about some guys being more confident but seriously, just by looking I think most girls can estimate a size pretty well. Its not like actually measuring and getting an exact number is really going to make a difference. I was just wondering what guys thought.
 

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I actually think guys would like it because the girl is giving attention to the guy's dick, which is rarely a bad thing.

I personally don't like it because I find my measurement to be depressing.

I guess that's a confidence problem. Thanks for the reply. Honestly though, I'm pretty sure most girls could estimate pretty close without actually measuring anyway and if she was interested before she would still be interested after. Ha ha like you said if she's paying attention to it, I'm sure she already likes you and it.
 

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I read a similar question in another post and thought I'd ask this here. Have any guys on here been measured by their gfs? I'm just curious. If so, what did you think about her doing it or just the whole situation?

Did it once (at my suggestion). It was silly/fun moreso than sexy.