Feelings about being Measured?

[Mousematt]

I totally agree about with you on the girls being able to estimate thing; if size matters to a girl she's going to have a fair idea of what you're packing. I've never met anyone who cares about measurements to the nearest 1/4 inch; it's all about how big it feels .

However from a guy's point of view I think the attention is great, and it actually feels really good when a woman cares enough about you to want to know your precise measurements. When I hear that the average penis is such and such a size I'm curious to see how I compare, and it seems that plenty of women are interested in how their partners measure up. Although I'm not exactly keen for women to find out that I'm technicaly smaller than average, I'd be more worried if someone wasn't interested in how I'm doing in the trouser department !

(P.S. I think you should be given the Penis Size Diplomat Of The Year Award for the
'I don't care how large or not large anyone is' line. It is OK to say small!)

 

[554279]

It's like the old saying - "any press, is good press"

 

[LA8Ball]

I read a similar question in another post and thought I'd ask this here. Have any guys on here been measured by their gfs? I'm just curious. If so, what did you think about her doing it or just the whole situation?

Done it, and I dig it.

 

[wildbone669]

I get off on it, but after awhile chicks are like yeah its big whatever, then I like to put it all the way in, Just to hear them scream. and I still wish I was 10 x 7. porn stars are huge!

 

[Jillang]

(P.S. I think you should be given the Penis Size Diplomat Of The Year Award for the
'I don't care how large or not large anyone is' line. It is OK to say small!)

ha ha thanks, I think? I know but there is something about the tone of his post that makes me think it would have offended him and he just seemed like he wanted to be confrontational.

 

[646791]

Yep a couple times. Once by a GF who was curious. Once in a more public setting. As long as I'm turned on, it is fun putting on a show. Is this further proof guys are weird?

 

[Jillang]

Yep a couple times. Once by a GF who was curious. Once in a more public setting. As long as I'm turned on, it is fun putting on a show. Is this further proof guys are weird?

Yes it is further proof
I understand knowing your measurements for things you wear but guys measuring your own weenies for fun seems wierd. Making your gfs do it is even wierder, I'm not judging about it but I just didn't know it was so common.

 

[PerfectlySexy]

I read a similar question in another post and thought I'd ask this here. Have any guys on here been measured by their gfs? I'm just curious. If so, what did you think about her doing it or just the whole situation?

Never.

 

[646791]

Yes it is further proof
I understand knowing your measurements for things you wear but guys measuring your own weenies for fun seems wierd. Making your gfs do it is even wierder, I'm not judging about it but I just didn't know it was so common.

Make? My GF did it because she was curious. Sure I could have told her but having her get me hard, play with it for a bit, and break out the ruler was far more fun.

 

[Jillang]

Make? My GF did it because she was curious. Sure I could have told her but having her get me hard, play with it for a bit, and break out the ruler was far more fun.

You're funny, sorry I guess "make" was the wrong word. I promise I'll never do it again.

 

[RealConnoisseur]

had an ex once that got me hard and drew around it with a pencil on a piece of paper, then used to carry it round with her! didn't mind that haha.

 

[Penisjokesarenotfunny]

Only if I am her biggest (at least in girth if not both). And also only if she won't believe a boyfriend she had before was bigger because he gave her false information. Yup.

 

[tdnet]

This is an interesting topic -

My experience with women I've been with sexually have told me that I have a huge cock. Moreover, some babes get really turned-on just by the sight of my big endowment when I'm totally rock hard and ready to go. Many women have actually over estimated my size to be a real foot-long to them, but I'm actually 10-inches and I don't like to fool them otherwise.

When I tell them that I'm not a 12 incher, some have wanted me to prove it! In those instances, we've used a tape measure so I can show them that I'm not as big as they might think I am... and it can be a fun experience too! Needless to say, they're still impressed by my length, but mostly they love the thickness of my member being nearly 7-inches in girth... because thickness is what is 'supposed' to be what women truly desire in a cock anyway, right?

Honestly, I don't see anything weird in measuring my dick... Who questions when women measure their breasts and butt to check their size to see if they have that perfect shape, or if they desire reductions or implants; plus, they have tons of plastic surgeons who can alter their apperance at a price... Men don't have that option, we get with what we're born with forever. Everyone wants to know they measure-up to things in life.

> Here's my examples:
http://www.lpsg.com/members/tdnet/albums/monstrous+erectus/536569-the-tape-measure-shows-it.html

http://www.lpsg.com/members/tdnet/albums/monstrous+erectus/702498-true-thickness.html

 

[Jillang]

This is an interesting topic -

My experience with women I've been with sexually have told me that I have a huge cock. Moreover, some babes get really turned-on just by the sight of my big endowment when I'm totally rock hard and ready to go. Many women have actually over estimated my size to be a real foot-long to them, but I'm actually 10-inches and I don't like to fool them otherwise.

When I tell them that I'm not a 12 incher, some have wanted me to prove it! In those instances, we've used a tape measure so I can show them that I'm not as big as they might think I am... and it can be a fun experience too! Needless to say, they're still impressed by my length, but mostly they love the thickness of my member being nearly 7-inches in girth... because thickness is what is 'supposed' to be what women truly desire in a cock anyway, right?

Honestly, I don't see anything weird in measuring my dick... Who questions when women measure their breasts and butt to check their size to see if they have that perfect shape, or if they desire reductions or implants; plus, they have tons of plastic surgeons who can alter their apperance at a price... Men don't have that option, we get with what we're born with forever. Everyone wants to know they measure-up to things in life.

> Here's my examples:
http://www.lpsg.com/members/tdnet/albums/monstrous+erectus/536569-the-tape-measure-shows-it.html

http://www.lpsg.com/members/tdnet/albums/monstrous+erectus/702498-true-thickness.html

I'm not touching the first part of your post but do you seriously think girls measure our breasts and butts? Only for clothes, maybe if we didn't have to measure for clothes we might be like guys about it but I doubt it. I can honestly say that I nor any other girl I know has measured their breasts or butt to see if we have a perfect shape...lol. Looked in the mirror from every angle and every lighting possible, yes, but measured no.
I guess I really don't see the comparisons between getting breast augmentation and measuring your own penis...lol.

 

[Jillang]

Only if I am her biggest (at least in girth if not both). And also only if she won't believe a boyfriend she had before was bigger because he gave her false information. Yup.

Really? Don't you think she could probably tell from just looking at it?

 

[D_Ida_Ho]

Had an ex measure me and yup was kind of weird. Now that i think about it, i'm sure she felt the same way about me and her bottom breastes. She found it enjoyable so i followed along.

 

[gma26_4521]

I have never had the request. Honestly, I would be thinking wtf? My first thought would be next woman as I would wonder what the problem with her is. If in a committed relationship and the topic came up I may feel differently depending on how the conversation brought us to this point. Guys and their dicks-penis envy. We are a pretty simple gender aren't we? 90 percent, or more?, of women don't give two shits about dick size. Thank god really, as the world would really be a mess if womens thought processes were similar to men! at:

 

[At.your.cervix]

I've been measured 3 times while in college, never since. It was always done in a playful manner and I didn't mind. If my memory serves me right, each of those measurements involved getting some outstanding oral sex in the process. So what's not to like?

 

[Shackleford]

I love it, and though many acts of sex play are just a simple matter of taste--you either like it or you don't--I think the reasons I find it hot are multifaceted.

First, as others have mentioned, there's no such thing as bad attention when it comes to a guy's penis, and for a well-endowed guy, there is certainly an element of showing off.

Beyond that, though, there's the objectification involved. It's tough to objectify a guy as a sex tool moreso than saying, "How big is your cock?" Also, when a woman is whipping out the tape and taking your measurement(s), she's doing just that: taking them. A guy's dick size is some pretty intimate information, and when the tape is in her hands, she's just helping herself to it, and with an at least implied context of judgement. All that adds up to some dominant/submissive context, which can also be pretty hot.

My wife was reluctant to measure me at first--she'd joke about it, but never would actually do it for some reason. Then, after the first time she did it, it was like a switch flipped and she got all into it. It's a pretty regular element of our play now--she whips out the tape about every few months. Most often, it's in the context of some roleplay (the pics in my gallery come from her "entering me into a contest"), but every so often she'll see a reference to size on a TV show or magazine and want to compare.

I remember one time, I was just sitting around at home doing some mundane thing, and she comes into the room asking, "How wide is your dick?" Turned out she had read some quoted average width in some women's magazine moments earlier. I told her there was only one way to find out: get me hard and whip out a ruler, which she did shortly thereafter.

 

[D_Iosephus_Dormmate]

My girlfriend's friends told her they thought I had a tiny dick once. She wasn't telling. When she told me this, I was furious! Then later, when we were getting it on, she asked if she could measure it. I said sure, it was kind of a turn on. She got a ruler, I laid back on the bed, and she measured along the top of the shaft. Silence. Her expression was that of shock and surprise. "Well?", I asked. "Four... and three quarters." What?! No way. I knew it wasn't huge or anything, but I was sure it was at least a fiver. I asked her to do it again. She happily obliged. "Four...", she squinted, "point eight inches". My heart sank. My raging boner shrivelled to a nub. Totally embarrassed, I whipped on my boxers and we went about the day. Flash forward to today, and the very thought makes me cringe with excitement. Her girlfriends were right... and I love it! Hehe