Feelings About Coming Here?

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  1. B_girthylover

    B_girthylover New Member

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    (If this post is not in the right forum, please move it.)

    When I first found this website, I thought it was great. There are a bunch of people like me who are lengthy and girthy. Pictures are posted everywhere, and it's easy to click and see full size photos. I came from tiavasforum where probably 95% of the posted pictures were of exceptionally small members, and no matter what they were told they had "big cocks" and such. I didn't say anything back because I know that was a sensitive subject. There were mainly 3-4 people that would reply though, and all of the replies seemed robotized if that makes sense...

    "Wow, great size, welcome!" or "I'd like to have that tonight!" I would see those same messages throughout a lot of posts, but that isn't the case here. Here, you have a ton of people that are interacting with each other and it's a great forum.

    I'm straight, no doubt. I "left" here a day or two after because I only joined here because I was in the middle of pumping and that kind of alters your brain and makes you do things you wouldn't do if you weren't under that "influence." I took pics and posted them, got reactions and such. But then I went in the shower, got done and came back and felt completely different.

    Why are we here sharing pictures of our cocks? One guy even said he would drive across the USA to suck me off...and I hadn't talked to him for more than 30 seconds. What the hell? That is scary.

    I took down my pics and requested that I get a ban and that all of my posts be deleted, but that's not an option here.

    So I would like to ask...why are YOU here, and is it something you feel comfortable about doing?

    And the big question...when was the turning point in your life when you decided that showing your cock to thousands of people would be ok, and some of you all do it with your face...something where your friends have a slight chance of seeing you...is there no social life for you, or do you not care? Is it a culture thing? Maybe I'm the one that isn't normal? I don't know. These are my thoughts. I realize that this post may not be looked at kindly by LPSG admins/mods as it may discourage people from coming here.

    I also know that some of you may respond to me by saying something like "if you don't want to come here, leave" or "you chose to come here, we didn't force you" but I am asking you why you are here? What changed when you were younger that led you to think "I'm ok with sharing my pics with anyone no matter what, and maybe even my face too...I don't care." There's a remarkable transformation happening there I think.

    Remember that I, too, posted pics and posts and such, but this is all very strange and I have recoiled and decided that I was crazy to post any pictures of myself. Ok I'm done...sorry that was so long...
     
  2. jason_els

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    Your face is your face. Your cock is your cock. If you have hang-ups about posting them then I suggest asking why you fear doing so? Men have penises and faces. When you mark the, "Male," box on a form you're declaring that you do, in fact, have a penis and testicles.

    I don't care if my friends see me here. I'd be a bit embarrassed if my sisters or mother saw me but I think they're aware that I have a penis and, as an adult, I can show it to whomever is interested. I was far more worried that it wasn't all that impressive but I bit the bullet and I'm glad I did. It's liberating.

    Don't live in fear of what everyone else will think. It's not healthy. They're going about their lives, not living yours for you. If they have issues with your personal choices then that's their problem.
     
  3. B_DEATHbyCARROT

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    I lurked for a bit before posting pics. I posted purely because I wanted to know how I stacked up compared to other guys. Frankly the average strait guy doesn't see many hard penises other than porn, and those guys are chosen for size mostly so it's not an acurate representation of what's out there. You might also ask girls who you have been with, but they could easily have alterior motivation for giving an answer (like she really likes you or you dicked her around).

    So I wanted to get honest impressions of it. I would not show my face tho. It's cool as long as it's anonymous, and all I show is my cock. I plan to delete my pics eventually, but I honestly like the crew around here so I will probably always post in secret...
     
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    I would say I'm definitely comfortable showing my body & dick. Maybe when someone first gets on here it may be their horniness that is driving them to show off. After a while the whole thing may seem too intense for some peeps. Also it's just my opinion but I think some people are uncomfortable with their bodies and want to use a forum like this to like themselves more and to get approval.

    Make sense?
    :biggrin1:
     
  5. viking1

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    I enjoy the intellect and support here. It took me a while to get up nerve enough to post pictures. I mainly did it to see what others would think about me. I haven't been laughed off here yet, so that makes me feel a bit better.
    To begin with I wasn't too sure if that would happen or not...
     
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    so why are you here??whatever your answer is probably thats the answer of some..and why are you posting your pictures??you know for sure you can receive comments..

    i saw this site when i was looking for an enlargment options..exercises,pills etc..it was first in yahoo groups so i joined..and i find the topics interesting so i commented on some and joined lpsg..it's not because i wanna see dick pics 'which you can see in internet'..you can post or upload pics but if you dont have the confidence better not try to..
     
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    Feelings About Coming Here?

    I love my penis and have a thing for guys and their dicks. None of my friends like to make it a topic for discussion, so I come here for that. The stories, humor, and information are alone worth my time, and I've made a few friends to boot.
     
  8. D_HarryNutz

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    For me it started as a place to look and compare, and after getting a taste of all that goes on, I got the "when in rome" feeling and decided to post some photos to see what kind of feedback I'd get. Sort of like an artist hanging up his painting for others to critique. I've always been an exhibitionist and this is better for my skin than a nude beach.

    Life is too short to be uptight about nudity!!!
     
  9. Mr. Snakey

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    I was a reader before i joined. Naughty and Pecker are two people who caught my attention. Very bright with a warmth in their words. So i felt at home even before i joined. I joined for the sex but the heart's won me over....
     
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    I originally came here to look at pictures of guys' penises :smile: but I don't spend that much time doing that as there is so much else that is interesting here :confused: I originally posted a pic because I thought than one should to try to fit in - kinda like at a nudist beach one should preferably take ones clothes off :rolleyes: I was brought up to hate and despise the body and for the longest time I had so many hangups that I would not show my face or cock or anything inbetween anywhere :redface: fortunately I have largely overcome that conditioning and I am now very comfortable with all of my body and I don't feel that I have to hide it from anyone for any reason ... of course in public one is constrained by the prevailing social conventions of our time, so it is nice to find a place where it is ok to let it all hang out :cool: ... my dick is after all a very natural thing and not something to be ashamed or frightened of :eek: and my face is not that hard to look at either :smile: if anyone I know comes here to look at cocks and happens to see mine I would not be the least bit embarassed :wink: if they choose to have their own hangups about it they are welcome to them but I have no desire to participate in such childish nonsense :confused: I already wasted half my life worrying about what other people might or might not think of me before realising that my being comfortable with myself is infinitely more important :biggrin1: ... hangups are for telephones and not for me or my freely dangling bit which tends to hang more down than up altho' I might sometimes show some things up too :tongue:
     
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    Im here bc I like big cock and I am not ashamed
     
  12. prince_will

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    i came here for the celeb pics, but i got to love the community and threads.

    ooh! my 600th post!
     
  13. B_girthylover

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    I want to respond to you guys by saying I am very impressed by your replies. It is hard to find such integrity on any message board anywhere these days, and it's nice to see. I was fearing I was going to get flamed, but you guys gave well-informed, intelligent responses. Thank you.
     
  14. prince_will

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    yes. this is a reason why you should stick around. i've usually met alot of nice, decent, smart people on this site. i'm always glad i found this.
     
  15. MidwestGal

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    I am still here due to some amazing people I have met. No question that I do enjoy a nice big cock, but it is not a pre-requisite with me. Personality, goes a lot farther and if I meet someone great. If not, I continue to enjoy the company of my friends here.
     
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    Tit for tat? I dunno....I am curious about my size and about where I 'stand' among my peers, and I have seen others' cocks, so why not show mine? KindasortamaybeIguess

    Scary why? You'll get propositions all over the webz, but you don't have to accept the offer. Now, *had* you accepted...yeah, that's a bit scary; but again, that's true of any 'relationship' started on-line.

    More or less; I still have a bit of anonymity, and not much else to lose if I lose that.

    I sincerely doubt any of my friends check this site or any other that has my pic (whether I posted it or not)! But I suppose I figured it was "okay" when a female friend of mine saw my pics and bragged about 'em. I finally felt comfortable enough with my size that I wasn't going to be humiliated (even virtually).

    That said, I still won't do a "face shot."

    Both?!

    What do you mean?
     
  17. kjguy

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    Girthylover,
    I am so happy I ran into this thread. I have a constant battle between my head, and, well my "other head." haha! But seriously, I do often do things in the moment that I would never think of otherwise, and frankly it does scare me to death sometimes. I've had moments where I told myself I'm swearing off sex, because I didn't want to deal with this craziness anymore. Ofcourse, that doesn't work out so well.

    I've had videos on xtube for awhile, and someone I knew from school saw them, and I got completely embarassed and wiped my entire account there out. I've heard rumors that my Dad has seen my xtube vids too, and that freaks me out more. I actually got referred here by someone on xtube.

    When I finally came here, I loved that it was a place that I can talk to people about anything and everything without feeling uncomfortable. I've posted pictures of my cock, but I left my face out, so that it couldn't be directly tied to me. However, once I started modeling nude, it didn't seem to matter anymore. I modeled as a support for artisitic expression, and I wouldn't have done it if I the pics would end up pornographic or crude in any way. As long as my nude pics are a form of art, I can feel better about showing them and promoting them, because I have a real appreciation for art.

    My main worry with posting nude pics was how it would effect my career if god forbid, I ever got famous for my acting. And if someone I knew personally saw them. Which is why I don't really promote my own straightforward nudity anymore. I've figured that if I get called out for my modeling pics, I have the fact that they were modeling pics, because many models pose nude, and that they are art in my defense. Many of my friends know I have done nude modeling now, and it's all ok. They know they're not distasteful and understand that it was a job.

    So there's my rant! Why am I here!? Because I get to share my opinions and tell my stories and learn about everyone else's. I love it!!
     
  18. zawfi

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    I joined for the cock, and stayed for the people. Not to be flippant, but what I mean is that, like you and some of the respondents on this thread, I came to the site "in the heat of the moment," then found that the forums and chat room here are full of smart, witty, patient, and tolerant people. Some of the best chat you can find anywhere on the interwebs is here, and that's why I stick around and expect to do so for the foreseeable future.

    I never posted pics of my dick until I did so here. By posting anonymously, without face pics, I feel comfortable enough that it won't interrupt my "real" life, which may be a risky and na&#239;ve belief, but I really don't have a deep concern about it. I have found out that I not a huge guy, maybe just slightly above average in some respects, and although that is humbling, I basically already knew that. This site just added more perspective, in more ways than one. The cool thing here is that people are by and large cool with who you are and aren't dicks.
     
  19. ramwella

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    I logged onto LPSG b/c I've always wanted to have a free and open discussion with other men about sex and male sexuality. It's ironic: men think a lot about sex, yet they rarely speak frankly to other men about their sexuality.

    In college, sex talk with guys was always about conquests; about getting more or outdoing the next guy. I listened and laughed, but rarely contributed to the conversations b/c they were nonsense and sophomoric. As a married adult, I've got great friends to confide in, but our conversations have never bordered on frank discussions about sexuality. It's the proverbial man line that is never crossed.

    I'd love to just sit around and talk to other guys about sex I've had with women and men, and talk without fear of being judged. I'd be willing to talk face-to-face with a group of friends or strangers. It would be healthy and helpful to hear how other men feel they measure up and fall short; how they cope with or conquer their insecurities.

    So, short of those revelations, LPSG has been the best resource and only outlet for me. I have chosen to remain anonymous b/c I never know who all is lurking and hitch-hiking on the internet highway. I work for a conservative firm, and getting tagged with the LPSG label would be career suicide. I guess I could still anonymously post a picture of my dick, but I've always been more of a flirt rather than a flaunt.
     
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    I've been something of an exhibitionist for quite time now. I remember when I had a good pal who was, in every way, my dick twin: identical dicks in every way (right down to the curve). We used to whip them out with very little provocation for any disbelievers. That was a good 15 years ago now...

    I'm not really certain that anyone, friend or otherwise, who'd like to see my dick in person hasn't already. It's really no big mystery that I have a big dick and show it off.

    FYI- I have a very active social life. My involvement in LPSG neither harms nor helps it.
     
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