Feelings on taking Anon Loads

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Hey Y'all!

So I wanted to get a general consensus for how y'all feel about taking loads anonymously. My friend who's a bottom does these "parties" where he invites random tops to his hotel room and takes their loads. I've asked him if he is not worried about STD's, to which he replies to me that he is on PreP, and will usually take some antibiotic shots a week or two after doing these parties to get rid of any potential STD's he might have picked up. To be quite honest, I see this type of behavior quite commonly where taking as many loads as possible becomes the purpose of a fun night out. In no way am I condoning, nor condemning it. It simply is what it is. I have been curious to try it, but I'm pretty paranoid about STD's (I'm on Prep btw), so I'll probably not do it. I guess my question is how to y'all feel about this? And if you do engage in this behavior, how do y'all reconcile with the possibility of getting an STD?

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It's an interesting fetish to say the least with a lot of risks. I suppose the risks are what make it so appealing for those sexual thrill seekers. When I get on apps like Sniffies I see multiple listings for group meetups that involve a bottom receiving multiple anonymous loads and there seem to be a lot of guys that join those groups meaning they will participate. I don't know how many of those guys actually show up to load the bottom up. I think people really need to consider also that some of the stds that are out there are becoming antibiotic resistant and it's possibly due to behavior like this. There is also a new strain of HIV out there that is more aggressive. Prep is only going to protect for so long before the HIV virus is much stronger. I do believe there are reports showing that there are people catching HIV despite being on prep. Prep is great but it should not be an excuse to behave recklessly.
 

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STD's.

Please fuck responsibly.

I know, "we know, don't nag us" ... ... ...

If you're gonna do what you do, do you ya fuck. But don't expect the rest of the world to not tell you that consideration is pretty fuckin awesome.

Imagine, someone who knows for a fact that they have a fully communicable disease which could kill *you* gives it to you for the sake of ONE ORGASM...

Oh, wait... Nvm. I live in the USA in the age of COVID.
Apparently spreading potentially deadly disease with no protection is all the fucking rage.

As you were. Or, maybe, just wear a condom? It's really not that traumatic. In fact, it keeps traumatic things from happening. I worded that much more offensively to begin, but editing happened. Calm down TnJ. No one's listening anyway.
 

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It's an interesting fetish to say the least with a lot of risks. I suppose the risks are what make it so appealing for those sexual thrill seekers. When I get on apps like Sniffies I see multiple listings for group meetups that involve a bottom receiving multiple anonymous loads and there seem to be a lot of guys that join those groups meaning they will participate. I don't know how many of those guys actually show up to load the bottom up. I think people really need to consider also that some of the stds that are out there are becoming antibiotic resistant and it's possibly due to behavior like this. There is also a new strain of HIV out there that is more aggressive. Prep is only going to protect for so long before the HIV virus is much stronger. I do believe there are reports showing that there are people catching HIV despite being on prep. Prep is great but it should not be an excuse to behave recklessly.
Anecdotally speaking, I do feel an increased pressure to engage in unprotected sex, not that I give in. I'm pretty stubborn in my ways. I take on a very nonchalant attitude about it -- mostly keeping true to the attitude of "it's just sex, if I can't get any today, maybe next week". Therefore, I don't feel the need to step out of my comfort zone and engage in unprotected sex for the sake of getting laid. I suppose there is a certain element of fetishization, like you said, which inherently makes the bottom more attractive to tops and vice versa.
 

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Hey Y'all!

So I wanted to get a general consensus for how y'all feel about taking loads anonymously. My friend who's a bottom does these "parties" where he invites random tops to his hotel room and takes their loads. I've asked him if he is not worried about STD's, to which he replies to me that he is on PreP, and will usually take some antibiotic shots a week or two after doing these parties to get rid of any potential STD's he might have picked up. To be quite honest, I see this type of behavior quite commonly where taking as many loads as possible becomes the purpose of a fun night out. In no way am I condoning, nor condemning it. It simply is what it is. I have been curious to try it, but I'm pretty paranoid about STD's (I'm on Prep btw), so I'll probably not do it. I guess my question is how to y'all feel about this? And if you do engage in this behavior, how do y'all reconcile with the possibility of getting an STD?

Thanks
Where the heck is he even getting these antibiotics ? Cause stds need specific ones
 

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Where the heck is he even getting these antibiotics ? Cause stds need specific ones
He wasn't tremendously detailed in his description, but he goes to Mexico. I didn't feel like interrogating him about it, but I too was slightly confused as to how one goes about treating STD's with antibiotic shots, seeing, as you mentioned, that STDS need specific treatments, from my understanding.
 

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Hey Y'all!

So I wanted to get a general consensus for how y'all feel about taking loads anonymously. My friend who's a bottom does these "parties" where he invites random tops to his hotel room and takes their loads. I've asked him if he is not worried about STD's, to which he replies to me that he is on PreP, and will usually take some antibiotic shots a week or two after doing these parties to get rid of any potential STD's he might have picked up. To be quite honest, I see this type of behavior quite commonly where taking as many loads as possible becomes the purpose of a fun night out. In no way am I condoning, nor condemning it. It simply is what it is. I have been curious to try it, but I'm pretty paranoid about STD's (I'm on Prep btw), so I'll probably not do it. I guess my question is how to y'all feel about this? And if you do engage in this behavior, how do y'all reconcile with the possibility of getting an STD?

Thanks
I do this as well .. not this past weekend but weekend before I left a sign for a good time message me and we talked Facebook and one guy said he was into bondage and stuff .. so as I got these guys together which was only 5 guys.. that would love to take part in this bondage event ..

we all met at my place as I had a play room in basement of my house and when they saw it they acted like they were a bunch of kids in a room full of candy..

this was first time for couple of them to do bondage but the others showed them and as usual they said they like using a magic word to stop.. I was like only word I can think of is stop .. they all smiled said good enough..

needless to say when they were done I was exhausted and sore for few days .. the marks they put on me with the belts and whips have just about healed and my ass is still sore because they got rough.. I prob should told them take it easy but I enjoyed the pain..

as they left one guy says same time next month.. I said sure .. one of you or all of you it doesn’t matter


what about you. .. you ever do it with more than o e like theeesomes or does it scare you
 
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I will say this... There are a lot of "thrill seekers" out there. Why? Have no idea. In my area I've seen these anon load party invites on online with sometimes 20 guys attending. With the stipulation "bareback only". Crazy.
 
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Uh uh! No just no! Prep is a great thing to have and hopefully one day itll knock hiv out because everyone will be on it in some form, but as it stands right now too few people are on it even though everyone says they are on it! Besides there are still other things gono, chlam, hpv, herp, trich that prep doesnt cover! Chlam and gono are becoming increasingly resistant to antibiotics so getting a new strain on that isnt good! I'm sorry I'd rather be safe than sick. Asthma is enough and expensive enough I need no more ailments!
 
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STD's.

Please fuck responsibly.

I know, "we know, don't nag us" ... ... ...

If you're gonna do what you do, do you ya fuck. But don't expect the rest of the world to not tell you that consideration is pretty fuckin awesome.

Imagine, someone who knows for a fact that they have a fully communicable disease which could kill *you* gives it to you for the sake of ONE ORGASM...

Oh, wait... Nvm. I live in the USA in the age of COVID.
Apparently spreading potentially deadly disease with no protection is all the fucking rage.

As you were. Or, maybe, just wear a condom? It's really not that traumatic. In fact, it keeps traumatic things from happening. I worded that much more offensively to begin, but editing happened. Calm down TnJ. No one's listening anyway.
Exactly. I have gay and bisexual men as friends who when they were single and having sex with random strangers they would use condoms for anal sex, oral sex, and for the ones into rimming or licking asses they used dental dams or cut up condoms.

Prep may keep someone HIV- 60 to 70% of the time, but if someone is on prep and having sex without condoms with random people like it is 1972 eventuality they will get pozzed or get any other number of diseases.

There are strains or types of HIV prep does not protect against, not everyone on prep or who claims to be on prep takes it daily or gets tested for HIV and STDs, and prep does nothing to prevent infection/transmission of other diseases.
 
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Right?! And in 2020 I was in enough of a tailspin because I thought I caught something!
Pretty much every guy I’ve followed on OF that does random hookups doesn’t wear a condom. You’d think we’ve solved STD’s or something!
 
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Worse out it happened to me first time out the gate! Thankfully it was nothing but not everyone will be that lucky!
 

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He wasn't tremendously detailed in his description, but he goes to Mexico. I didn't feel like interrogating him about it, but I too was slightly confused as to how one goes about treating STD's with antibiotic shots, seeing, as you mentioned, that STDS need specific treatments, from my understanding.
If you go to a doctor and say you've been exposed (which is very likely in an anonymous group breeding party) they will usually provide antibiotics for you then and there. There are free sexual health clinics in most major cities, as well as Planned Parenthood, or even some urgent care facilities will treat for sexual health. Chlamydia and gonorrhea are both treated with the same antibiotic, syphilis you have to get a shot in your butt cheek (usually). CDC advises that anyone who is sexually active get tests every 3 months, personally I'd say if you're doing raw sex parties you should just go approx 2 weeks after doing something like this, every time.
 

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I am not at all judging the fetish, and I think that this could be incredibly hot for the bottom, or even for Top number X using other guys' cum as lube. The "unsafe sex" part baffles me -- not unsafe as in disease risk, but the "I am blindfolded with my ass up in the air for anyone who wants to come in and fuck me" rob you blind part. If I were a thief looking for new, guaranteed, surefire ways to rob someone, I'd cruise doublelist and grindr for these ads and proceed accordingly.