Feelings you had during puberty

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  1. rlmnn

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    Hi,

    beeing rather on the average side, I wonder what was it like for you to grow up with a big (or maybe even huge...) dick.

    Did you have some years in your life when your dick was much too big for your body? How did you feel at that age? When and how did you realize it?

    Was your size ever commented by friends or adults? Were you shy and tried to hide your dick from others viewings? Did you show a bulge in early years? What did you do during swimming and how did you handle spontaneous erections?

    Please include your soft and hard size so that we can seen how big your teenage "problem" was.

    Thanks,

    rlmnn
     
  2. rlmnn

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    What would be interesting, too:

    How did you feel and behave in situations when you were forced to undress in front of others? Communal showers at school, locker rooms, medical exams, sleep overs and so on...
     
  3. Alley Blue

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    Great question!
    As a teen, it seemed like every time I would get an erection, it would be bigger then the last time I had an erection (i'm around 2inchs soft and 8x6 erect).
    I really noticed how big my dick was when I was in the shower jerking off. Or laying down in the tub with the shower on, as it grows from a semi to a full erection. Feels like a big piece of salami in my hands :evilgrin:
     
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    You never know til you've seem other erections - you need something to compare it to. I'm a grower like Alley Blue. Soft anywhere from 2 - 5 inches (8x6 now, used to be 5- 5.5 around when younger). Saw others who were showers and thought they must grow appropriately but found out later in life that that wasn't true.

    First I'd heard about being on the large size was sharing a toilet with another male at house parties where the line up to the can went quicker that way. Comments were usually made while I peed trying not to look at the other guy out of respect.

    Also comments made at Stag parties where they had porn on. Others would say look at the cock on that guy and I'd be thinking, "That isn't so big"

    I did feel like almost the only one in school who had hardon's at wrong times. (like right before the bell rang) Only saw one other guy with a huge bone in the school halls.
     
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    rlmnn New Member

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    How about the show-ers?

    Having a huge soft dick at an early age must be much more difficult than being large only when erect. Right?

    Feel free to add a reply even if you were not in that position yourself, but maybe noticed how classmates, friends or other teens managed their situation with an abnormally large member.
     
  6. belinoitaliano

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    When I was 13-14, my penis was 7.25" long and about 2 inches wide when hard. I don't know how big I was soft, but I'm still a "shower" (6 inches soft), so I imagine I was even moreso at that age. I was also having growth spurts and many of my clothes were undersized at the time, so - YES- I was often very visable when soft. As I'm sure it is with many of you, kids made jokes about me having erections even when I didn't.

    When I was getting used to it, it did feel like I was carrying a flounder in my pants, and I remember walking down the hall and having people gawk at it and snicker. In gym classs I would sometimes "flap around" when doing jumping jacks, which made some kids almost fall down with laughter. I'm not gonna pretend like it was traumatic or anything, the only uncomfortable thing was one of my teachers calling my mom because of what she heard her students say. Also, another of my teachers said something to the class about not giggling like they're looking at Playboy, and how they shouldn't laugh at something that's a gift from God (true story-- I wish I could remember exactly what she said.)

    By high school, I "owned" my size, and would walk around grabbing my bulge so people had to look at it. For the most part I have pretty entertaining memories of growing up well-endowed. As a small kid who was never physically bullied, it might have spared me more trouble than I realized at the time.
     
  7. B_JohnTheHorse

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    I was very large growing up. When I turned 16 I was well over 9" and very thick too. I went to great lengths to hide it, to varying degrees of success. My biggest fear and issue was getting an erection which was impossible to hide. I was scared to death of taking a shower after PE both because of my size and the fear I would get an erection. One morning I woke up to a mess all over my sheets - a wet dream. I didn't tell my parents or anyone but was freaked out about it at first. Then it started happening on a semi regular basis and I got used to it. Another time I noticed after getting an erection that all this clear sticky stuff would come out of my piss slit which also freaked me out until I learned what 'precum' was and also got used to it. The hardest thing was keeping it all secret and discreet as I was very embarassed about it. And I kept growing: by time i was 19 I was my full size of 10.5x7. gradually over the next few years I came to be ok with having huge size and accepted it.
     
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    As a teenager there were two main results of discovering I was bigger than most guys:

    1) I was quite a bit more confident in myself and didn't worry whether a girl would be unhappy with it. I didn't brag or anything, but when you're quietly confident about something (whatever it is) you'll be more attractive.

    2) I seemed to end up dating the friends of the last girl I dated.
     
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    I didn't realize it really until after I started dating guys and they didn't want to bottom for me.
     
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    I was a very early developer and my penis reached its full adult size by about age 13. I am/was a shower and given that I was well under 5' tall at that age, my dick was totally disproportionate to the rest of me.

    Locker rooms in my 7th grade gym class were particularly painful. At that age most guys are still pretty small and undeveloped, maybe 1-2" soft, so with my own 5-6" soft at that age I felt like a colossal freak. When you are 13 you want nothing more than to conform and be just like everyone else ... I remember desperately wishing that year that I could be "nice and small, like all the other guys."

    Steve
     
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    i grew very strangly when i was younger. by the time i was in 4th grade (first time i measured) i was about 6 inches hard and 4 inches soft. i had no idea this was big. i knew i was almost twice as big as most of my friends but thought they would catch up. at this time i showed a lot b/c i didnt think about it. ive seen a number of pictures of me when i was younger where you can see a big bulge. after that i didnt grow for a while. in 8th grade most of the guys had caught up to me and some of my friends passed me. so at this point i thought i was on the small side b/c many of my close friends were bigger than me. i was pretty shy at this point. in High School i started growing again, but was really shy. by the end of junior year i was about 8 inches hard and 5 soft. that is when i found out i was much larger than average. i was less shy and didnt mind showing or having people see it. I am now almost 9 hard and 6 soft and still have that same mentality
     
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    My earliest memory is the 6th grade PE showers. It was my first realization that my dick/balls were bigger and more developed than other boys my age. Quite honestly, I remember being more interested in pubic hair growth than dick size at the time. As I moved into high school, I remember being surprised at the number of guys that talked about their dick size, but from what I saw in the locker room were essentially average or below. I was a quiet kid and really preferred to blend. Didn't talk about what I had, 7 inches hard at the time I would guess.
    Remember once after a particularly boring class, I left the room with a very spontaneous and noticeable bulge pressing against my jeans. There was one of the popular guys standing outside the classroom with his girlfriend. They had been making out and I (and everyone else) could see the full outline of his erection against his white carpenter pants. Both of them saw me trying to adjust/conceal myself. For the first time in 4 years I saw a look of understanding from someone that I don't think knew I existed. By the time I got to college and shared a house with 2 other guys, I started to feel more comfortable. Hence the username. Thanks for a great question!
     
  13. jay_too

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    By the time I was 10 or so, I had long since figured out that I was different. I was a day student in a private school in London. As I remember, every day I got panted by school thugs to see my cut dick and bush. I was beginning to sprout a few pubics. One thug took immense pleasure in reaching over and yanking out a few short hairs. It was great to get back to the states and away from the bullying. At that time, I was a small skinny kid whose growth spurt had only occurred between the legs.

    By the time I was 13/14 and using a change room, I had close friends and hence, protection. However, the funniest remarks about my nether regions came from those clowns.

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    Interesting question. Well I'd just finished puberty (almost anyway) and was about 16 when I found out my penis was bigger than average. I didn't think anything of it. Most anyone ever commented on my penis that I remember is 'do you put it on the sunbed?' cos it is a tan colour.

    I was drunk and a mate tells me some girls pulled my pants down and said it was 'big and bushy' but I have no recollection.

    Even when I (usually drunkenly) told people my size, no one believed me lol. Now I keep it quiet.
     
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    I agree good post. Now I am not close to huge, but above average for sure. Anyway, I (17)was certian that I was average at very best until my first girlfriend (16) and sexual experience. She had been with 8 or 10 guys and said I was her biggest, which was a shock and a relief. She even talked me up to her friends and you know how teenage girls can gossip. Anyway when it was all said and done I was still a bit insecure because the expectations were now that I had some monster between my legs so....that's how it played out for me.

    G
     
  16. kurt45

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    Having an unusaully large penis when I was young was difficult. (10"x6" Now?) I don't know what it was back then because I didn't measure it. But when I was 12 I noticed that my erections were getting large. One morning I got up out of bed with an hard-on and I looked in the mirror and I was shocked at the size. My penis looked like it didn't belong on my body.

    In the locker rooms the guys would just stare at it with mouths apape. When I had a physical at one time the Doctor(who was male) brought in another Doctor (who was female) to show her my penis. Now, that was embarassing, especially when you're a young guy. For some reason, my penis immediatley grew to a full erection. Boy, that was embarassing. But the looks on their faces was astonishement.

    When I got a girlfriend, when we had sex, it seemed to hurt her at first but when she got wet it slid right. She called the size of my penis horrendous.

    Now I shy away from pissing stalls I just go in the full stalls to avoid suck encounters.
     
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    I never really thought about it until someone made a comment when I was in the shower in gym class when I was fifteen years old. I guess I had realised before then that my cock was larger than that of my classmates, but I never attached any importance to the fact. Some guys had big feet, big ears, big noses; I had a big cock. It didn't mean much to me, and it certainly didn't define who I was. My friends made jokes about it from time to time, but they were never mean. I never really experienced the pain that others talk about. I don't think that my endowment had much of an impact on me while growing up. If it did, it certainly sunconscious.
     
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    Do you remember what it was he said or your reponse?

    Doug
     
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    Gosh, some of the responses here echo my experiences.

    Ive always been tall and when I was younger I assumed that being tall meant that you were just proportionately bigger.

    I remember sixth grade showers, as well, and while the guys were checking out my size, I was checking out the hair some of them had. Also checking out porn, having friends comment on the huge cock that a guy has, and responding that it's not really big. But it wasn't until I was in 9th grade, showering with the 12th grade 18 yo "men" seeing that mine was much larger, while having them comment on my "big stick" or having a "knee knocker" or sporting a semi. After I matured, I found it amusing knowing that the guys who accused me of having a hard on most likely were unfortunatley petite in the cock area. HA HA HA fuckers!

    Just like anything, you have to grow and mature into owning it.
     
  20. jonb

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    For me, I had suspicions I was bigger, from looking at other guys, but I only really put it together the first time I had sex.
     
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