I don't know what it is, but I'm in a situation where I'm just meeting some girls I really wanted, but for one shitty reason or another, it just hasn't panned out. And I'm bumming. Case 1: Met this one older woman about a month ago while up in Whistler. Very much a size queen and once she found out, couldn't keep her hands off my crotch. Friend cock blocked me. I wasn't too bummed because she was older and not quite my type, but I was horny and some sex would have been better than none. Case 2: I wrote about this girl in one of my previous posts. Long story short, I didn't have my magnums and the condoms she had would not work for me. She texted me back (on my b-day of all days) and said that she wouldn't be down for hooking up again. That was a fucking bummer and a half! Case 3: Met a girl on Match.com. Not a hookup, and certainly didn't discuss my goods or other things that could have scared her off. It was a normal date, but with a really hot girl. I thought it went well and when we were done, she said she'd be down for going out again. Later, she e mails me and says that she "didn't feel that connection". I'm not one to push that, so I let it go and told her thanks for at least not leaving me hanging. It feels like regardless of coming across good opportunities for love, sex, dating, and relationships, the powers that be continue to give me a proverbial slap in the face. Worse, I don't know what I can do to shake it off. Any suggestions?