Fellow straight guys: Watching another dude jerking off is hot?

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  1. elgrande

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    The only explanation I can think of is that we inmediately think of ourselves doing it, which is always hot. What do you think?
     
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    I agree with you man! We men associate with other guys cocks and pleasure. For instance in porn....most of us want to see a big cock fucking a woman, as we like to imagine ourselves as having that big cock buried inside of that pussy. Well the same goes with watching other guys masturbate....We like to imagine that we are that guy jerking off and having that big cock in our hands bringing ourselves pleasure (if that makes sense).
     
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    I don't really get into watching another guy, especially if it's video and not live. I'm much more tactile than visual.
     
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    I agree exactly with unabear09 but I agree with art too: imagining being at thew guy's place is really hot but for masturbation I prefer having a little side look to my jo buddy when we watch porn rather then a guy solo jerk off video
     
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    You think like I do
     
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    great point art, tsun and JBisme. Watching a vid of a guy jerking off can get boring. I still want a J/O buddy damnit
     
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    I guess I will say the entire experience is erotic and good. You have a buddy, a friend, not some random person. You and he share interests, and work and do guy stuff. You may even both have girlfriends, or married, that will not stop you. You spend time with maybe a beer and a porno, no special place or time, just when the mood strikes ya. One old buddy of mine camping in highschool we didn't even have a porn, just our thoughts.

    You glance at each other, you hear his breathing change, and you enjoy the bonding. When the time comes (no oun intended), you are going to look, it is like a magnet drawing metal.

    When it is over, you clean up, and dress and go on about the daily activties. You know he will want to do it as much as you after the first times and his reactions.

    Do straight guys ever touch the other? as for me, yes, thighs, knees and maybe even a few seconds of that penis grab.
     
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    See now man....I want a guy friend like that so badly. I don't really even care that much about the J/o'ing part (though it would be fucking sweet if we were that comfortable around each other), I just want a guy friend that I can do things with , and talk about everything...any straight guy here in NW Alabama looking for a great straight guy friend? sigh
     
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    Other than comparing and imagining his pleasure as yours, there is not much in watching a guy masturbating in vid.

    At least you can have a few words with a real JO buddy.
     
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    Um...no. I'm not turned on at all watching another dude masturbate. I have a penis. Why would I want to see someone else's?

    Maybe this is for the "straight" dudes, because I don't really know any straight dudes who want to watch another guy jerk off.
     
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    I like to watch!
     
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    haha I agree ! we do think of ourselves - we wanna be that guy and we honor it
     
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    I think it all depends on your level of comfort with being an exhibitionist wether or not you like to watch other men masturbate.

    Since you know what the feeling is like to get to that point, it can be enjoyable to watch another person get to that point as well.

    Watching another guy jack off can be hot, especially if he's got a good technique. When they jack off like they're having a spasm or some other weird movements, it turns me off.

    Alot of times, I'd rather watch a couple of guys stroking one out rather than even having sex. It's just a completely different experience.
     
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    Sorry but if you like to watch other men jack off, you're not straight...it's called bisexual.
     
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    may not be bisexual, just plain old voyeurism, some people like to watch. not me,sex is not a spectator sport, but some dude jacking is not gonna make me do the same. i get horny, I go get the wife, she fondles me and sucks me hard, jumps on top, or strokes the hell out of my cock. I like to share my cock with my wife, and she enjoys it, I enjoy it, in my case why jack off???
     
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    Having a JO session with your bud is GREAT. You frustrated "straight dudes" say what you want....but I have had a few in the past and currently enjoying one now. There are few stronger bonds than feeling so comfortable with your buddy that you can get naked, bone up and spank that bad boy. If it leads to a little touching, so be it. Quit being so uptight and enjoy life.....I hate the labels of "if you JO with a buddy you must be bi or gay" What a bunch of crap. Life is to be savored and enjoyed with both men and women....not to the same degree, but you can have fun with both. I for one consider myself to be straight...have had many girlfriends and throughly enjoy having sex with women....but I have a few JO buds and it's GREAT. I would not trade either.
    Grow up and have some fun....you don't know what your missing.
     
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    We sooo don't wanna go there again. This site just got over this debate two weeks ago. Apparently sexuality is in the eye of the beholder.
     
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    Lol well, people are confused...
     
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    I think you're having a hard time admitting that you have bisexual tendencies. Sorry, but we're not changing the meaning of the word straight just because some guys have trouble admitting they like cock...
     
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    Basically. I'm always so off-put when I see a thread with the word "Straight" but then all the dudes are describing bisexuality or homosexuality, lol.

    If you're watching another man masturbate you are not straight. You are either gay, bisexual, or in denial. No straight man wants to see another dude spread eagle beating it.