Fellow straight guys: Watching another dude jerking off is hot?

[lucky8]

Basically. I'm always so off-put when I see a thread with the word "Straight" but then all the dudes are describing bisexuality or homosexuality, lol.

If you're watching another man masturbate you are not straight. You are either gay, bisexual, or in denial. No straight man wants to see another dude spread eagle beating it.

Thank you! I feel like I'm the only guy on here who is repulsed by looking at other guys' dicks

 

[sparky11point5]

Guys --

I don't want to get into the 'is that gay' debate. Yet, consider this -- mainstream advertising (by demographics this means straight, relatively conservative, and non-offensive) uses very good looking men and women. I believe that we associate our own image with that in the advertising. We want to *be* the Marlboro Man, or the James Bond type, or whatever that is used to sell the product. I don't think this is the same as being *sexually attracted* to these images or people. Perhaps a lot of our fascination (guys in straight porn, looking at the gallery at LPSG) is more about self-image than straight/gay/bi/republican sexual attraction.

Sparky

 

[lucky8]

Guys --

I don't want to get into the 'is that gay' debate. Yet, consider this -- mainstream advertising (by demographics this means straight, relatively conservative, and non-offensive) uses very good looking men and women. I believe that we associate our own image with that in the advertising. We want to *be* the Marlboro Man, or the James Bond type, or whatever that is used to sell the product. I don't think this is the same as being *sexually attracted* to these images or people. Perhaps a lot of our fascination (guys in straight porn, looking at the gallery at LPSG) is more about self-image than straight/gay/bi/republican sexual attraction.

Sparky

Hmm, this is something I actually think about a lot. The question here is are advertisers and hollywood creating images or are they taking people's images from the real world and adapting them to their advertising? I think for the most part, people with images like the Marlbaro Man existed way before their advertisements were concocted, and the Marlbaro Man was created to appeal to people who already have that image, not vice versa. Sure, there are people who see this and think "I want to be like that," but all of these images stemmed from actual people and their styles, and are used to sell products to that target market. That's how I feel about it at least.

 

[HaagenDazs]

Thank you! I feel like I'm the only guy on here who is repulsed by looking at other guys' dicks

You aren't the only one lol.

Guys --

I don't want to get into the 'is that gay' debate. Yet, consider this -- mainstream advertising (by demographics this means straight, relatively conservative, and non-offensive) uses very good looking men and women. I believe that we associate our own image with that in the advertising. We want to *be* the Marlboro Man, or the James Bond type, or whatever that is used to sell the product. I don't think this is the same as being *sexually attracted* to these images or people. Perhaps a lot of our fascination (guys in straight porn, looking at the gallery at LPSG) is more about self-image than straight/gay/bi/republican sexual attraction.

Sparky

Using good looking people to sale a product isn't the same as a dude watching another dude jerk off.

Conceptually, the good looking women are marketed to the men and the good looking men are marketed to the woman. And in those instances when a man is marketing to a man, for instance a clothing ad, a straight dude is probably looking at the CLOTHES, not the dude in them. And if he is he's thinking to himself, "I want to get my body like that so I can wear that" or whatever.

I rarely if ever stare at a billboard, ad, commercial where men are prominently featured because it's usually of no interest.

But watching another man jerk off is not about body image. It's about sexual attraction. I imagine you would become aroused and would do the act with him. Or as some people described...watch. That's sexual attraction.

So I don't see the usage of good looking people to market items as having any parallel with a man proclaiming to be straight (by definition attracted to women) and yet wanting to watch another man jerk off or jerk off with another man. Sexual attraction versus marketing/body image run along different courses for me.

And again I don't know any straight men who do that or have any desire to do that. At least not in the capacity you all are describing.

I share an apartment with four roomates right now since we're all in college and it saves us goo-gobs of money. We're all dudes. Now at some point someone in the house might be jerking off. Do the other roommates know. Sometimes yea. But if I so happen to be passing someone's room, and they're door is closed, and I hear a porno or hear noise indicative of masturbation, I'm not going to go in, sit next to him, and bond. If we wanna bond we'll go to a ball game or to the park lol.

 

[ftlauderdale_frank]

Interesting that you say you are "repulsed" by looking at other men's junk, yet you frequent a site that is all about cocks.....UMMMM. Something to consider Lucky 8 and Haagen Dazs.

 

[HaagenDazs]

Interesting that you say you are "repulsed" by looking at other men's junk, yet you frequent a site that is all about cocks.....UMMMM. Something to consider Lucky 8 and Haagen Dazs.

Being on a site where other men show off their dicks is not an indication of sexuality. We all have our own galleries, and our own profiles. You will never see one comment from me in another man's gallery, you will never see me make comment about any men on this site in gallery or in the forums, and when gay/bi men send me PM's they never receive a reply. I use this site to post pics of my dick for comments and exhibitionism, and I view the women's gallery and I leave. The site may be about dicks, but the only one I'm interested in is mine.

So there's nothing to consider there.

 

[yngjock20]

^^Okay, Frank...let's not go there, either.

We know that this site is more about people with big cocks than it is about big cocks by themselves, so no calling the kettle black with that one.


I personally agree with the two straight guys Lucky and Haagen...

Straight guys aren't going to find any facet of the male appendage erotic in any way. The use of the appendage, maybe...but not the penis by itself.

So honestly, I can't truly say that it's possible for a unequivicably straight male to find enjoyment out of watching another man jack off.

 

[CALAMBO]

i kinda of catch the drift from this thread as it is OK, to watch a porn vid and j/o...but maybe not OK to do it in person with another dude,the gay fear seems to come out of the crowd, which i have not done and most likely would not...as an older adult just seem's like not a good thing to engage in...i believe we are taught that j/o is a personal act and is best kept private...isn't this what our mothers taught us??

 

[lucky8]

Interesting that you say you are "repulsed" by looking at other men's junk, yet you frequent a site that is all about cocks.....UMMMM. Something to consider Lucky 8 and Haagen Dazs.

Did it ever occur to you that we don't look at the gallery? Or talk dicks? Whatever floats your boat bisexual frank

 

[JohnDoeXXXm]

I don't think it's worth getting all "ugly" and unsocial in our posts- we should just leave it at "everyone is at a different place" and "different likes for different types."

These kind of bonding scenes don't happen that often for me, but if I am comfortable about the guy who I am hangin out with, then watching him doing something sexual isn't gonna creep me out.

If I'm alone with a buddy, chances are he's just that- a BUDDY- and if I'm in a situation where I am naked- or he is naked- that's even more reason to think that we've established a trust in our friendship that would allow for and encourage that nudity. If he wants to do something that I do too, (that most men do on a daily basis) I am not going to bust his balls about it.

To me, it's about accepting and embracing the whole person- and that means not compartmentalizing. If he's got his cock whipped out than he's decided that I don't pose a "threat"- either to his privacy, his sexuality, or his trust. That can be looked at as a compliment, at least in my book.

As a matter of fact, since all interpersonal relationships are mutually defined by the people present, I'd guess that his actions would be based upon his comfort level with me being present- or possibly walking in on him. If he was NOT relaxed about his decision to jack one off, possibly with some company, he'd wait until his next shower or until he had some guaranteed privacy.

Someone else mentioned that it's kinda cool to see someone else give himself some pleasure- and I'd agree with that. Depending on what I see and how the scene plays out, I might get some pleasure myself!

 

[psidom]

i am very far from gay but i DO appreciate the beauty of cock.

my idea of the "beauty" is not like a woman or a gorgeous pussy
it is more like how i see a 65 fastback mustang as a beauty.

if this makes me "gay" than colour me queer.:biggrin1:
cocks are powerful machines.

 

[curved huge]

I've been a lot to youth hostels when travelling and shared rooms with unknown guys. I found out how popular it is to see other guys jerking off in their beds, although you're resting there, one metter away.
And the funniest thing is that after one finishes, some other might start, turnbed on by the predecesor...
I've got to see several jerk offs in a single night

 

[MuscleBoundMan]

I don't know if it's gay but it turns me off. It can ruin a good porn if I am watching it and some dude starts playing with himself. Oddly, I love gang bang, so it doesn't make any sense. I want to see these big cocks pound that cooch in the ground, but I don't want to see five guys beatin' off waiting their turn? I have a friend that I watched porn and j/o with a couple of times, but it's not arousing to me to think about him. I just got to the point that I am so comfortable that I don't care. My wife really doesn't like me to jerk off to the point of cumming with her, because watching me gets her hot and she wants to fuck. That's great, but she does travel some, so its not always an option. She travels with my buddy's wife and so were left at home to entertain ourselves. We usually work out, eat, drink, watch sports, etc. But on a couple of occassions we've watch a new porn together, and that leads a need for release.

So back to the point, I don't think its gay.

 

[elgrande]

You know, it's interesting what Frank brought up about Haagen Dasz and Lucky8. Watching another guys whack off is all about voyeourism, as is this site. Haagen Dasz says you will never see him make a comment about another dude's dick, which implies that he does in fact check the galleries. Lucky8 goes as far as being a GoldMember. So, I wonder, isn't it the other way around? Aren't you guys repressed homos or, maybe bi?

As for me, I am in love with pussy. It's something I can't control. The sole thought of a pink, wet, shaved, pulsating pussy makes me shake. But sometimes watching another dude beating it makes me want to do it myself. I don't have any desire whatsoever to touch him or suck him off, let alone fuck him or have him fuck me. Believe me, I have tried to picture myself in these situations and it just doesn't fly with me. It actually makes me go soft. So, your "you're either gay or bi" bullshit isn't gonna work with me.

And finally, just so you know, the 1% gay in my profile means "I just registered at a site called 'Large Penis Support Group' where dudes with big dicks post naked pictures of themselves and look at others' galleries. I guess if I was a 9000% straight guy, I'd've run off".

 

[TripHammer]

all the "repulsion" seems like something deeper to me. seems like a form of self-hatred, like a christian who depends on god to take away temptation.

seems more productive to drop the labels and be who you are, without casting aspersions on other guys.

 

[Salty Jack]

Interesting thread.

Personally, I don't have interest in watching another guy jerk off - video or real life, with or without me. It just doesn't do anything for me.

I do, however, appreciate the look of an erect cock. When I was younger, I even self-sucked a bit - more for the kinky thrill of being able to do it rather than as an actual turn-on. I usually find soft cocks, and some erect ones kinda ugly.

So I know what you're thinking: Why is Jack on this site? Because my dick is too big for my wife, I don't get enough sex, and I'm a bit of an exhibitionist.

Jack

 

[223790]

See now man....I want a guy friend like that so badly. I just want a guy friend that I can do things with , and talk about everything...any straight guy here in NW Alabama looking for a great straight guy friend? sigh

I had a few friends like that in the past. It was great because we were guys who were so completely comfortable around each other in any situation. The only problem is that straight guys usually get married and their wives put a stop to all of their male bonding activities. I lucked out and married a really cool girl who gives me tons of freedom. Most of my guy friends (correction: ALL of my guy friends) married control freak women who had to be part of EVERYTHING they did. Suddenly they weren't allowed to be out with the guys anymore unless their wives came along. That immediately changed the group dynamic. I remember that at one boys night out where it was made completly clear that it was to be guys only, one of the guys wife showed up with his stepdaughter. I was so pissed off , but I didn't say anything. Needless to say I don't bother organizing guys nights with this particluar guy anymore. Unfortunately I have had to give up on many of my old guy friends because they are so whipped now that they can't fart without their wife's permission. It's pathetic, but it is what it is.

Oh yeah - about the topic. No, I don't like watching guys jerk off. I have been naked with all of my buddies before, slept in the same bed with them, showered and saunaed with them in the nude, changed in front of them, but NEVER jerked off with them. We would joke about it, but we never did that around each other. To me, that's something that should be done privately.

 

[adam]

I've never turned on while my roommate is jacking off next to my bed

 

[nubian]

I couldn't have said it better myself!

You know, it's interesting what Frank brought up about Haagen Dasz and Lucky8. Watching another guys whack off is all about voyeourism, as is this site. Haagen Dasz says you will never see him make a comment about another dude's dick, which implies that he does in fact check the galleries. Lucky8 goes as far as being a GoldMember. So, I wonder, isn't it the other way around? Aren't you guys repressed homos or, maybe bi?

As for me, I am in love with pussy. It's something I can't control. The sole thought of a pink, wet, shaved, pulsating pussy makes me shake. But sometimes watching another dude beating it makes me want to do it myself. I don't have any desire whatsoever to touch him or suck him off, let alone fuck him or have him fuck me. Believe me, I have tried to picture myself in these situations and it just doesn't fly with me. It actually makes me go soft. So, your "you're either gay or bi" bullshit isn't gonna work with me.

And finally, just so you know, the 1% gay in my profile means "I just registered at a site called 'Large Penis Support Group' where dudes with big dicks post naked pictures of themselves and look at others' galleries. I guess if I was a 9000% straight guy, I'd've run off".

 

[kjguy]

See now man....I want a guy friend like that so badly. I don't really even care that much about the J/o'ing part (though it would be fucking sweet if we were that comfortable around each other), I just want a guy friend that I can do things with , and talk about everything...any straight guy here in NW Alabama looking for a great straight guy friend? sigh

You know what, I can completely feel for you here. I am in the same situation....too bad I'm not in Alabama....I guess it will come for both us in time....I hope.