Fem or no-fem?

[zvezda]

Are you femminal or non-femminal behavior?
Hope you can understand, im from Serbia

 

[notN2pussy]

Non here and attracted to same

 

[trailerguy]

99% of the time I am masculine, well make that 90%, but every once in a while I get the urge to act girly. I like to don a pair of panties and jack off pretending that some big hairy dude is fucking me.

 

[malakos]

Are you femminal or non-femminal behavior?
Hope you can understand, im from Serbia

Well, it would help if you would describe your idea of a feminine guy. People have all sorts of different ideas of what that means.

 

[902369]

I look and read "masculine" whatever that means by social standards but my personality and true inner self is more aligned with what's perceived as "feminine" which I love about myself. Example, don't know nor care who is in the NBA playoffs but I watch RPDR religiously. I either want a man who's macho and traditional, or another fem. I don't really have a preference, just be a top.

 

[Auggiecakes]

As a fem bottom who is out at home and work, just know that I can hold my own. ill change my cars oil and do my nails all in one afternoon. Besides these "macho" men moan just like a bitch with a dick up their ass.

 

[alexiscd]

I have a strong inner feminine nature I however do not display that side completely until in bed with another man or dressed

 

[hvdude]

Most people are surprised when they find out I'm gay, if the question is about me personally. If you're asking about what I am attracted to I would say a little moaning/whimpering is kind of hot. I've been with guys that made the same sounds you hear in straight porn coming from the girl and it was a TOTAL boner killer.

 

[deleted1074483]

99% of the time I am masculine, well make that 90%, but every once in a while I get the urge to act girly. I like to don a pair of panties and jack off pretending that some big hairy dude is fucking me.

why pretend? just ask and get;-)

 

[deleted1074483]

Most people are surprised when they find out I'm gay, if the question is about me personally. If you're asking about what I am attracted to I would say a little moaning/whimpering is kind of hot. I've been with guys that made the same sounds you hear in straight porn coming from the girl and it was a TOTAL boner killer.

yea I like to hear a guy moan too so I know I'm hitting that spot and doing it for them, fine line though between that and a girly squeal

 

[fellatio4ever]

I am masculine. I am not attracted to feminine guys or I would be fucking women. This is my personal choice. I like a man to be masculine.

 

[deleted1074483]

I am masculine. I am not attracted to feminine guys or I would be fucking women. This is my personal choice. I like a man to be masculine.

I'm with you dude, I'm a man who likes men, not a girly imitation

 

[bigmanfan]

As a fem bottom who is out at home and work, just know that I can hold my own. ill change my cars oil and do my nails all in one afternoon. Besides these "macho" men moan just like a bitch with a dick up their ass.

@Auggiecakes I like your style!

 

[Auggiecakes]

I am masculine. I am not attracted to feminine guys or I would be fucking women. This is my personal choice. I like a man to be masculine.

Okay Mr.Iwriteinpurple.

 

[Auggiecakes]

...girly imitation

This is the problem with you overly macho gay men. You insult and look down on any feminine gay guy out there. It takes a lot of guts to be comfortable in your own skin and even bigger balls to own your sexuality. If it wasn't for drag queens and us fem boys you would still be getting arrested for doing anything remotely gay. You know who started the stonewall riots.... a black drag queen, you know who demanded more respect... fem boys. So go ahead and look down on us but just know what we get this bullshit attitude from our families, out coworkers, and I dare say sometimes our friends. I just never thought I would have to deal with it in our own community. You dont have to sleep with us but defend us, stand up for us because no one else will. There are so many young LGBT who kill themselves out of shame and you just added to it.

 

[deleted1074483]

This is the problem with you overly macho gay men. You insult and look down on any feminine gay guy out there. It takes a lot of guts to be comfortable in your own skin and even bigger balls to own your sexuality. If it wasn't for drag queens and us fem boys you would still be getting arrested for doing anything remotely gay. You know who started the stonewall riots.... a black drag queen, you know who demanded more respect... fem boys. So go ahead and look down on us but just know what we get this bullshit attitude from our families, out coworkers, and I dare say sometimes our friends. I just never thought I would have to deal with it in our own community. You dont have to sleep with us but defend us, stand up for us because no one else will. There are so many young LGBT who kill themselves out of shame and you just added to it.

nope I don't look down on fem guys and having lived for many years in Brighton gay capital of Europe I knew many; just for me they don't do anything from a sexual perspective. I am not 'overly macho' just a normal guy and I like guys that are also just normal guys that's all

 

[fellatio4ever]

This is the problem with you overly macho gay men. You insult and look down on any feminine gay guy out there. It takes a lot of guts to be comfortable in your own skin and even bigger balls to own your sexuality. If it wasn't for drag queens and us fem boys you would still be getting arrested for doing anything remotely gay. You know who started the stonewall riots.... a black drag queen, you know who demanded more respect... fem boys. So go ahead and look down on us but just know what we get this bullshit attitude from our families, out coworkers, and I dare say sometimes our friends. I just never thought I would have to deal with it in our own community. You dont have to sleep with us but defend us, stand up for us because no one else will. There are so many young LGBT who kill themselves out of shame and you just added to it.

This is the problem with you overly macho gay men. You insult and look down on any feminine gay guy out there. It takes a lot of guts to be comfortable in your own skin and even bigger balls to own your sexuality. If it wasn't for drag queens and us fem boys you would still be getting arrested for doing anything remotely gay. You know who started the stonewall riots.... a black drag queen, you know who demanded more respect... fem boys. So go ahead and look down on us but just know what we get this bullshit attitude from our families, out coworkers, and I dare say sometimes our friends. I just never thought I would have to deal with it in our own community. You dont have to sleep with us but defend us, stand up for us because no one else will. There are so many young LGBT who kill themselves out of shame and you just added to it.

You dont have to bash men because they are masculine and prefer masculine guys. You want people to support you but you put others down because of their choice? Why should one be supported and not others?
I love masculine men and its my choice and I am never going to be attracted to fems. And believe me when I say that You might say I am wrong but baby I am not.

 

[Exbiker]

I work out at the gym ... I've done motorcycling ... scuba diving ... paragliding ...

But I also like baking. And reading.

I think it's more complicated here in Britain ...

 

[braalian]

I have zero fashion and/or decorating taste or interest. I hate musicals. I can't dance. I'd say I have fairly masculine voice and body movements.

On the other hand, I have no interest in sports. I can't even feign interest. I've never returned a high five or fist bump in my adult life.

I would say most people who know me have no idea I'm gay at first, but if I know them for any significant length of time a few stereotypically gay mannerisms will surface.

I know very few gay men (including myself) who can truly "pass" for straight. Many think they do, but they're mistaken.

 

[AnerosO]

Attracted to non-feminine men. Im non-feminine myself. I prefer to embrace my masculinity! At the same time, being masculine =/= being emotionless. Emotional health is super important to me.