Yikes! Sorry to hear about the difficulties.
There are actually supposed to be FOUR female "trigger spots" -- see this
article.
Maybe your clit needs a rest. If I were you, while waiting for the money for your hoodectomy, I'd take a break and concentrate on waking up other spots.
My fav is the g-spot, which (for me) is an oh my god bigger O than a clit O.
Apparently, some women have very small g-spots. So some surgeons are now offering
g-spot enhancement, which might be cheaper than a hoodectomy. Here's another
article too. I haven't tried g-spot enhancement (which only lasts 4 - 6 months) but someday, when I have disposable income, why not? I might just try it.
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