Female cuckold equivelant?

[Wish-4-8]

Ok, so Im getting tired of these cuckold threads here.
For those who dont know what that is, a cuckold is a guy who gets off by having another guy, usually with a bigger penis, have sex with his wife/ girlfriend, while he watches.

But then it got me thinking. Are there women out there who genuinely get off on seeing other women have sex with their men. And if so, why? I believe that a cuckold is a type of SPH (small penis humiliation). I say a type because there are well endowed men who still have this fantasy. But SPH would be a motivation.

Now, I doubt that any of the regular female posters here have this fantasy, so this is purely for discussion. What would be the motivation for a woman getting off seeing aonther woman have sex with her man?

And of course guys can comment too. (like I could stop them, LOL)

Thoughts?

 

[petite]

I've seen a two LPSG women express that they would enjoy seeing their man with another woman because they think their man is very sexy. They made it sound like watching live porn.

For me, no. I feel possessive towards my man.

 

[Fleur]

I definitely do not have that fantasy *at all*. I would not want the man I'm with to have sex with another woman let alone get turned on by seeing him with another woman. No way. I have a friend from here that is a cuckhold, we frequently talk and I am also telling him to quit talking about it sometimes because it literally makes me sick...the whole idea in general. Anyway, he told me the reverse is a cuckquean...and supposedly there are some out there. Takes all kinds.

For what it's worth, it's not always about size, for him it's that he can't perform...yeah, like I said, I don't get why it would ever be a turn on.

 

[1kmb1]

some people get off on balloon popping, so it really wouldnt surprise me.

there really is a fetish for everything

 

[HiddenLacey]

It is not a fantasy of mine to see him with another woman.

 

[D_Sparroe Spongecaques]

I definately don't have the desire to see my bf with another woman.

 

[Libertiny]

My husband and I are swingers, so this is pretty exciting to me.

My hubby has a nice big dick, and I have no problems telling other woman about it. I love to see him in xtc, and it just so happens that he likes seeing what I'm doing to my partner as well.

*shrugs* it's a win win for us. :wink:

 

[sbat]

some people get off on balloon popping, so it really wouldnt surprise me.

there really is a fetish for everything

I saw that episode of Real Sex

 

[THEDUDEofDestiny]

why did you make the definition of cuckold off white like you were hiding a movie spoiler?

 

[Enid]

I'm guessing wish colored it that way to indicate it was more of an aside?

Anyway I don't have much to add wish, I don't have this fantasy. But I'll echo petite by saying that I have seen a couple of diff women here stating that they were turned on by the idea.

And I would say SPH is a facet of cuckolding, since a cuckold technically just means a guy whose wife cheats on him.

Wow, the things you find googling "cuckold".

http://ashleylister.co.uk/reviews.htm

 

[Keleios]

some people get off on balloon popping, so it really wouldnt surprise me.

there really is a fetish for everything

None of you get that secret little thrill from popping bubble wrap?
You have to be careful though, if it spirals out of control you'll find yourself lurking in a field with a bazooka waiting for a hot air balloon.

I personally wouldn't get off on seeing a partner of mine with another woman and have previously had someone encourage me to and try their best to place me in that situation. It went horribly wrong.
It takes a certain type of emotional selflessness and a huge amount of either trust/security/sexual confidence or perhaps not really caring, but those things in the required degree are not a part of me. Plus my situation was slightly different in that it was very much someone else's desire to sleep with another woman and they thought that involving me in the process would make it all OK. Which it most certainly didn't.
So no, not a fantasy of mine but I can understand it being so for others.

 

[TurkeyWithaSunburn]

secret little thrill from popping bubble wrap?

Nope not at all :shhh:

Virtual Bubblewrap - Pop Now! Pop bubble wrap online - since 1996

Click where it says:
I know this is the only reason you came
Pop some virtual bubblewrap now!

seems advertising has slunk it's way onto that site in a major way. :frown:

 

[kc2007]

Ok, I think it happening in real life is waaaaay different than a fantasy. I think many women might occasionally enjoy the thought of watching their guy with another woman, just like men enjoy the thought of seeing a another guy plow their woman. I say "plow" because I'm sure most if not all of these fantasies simply involve the animalistic sex act and not passionate kissing prior to and cuddling post coitus, but who knows maybe some people even get off on that. I just think more men admit it or are actually more likely to try and carry it through. Can you really get jealous in a fantasy? I guess if you have a fetish for jealousy.

 

[Keleios]

Nope not at all :shhh:

Virtual Bubblewrap - Pop Now! Pop bubble wrap online - since 1996

Click where it says:
I know this is the only reason you came
Pop some virtual bubblewrap now!

seems advertising has slunk it's way onto that site in a major way. :frown:

LOL!

Oh that's quite good, I'm popping now.
Shame though, I like to put big sheets of it down on the floor then run around barefoot with jumping. The sound on the site is perfect but it's such a tactile thing and so satisfying to do. Like many things, the imitation is good but the reality is far better.
I have been known to hide myself in a box at work for a few stolen minutes of popping time, it's a lot of fun when people walk in, stare, walk back out and never speak of it again.

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

Anyway I don't have much to add wish, I don't have this fantasy. But I'll echo petite by saying that I have seen a couple of diff women here stating that they were turned on by the idea.

Yeah, I would definitely like to watch my bf with another woman. But, it isn't just my boyfriend, I have watched one of my roomies and his boyfriend have sex. Have broken out the video camera with lovers and recorded everything from them giving me oral to full intercourse... and I enjoyed watching it at some later date. So, I think, for me it is more of a voyeur thing, but only with people I am into.

Maybe. :shrug: Who knows, I know I like it and a few of my partners have as well.
*clicks special video folder* :wink:

 

[rob_just_rob]

I think it's funny that you derived your definition of the word "cuckold" from reading porn, as opposed to, oh, I don't know... a dictionary?

 

[petite]

None of you get that secret little thrill from popping bubble wrap?
You have to be careful though, if it spirals out of control you'll find yourself lurking in a field with a bazooka waiting for a hot air balloon.

:lmao:

I adore you!!!

 

[Wish-4-8]

why did you make the definition of cuckold off white like you were hiding a movie spoiler?

What she said. V V V

I'm guessing wish colored it that way to indicate it was more of an aside?

Yeah, I didnt want to sound redundant.

Ok, I think it happening in real life is waaaaay different than a fantasy. I think many women might occasionally enjoy the thought of watching their guy with another woman, just like men enjoy the thought of seeing a another guy plow their woman. I say "plow" because I'm sure most if not all of these fantasies simply involve the animalistic sex act and not passionate kissing prior to and cuddling post coitus, but who knows maybe some people even get off on that. I just think more men admit it or are actually more likely to try and carry it through. Can you really get jealous in a fantasy? I guess if you have a fetish for jealousy.

I will agree that fantasy is different. But I never have had the fantasy of a guy "plowing " my girl. Its just not a turn on.

Yeah, I would definitely like to watch my bf with another woman. But, it isn't just my boyfriend, I have watched one of my roomies and his boyfriend have sex. Have broken out the video camera with lovers and recorded everything from them giving me oral to full intercourse... and I enjoyed watching it at some later date. So, I think, for me it is more of a voyeur thing, but only with people I am into.

Maybe. :shrug: Who knows, I know I like it and a few of my partners have as well.
*clicks special video folder* :wink:

^^^^ OK now this is interesting. I was looking into a motivation. I was wondering if women who are into this suffer from what could be argued as a self esteem issue.

And reading though posts, (thanks members), a thought occured to me. What about 3-somes? Is that a form of cuckqueen, or sharing? I have heard that genearlly speaking, 3-somes work out best with strangers who are not commited to each other and more often than not, create problems with commited couples.

Hmmm...More thoughts?

 

[petite]

Sharing. Cuckolding is a type of humiliation scenario and that's not what I felt. I've had one real threesome, and my frame of mind was definitely, "Yay! Two is better than one!" It was not humiliating in the least. I felt like I'd won the lottery.

 

[D_Fiona_Farvel]

^^^^ OK now this is interesting. I was looking into a motivation. I was wondering if women who are into this suffer from what could be argued as a self esteem issue.

And reading though posts, (thanks members), a thought occured to me. What about 3-somes? Is that a form of cuckqueen, or sharing? I have heard that genearlly speaking, 3-somes work out best with strangers who are not commited to each other and more often than not, create problems with commited couples.

Hmmm...More thoughts?

I can't speak for cucky women.
But, I am confident in my sexuality and am open to exploring the whole of it. I do not view myself as owning my partners, so there are no expectations to engage in any activity and also no compulsion. Other than it would be really fun to try a threesome, or whatever, when the opportunity presents itself! :biggrin1:

For the other 99% of the time, we are a regular, "normal" couple.
I guess the opening exists because the bf goes out of the country and I am often out-of-state. But, even when together 100%, for now, I would chafe under a partner specifically limiting me or myself them, in any way.

Sharing. Cuckolding is a type of humiliation scenario and that's not what I felt. I've had one real threesome, and my frame of mind was definitely, "Yay! Two is better than one!" It was not humiliating in the least. I felt like I'd won the lottery.

Exactly! No humiliation, more like recess for adults. :09: