Female cuckold equivelant?

[Enid]

But wait though, a cuckold in the most plainest sense indicates a man whose wife or significant other cheats on him. So that doesn't translate to "humiliation scenario" to me not exactly anyway. It could, sure. But not necessarily.

As I touched on before, I think SPH and humiliation are a facet of cuckolding. It can be a facet anyway.

 

[petite]

But wait though, a cuckold in the most plainest sense indicates a man whose wife or significant other cheats on him. So that doesn't translate to "humiliation scenario" to me not exactly anyway. It could, sure. But not necessarily.

As I touched on before, I think SPH and humiliation are a facet of cuckolding. It can be a facet anyway.

True, it could also be just pure voyeurism, without humiliation involved. I thought, I don't get why you wouldn't want to jump in there yourself and make it a threesome if you're in the room and everyone is cool with it, which is why I made the leap to the idea that it was a humiliation scenario, but you're right, it doesn't have to be humiliation if you really just enjoy watching more than participating.

 

[Enid]

Definitely, also the cuckolding may not even involve voyeurism or witnessing of the act. In French, the equivalent term is porter des cornes, which is used by Molière to describe someone whose consort has been unfaithful.

But as a fetish I do think cuckolding has taken on a rather....different meaning than the one Molière described. :smile:

 

[D_Sparroe Spongecaques]

Sharing. Cuckolding is a type of humiliation scenario and that's not what I felt. I've had one real threesome, and my frame of mind was definitely, "Yay! Two is better than one!" It was not humiliating in the least. I felt like I'd won the lottery.

Ah you only win a tenner here with '3' numbers:wink:


My 1st experience of a 3sum was horrible,i felt pressured into it and felt uneasy.I didnt feel humiliated but confused how a guy could share his girl with his best mate!

My 2nd experience was with a couple,she was bi-curious and not very experimental with her fella.We had a fun time.As i was leaving she said she hoped to have me join them again................her fella emailed me a week later and said some of the things i did whilst i was there she had done to him/with him that week.He then said thank you for showing her some new things.

 

[1kmb1]

None of you get that secret little thrill from popping bubble wrap?
You have to be careful though, if it spirals out of control you'll find yourself lurking in a field with a bazooka waiting for a hot air balloon.

sure, but it doesnt give me an erection... often

 

[D_Petherick_Poundlouder]

I definitely do not have that fantasy *at all*.

Well then. No threesomes with you.

Borrrrring.

 

[Keleios]

:lmao:

I adore you!!!

I dream of finding a flock of dirigibles one day.
The stragglers are MINE.

 

[deedsforfun]

I think the women who are OK with this would be the swinger type.

My wife once told me she had always wanted to watch me with another women. That it was really more voyeur than it was the act. She said wants to see me in action. Giving to someone else like I do her so she can really watch my expressions movements etc.

But that if we ever did this, she'd cut my jugular....
She couldnt stand the thought of me with another women, but there is a fantasy of watching me in action, but the key here is fantasy. See as long as its in fantasy state, nothing has happened and jealousy wont set in, its still "just a movie"

She did say something else too that I thought was interesting. It was kinda like us guys with size.
She said that if she ever did get me to do this, it wouldnt be her friend thats 19, no kids and hard body from hell. It would be her other friend(still cute) thats had 2 kids.
She said she dont want me in any pussy tighter than hers. Imagine that. women think about size too. They want to be as tight for their man as they can, just like we want to be as big for her.

I never want to watch some other dude pile driving my wife....thats my job.
But the "thought" of watching her get drilled is hot. But its more of my urge to really please her.

I mean, when we're together, I dont concentrate on me till the very end and Im ready to give up. The whole time Im locked into just plowing her in half. Trying to just make her pass out.

 

[nolbaby]

"I mean, when we're together, I dont concentrate on me till the very end and Im ready to give up. The whole time Im locked into just plowing her in half. Trying to just make her pass out"

how noble.
:kabong:

 

[mycutie]

So... I do have the fantasy of watching my husband with another woman. My motivation is that I would want to see and hear another woman be completely in awe of my husband's big penis. I want to hear her moans and screams of pleasure, especially at the very moment when he puts his penis inside her for the first time. I want her to be totally surprised at how much his penis fills her up. I want her to be amazed and turned on by how huge my husband's penis is. I guess it is a sense of pride and showing off my husband. I don't want to participate in a threesome; I just want to watch and listen (either in the room or unknown to her by watching a live video). I don't think I 100% fit the definition of cuckquean, because humiliation is not a turn-on for me. But at the same time, I don't think this is just voyeur, because there's something very specific in the reaction I'm looking for. This whole fantasy actually is specific to two women my husband and I know. I know that they each have a secret crush on him and have figured out that he has a large penis. So, for me, there's also a sense of, 'Oh, so you want my husband? Well, let me let you have a taste of how great he is. Because ultimately I know he doesn't want you; He's coming back to me.' There's also the aspect that these women have not had kids, so I have in my mind that not only would they be in awe of the size of his penis, but their bodies might not even be able to handle it. I like that this would make their "Oh my god!" responses likely more intensified. Right now, all of this is just a fantasy and is not something I'm actually looking to fulfill in real life (I believe that as soon as my husband has sex with another woman, our marriage will never be the same again). But the fantasy is such a turn-on for me, that us talking about the details of the fantasy during sex (especially talking about the other woman's reactions) makes me come so hard. There's a tiny part of me that does want to act this fantasy out, but I'm more focused on figuring out why I'm recently having this fantasy in the first place.