Yes, female ejaculation is real and it's incredible! I started ejaculating in my 30's, which sure was a nice surprise. As for technique, I can only imagine it varies greatly from one woman to another, but pony's right that the more it happens, the easier it gets. For me, I need both clitoral and vaginal stimulation. My favorite is to have rear-entry vaginal sex, a little on the rough side, and have my partner stimulate my clitoris from the front- works every time. The good news is that once it happens, I can ejaculate contiuously, or several times in fairly rapid succession. The bad news is, it usually arouses my partner to orgasm, which means that part is over. I can also ejaculate from oral stimulation if he uses his fingers to probe my vagina and hits the right spot, usually fairly deep by then. Note to men: once a woman finds out she can do this, she wants to! So don't give up on her, she wants to cum as badly as you do, "shortstops" and "quickies" won't get her there, so help her get what she needs, the payoff will be great for both of you.