Female friend told me that she'd have a hard time taking it, but her ex boyfriend was black? I'm so confused

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So my dick is the size of an average black guy, 7.3 x 5.25. Not that huge, but I'm pretty big for a white guy. But I know that most black men sport AT LEAST that, and many of them are bigger. And no, I know it's not just a porn statistic, or a racist statistic. I've seen A LOT of amateur porn with black men, and not once have I ever seen a black guy smaller than me. Which is how I know I have the size penis of an average black guy. Not to mention the popularity of the phrase "once you go black, you never go back" aka "Your vagina will be so stretched out that you won't be able to be satisfied by most white men."


Not only was her ex boyfriend black, but she's also younger too. She's 23. And I do know that penises have grown and the younger generation have bigger penises. Meaning that she must have a large vagina too. But I've also read that younger girls have smaller vaginas? Idk. I do know the only time I have ever gotten a review saying I was too big was from younger women. I've only showed 2 younger women my dick.. This girl, and another girl when I was in my early 20s as well. The old women (25+), seem to tell me that I have a "nice dick", some may even say it's big. But the only time I've gotten something along the lines of being "too big" was from younger women.

So if it is an age thing, I am going to start going for younger women (18+ of course).

On top of that, she's very hypersexual. I'm not sure how many partners she's had, but I do know she has nipple rings from the nudes she sent me. And she likes to wear sexy clothing.

So everything about her from her ex being black, to the nipple rings, to what she wears SCREAMS size queen.

I did ask her if she was just saying that to gas me up, and she reassured me that no, I'd be a bit too big for her, especially the length.

But how is that possible? She dated a black guy, she must have gotten used to his dick. Not to mention she's very hypersexual. So she should be able to take mine no problem?

I'm soooo confused. I know I may have only had sex once, but I watch a lot of porn and read a lot about sex, and so I know how vaginas work. And this has made me question everything.
 

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You just convinced yourself of too many ideas and assumptions without even seeking any true answer.

Go ask her about it. She will provide you the correct answers if she is an honest person.

Just saying that because you watched lots of porn proves black are big is stupid.
Most of people who won’t freakout going on screen and film themselves are well endowed. No matter the race. People enjoy the sight of a big penis, but when it comes to sex it does not necessarily mean they have to enjoy it in action.

Ask her out and let her explain.
 

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You just convinced yourself of too many ideas and assumptions without even seeking any true answer.

Go ask her about it. She will provide you the correct answers if she is an honest person.

Just saying that because you watched lots of porn proves black are big is stupid.
Most of people who won’t freakout going on screen and film themselves are well endowed. No matter the race. People enjoy the sight of a big penis, but when it comes to sex it does not necessarily mean they have to enjoy it in action.

Ask her out and let her explain.

That's the thing, this conversation happened over a week ago. I feel like randomly asking her to clarify a thing she said about my dick over a week ago would be very weird.

Also, when it comes to amateur porn, I've seen dicks of every size. But with black men, it's always giant. Also, even in pro porn, white guys tend to have above average dicks (6-8 range, with the occasional 9-10 incher), but black pro porn are always sporting at least 8 inches. It's rare that I see a black guy in pro porn wih anything less.

In amateur, they're always sporting AT LEAST 6.5, and that's the smallest black dick I've ever seen. But even in amateur porn, they're often rocking 7.5-9.
 

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That's the thing, this conversation happened over a week ago. I feel like randomly asking her to clarify a thing she said about my dick over a week ago would be very weird.

Also, when it comes to amateur porn, I've seen dicks of every size. But with black men, it's always giant. Also, even in pro porn, white guys tend to have above average dicks (6-8 range, with the occasional 9-10 incher), but black pro porn are always sporting at least 8 inches. It's rare that I see a black guy in pro porn wih anything less.

In amateur, they're always sporting AT LEAST 6.5, and that's the smallest black dick I've ever seen. But even in amateur porn, they're often rocking 7.5-9.
Why would that be weird.
You already had a conversation that involved “your dick”.

Man it up and ask her no matter how weird you might feel about it.
This is your only way of clearing up your mind, otherwise this will haunt you.

Think of anything indirect if you find it hard to speak about it directly.

If I were you, I would just get done with the matter and relieve myself.

If you attach yourself too much to her and then she rejects you, you blame yourself and wish you have done something right from the beginning.

Spare yourself alot of time you will wish you did not waste on someone who in the end might disappoint you.
 

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Also. I can't ask her out at the moment. She's currently in an on again/off again relationship with another guy (white guy). And they're currently in the "on" stage. While she may swap nudes with me and we've had a couple of semi-sexy chats, she tends to draw boundries and doesn't like to get overly sexual, and doesn't wan to have sex.

She rated my dick 8.5/10 but was talking about how big it is. I asked her why she didn't rate it a 10, and she said "Because I'm in a relationship and his is always a 10" , I asked him who is bigger , and she said me. But the guy who's she's in a relationship with always has the superior dick regardless of size.

I really wishes she'd give me a chance. She's young but very hypersexual. She said she'd have a hard time taking it, but based on how hypersexual she is (nipple rings, dresses sexy all the time, like she wears these super thin white pantyhose that has a bunch of holes in it. Not like actual holes, idk how to explain it. It's almost like fishnets type thing, but not quite fishnets.

Anyways. She is very sexual and I am sure if she has one night with me, knowing I am bigger than the guy that she supposedly loves, I'd make her fall in love the second I hit the back of her pussy. (Which she said I would be able to reach). From what I've heard, women fall instantly for a man who can hit the fornixes in the back.
 

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If you attach yourself too much to her and then she rejects you, you blame yourself and wish you have done something right from the beginning.

I know it's a matter of time. Once she is in the "off" phase or once she breaks up with the guy for good (which happens in most on/off relationships), she will likely not reject me. Like I said, she is a hypersexual girl and I am a big guy and she knows it. Plus, the fact that she dated a black guy means that she loves big ones. White girls that date black guys mean that they're size queens or that they can take big dick. If she can't take big dick, she would flat out refuse a black guy.

I watch enough porn, and in the interracial scenes, the girl is sometimes hesitent because "black guys are really big." .. I even heard of hookers flat out refusing to have sex with black men because they're too big.

But if she is willing to date black guys, that means that she LOVES big dick.

And big dick is fairly rare.

So, I know she's going to want me at some point.

Hell, if I get her more comfortable with me, she may even cheat. How can a woman that's as hypersexual as her turn down a big cock that's bigger than her boyfriend's that knows that it wants her? Like, she likely has thoughts in the back of her mind "Damn. I haven't fucked a big dick in a while. I need it. I have a friend with a big dick, but... no, I can't." But women just cannot resist the power of big cock. It's science!
 

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I know it's a matter of time. Once she is in the "off" phase or once she breaks up with the guy for good (which happens in most on/off relationships), she will likely not reject me. Like I said, she is a hypersexual girl and I am a big guy and she knows it. Plus, the fact that she dated a black guy means that she loves big ones. White girls that date black guys mean that they're size queens or that they can take big dick. If she can't take big dick, she would flat out refuse a black guy.

I watch enough porn, and in the interracial scenes, the girl is sometimes hesitent because "black guys are really big." .. I even heard of hookers flat out refusing to have sex with black men because they're too big.

But if she is willing to date black guys, that means that she LOVES big dick.

And big dick is fairly rare.

So, I know she's going to want me at some point.

Hell, if I get her more comfortable with me, she may even cheat. How can a woman that's as hypersexual as her turn down a big cock that's bigger than her boyfriend's that knows that it wants her? Like, she likely has thoughts in the back of her mind "Damn. I haven't fucked a big dick in a while. I need it. I have a friend with a big dick, but... no, I can't." But women just cannot resist the power of big cock. It's science!
Also. I can't ask her out at the moment. She's currently in an on again/off again relationship with another guy (white guy). And they're currently in the "on" stage. While she may swap nudes with me and we've had a couple of semi-sexy chats, she tends to draw boundries and doesn't like to get overly sexual, and doesn't wan to have sex.

She rated my dick 8.5/10 but was talking about how big it is. I asked her why she didn't rate it a 10, and she said "Because I'm in a relationship and his is always a 10" , I asked him who is bigger , and she said me. But the guy who's she's in a relationship with always has the superior dick regardless of size.

I really wishes she'd give me a chance. She's young but very hypersexual. She said she'd have a hard time taking it, but based on how hypersexual she is (nipple rings, dresses sexy all the time, like she wears these super thin white pantyhose that has a bunch of holes in it. Not like actual holes, idk how to explain it. It's almost like fishnets type thing, but not quite fishnets.

Anyways. She is very sexual and I am sure if she has one night with me, knowing I am bigger than the guy that she supposedly loves, I'd make her fall in love the second I hit the back of her pussy. (Which she said I would be able to reach). From what I've heard, women fall instantly for a man who can hit the fornixes in the back.

One of the reasons I disliked enaging in anything with girls/ women is because of how manipulative they are and I don’t understand how can straight men keep falling for women like this even after all this time and after how much these topics have been exposed and debated

What she did to you is one of the major reasons why you crave her and want her more

Now more so than any other time

It is tough being straight

If I were you I would just stop texting her and responding and when I do I just tell her I prefer to not being disappointed in the end
 

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So my dick is the size of an average black guy, 7.3 x 5.25. ...

Dude! The "average black guy" is not 7.3 x 5.25.

Where do you get such crap from? In fact, most studies show little difference in penis size between whites and blacks.
 

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Dude! The "average black guy" is not 7.3 x 5.25.

Where do you get such crap from? In fact, most studies show little difference in penis size between whites and blacks.

I've never seen a black dick (I'm talking about amateur not pro) that was less than 7 inches.
 

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I've never seen a black dick (I'm talking about amateur not pro) that was less than 7 inches.

I think you've been watching too many porn videos/movies whether it was of professional, pro-amateur, and/or amateur genres. You do realize that only big dicks make it to porn, right? Nobody wants to watch small dicks fuck regardless of race. Whatever site you're going to has probably got an algorithm that has figured out what you like and thus have been feeding you big dicks and screwing up your mental perspective on the real world. You, in-turn, go looking for such videos/movies that reinforce your bias outlook on black men having big dicks therefore furthering your skewed perception on real world dick size distributions.

A real 7-inch+ dick is still very rare amongst the population of men and to stereotype all black men into this category is just fetishizing the stigma. Not every black guy out there is sporting a 7-inch+ package let alone a white guy, asian guy, hispanic guy, <insert race> guy, etc...
 

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You should listen to the podcasts by Dr. Buntrock, a German Sexologist/Urologist on Urochannal on YouTube. He has the results of several studies on penile size.

He mentions that the average size for men of color is only a fraction of an inch bigger than that for whites.

BTW I have been to many bisexual gathering over the years. There were men of color present at many of them. There have never been such an individual present who rivaled me in size. Several we close. I fact I remember two occasions where I hooked up with couples, man and wife. In each situation the woman commented about my superior size "for a white man."
 

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So my dick is the size of an average black guy, 7.3 x 5.25……”

You really could have stopped this non-sensical screed of a post right there. I’m bored so I took a gander at some of your other posts and they are all similarly inane.

How many threads chock-full of racists tropes regarding black men’s dick sizes do you plan to make?

And it’s clear you are here trolling as the initial post you made on this idiotic topic was in the ‘ask a woman section’ and they quickly read through this tortured premise of a question and ate your ass up with not one response from you. Rightfully so.

The girl you speak of in this post, if she exists - and I highly doubt it - hasn’t passed on fucking you because of your dick size. She’s passed on fucking you because you probably say goofy things like you put in this and your other posts.

Seriously, you need to quit with this b.s. It’s tired, it’s racist, and it’s pathetic.
 
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I think you've been watching too many porn videos/movies whether it was of professional, pro-amateur, and/or amateur genres. You do realize that only big dicks make it to porn, right? Nobody wants to watch small dicks fuck regardless of race. Whatever site you're going to has probably got an algorithm that has figured out what you like and thus have been feeding you big dicks and screwing up your mental perspective on the real world. You, in-turn, go looking for such videos/movies that reinforce your bias outlook on black men having big dicks therefore furthering your skewed perception on real world dick size distributions.

A real 7-inch+ dick is still very rare amongst the population of men and to stereotype all black men into this category is just fetishizing the stigma. Not every black guy out there is sporting a 7-inch+ package let alone a white guy, asian guy, hispanic guy, <insert race> guy, etc...

Not EVERY black guy, but most are.
 

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Not EVERY black guy, but most are.

Ignorance is bliss my friend. I say roll with it. At the end of the day, you're not hurting anyone with this belief of yours. Sooner or later you will figure it out. I'm gonna go grab some :emoji_popcorn: