I was listening to Armchair Expert (Dax Shepard’s podcast) and the guest was Dan Savage. He was talking about the frequency of sex in relationships and why women stop being interested in having sex with their partners. Apparently, it’s boredom. It’s not that their libido drops, it’s not because they get a headache, it’s because the sex becomes predictable and boring. Reminds me of the song, “I Shaved My Legs for This?”
I’m a high libido woman, so I never stopped wanting sex with my partner, but I will admit, I’m the one who had to keep it fresh. He wasn’t so much interested in trying new things. He was totally satisfied with missionary once or twice a month. New things were met with, “oh, for fuck sake..”
Now it’s not like that for all women, but Dan brings up the point, that women just get plain bored with sex with the same man. If she has an affair, the sex is vibrant and frequent. If she leaves him. The same thing.
There’s a thread in Ask a (Straight) Man, about female libido. How can men keep us from getting bored? I know the women here are high libido women for the most part, but what keeps us interested? Or other women? Thoughts?
I’m a high libido woman, so I never stopped wanting sex with my partner, but I will admit, I’m the one who had to keep it fresh. He wasn’t so much interested in trying new things. He was totally satisfied with missionary once or twice a month. New things were met with, “oh, for fuck sake..”
Now it’s not like that for all women, but Dan brings up the point, that women just get plain bored with sex with the same man. If she has an affair, the sex is vibrant and frequent. If she leaves him. The same thing.
There’s a thread in Ask a (Straight) Man, about female libido. How can men keep us from getting bored? I know the women here are high libido women for the most part, but what keeps us interested? Or other women? Thoughts?