female or feminist, not the same ?

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No I am an ignorant slug who cannot read and just guess at characters on a page. The lady is correct that there is significant sarcasm on this forum. Personally, I enjoy it immensely. But I don't enjoy the tone taken against the lady. She has a right to differ, as do you. But, civility helps.
 

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yes I agree and this forum is contolled by girls who are my opinion masoganists, feminists who have serious issues with being what a girl is.
For some strange reason they tink they think they should act, tack like men, they seem to think thats emporwering.

to take that path path loses who we are

Well, as a woman, I was tempted to respond to this but MR said it so much better than I ever could:

BTW, your actions here (especially towards the women) is more like reverse feminism, almost leaning into the misogyny category if you ask me. We don't put up with that from men and we sure as hell aren't going to put up with it from a woman.
 

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<<<<chinagirl4u2: "Occupation--sanpei xiaojie" Women who perform sexual acts with men in karaoke/dance venues, bars, restaurants, teahouses and other venues and who receive financial recompense in the form of tips from the individual men they accompany, as well as from a share of the profits generated by informal service charges on the use of facilities and the consumption of food and beverages. These women often begin by allowing their clients to fondle or intimately caress their bodies, then if the client is eager, will engage in sexual intercourse.
<<<<<<<"Location--Hainan" "In China, the island is known as a haven for prostitution.">>>>>>>>>>>

Chinagirl4u2,

i've been following the discussions you've had with people. culture, gender, language, etc. determine peoples ideas.

you have "sanpei xiaojie" as occupation. i was not familiar with the term or where you were from in china. so, i googled. i've posted above what i've found. i have questions for you:

what brought you to this site? why are you a member?

and, i'm going to admit that my last question is going to be contrused as a bit offensive, (not trying to hurt feelings or be rude. truly not) but, are you the same women in all the pictures?
 
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No I am an ignorant slug who cannot read and just guess at characters on a page. The lady is correct that there is significant sarcasm on this forum. Personally, I enjoy it immensely. But I don't enjoy the tone taken against the lady. She has a right to differ, as do you. But, civility helps.
Civility does not entail an unlimited tolerance for incivility. :tongue:
 

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No I am an ignorant slug who cannot read and just guess at characters on a page. The lady is correct that there is significant sarcasm on this forum. Personally, I enjoy it immensely. But I don't enjoy the tone taken against the lady. She has a right to differ, as do you. But, civility helps.

So far she wants the Women's Issue forum completely revamped to exclude women she doesn't like (me and many others) and is referring to me and others without verification photos as fakes. She also called for the administrators to shut down the Real Ladies Group and shut people like me and the other ladies you enjoy hearing/seeing around here down because we should be more subservient and well, Chinese. Did you catch that?

Did you know claiming people are fakes is now against the TOS? She's done it more times than I could hit something swinging a dead cat today. She's been here for 3 days. What do you think of this sort of.....civility on her part?
 

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yes I agree and this forum is contolled by girls who are my opinion masoganists, feminists who have serious issues with being what a girl is.
For some strange reason they tink they think they should act, tack like men, they seem to think thats emporwering.

to take that path path loses who we are

You seem to think that you know what "being" a "girl" is. What is being a girl, exactly? Fuzzy agrees that women could, however unlikely, be masochistic, but how can you rationalize your claim that you, more than the other girls here, know what being a girl is?

You remind Fuzzy of a second-wave radical feminist, but second-wave feminism died for a reason; people don't want to be classified or marginalized, or told how they should behave. Modernist (third-wave) feminists invest more in tolerance, diversity, and the ability for a woman to choose her own path--even if that means being subservient to a man or prostituting herself. You are using old and rusty tools.
 

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I am for the now defunct 'Equal Rights' amendment. I look forward to Dolfie's posts because she is quite often thought provoking in her clear and often acerbic tone. This lady sees feminism as confrontational. That is her view point. If we are to change her perception, attacking her language skills and degenerating into a 'pissing' contest will not accomplish that results. I have found most women become 'feminists' the first time they realize they have been discriminated upon because of their sex. They may not want to rattle a saber, but they want equality. This lady may not have reached that point. But if you asked her to give up her job to a man or give up her right to vote, she won't. Her complaint initially was being attacked personally.
 

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I am for the now defunct 'Equal Rights' amendment. I look forward to Dolfie's posts because she is quite often thought provoking in her clear and often acerbic tone. This lady sees feminism as confrontational. That is her view point. If we are to change her perception, attacking her language skills and degenerating into a 'pissing' contest will not accomplish that results. I have found most women become 'feminists' the first time they realize they have been discriminated upon because of their sex. They may not want to rattle a saber, but they want equality. This lady may not have reached that point. But if you asked her to give up her job to a man or give up her right to vote, she won't. Her complaint initially was being attacked personally.
I don't know about this 'giving up her job to a man' bit...
 

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You seem to think that you know what "being" a "girl" is. What is being a girl, exactly? Fuzzy agrees that women could, however unlikely, be masochistic, but how can you rationalize your claim that you, more than the other girls here, know what being a girl is?

Well put.
 

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There are variations of power. One can be Hilary Clinton, and run for president; or be Nancy Reagan, and run the president.
 

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What gives you the right to come here and try immediately upon your arrival to dominate the members of this group?

this is a forum, not your group , but thank you for being to the first to admit you think it is.,
Right, haha, gold picture gallery , vids all public , you the
lots of ve l:swordfight::crucified::wizard:doubt most of you have have got past sex ed 101
 
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this is a forum, not your group , but thank you for being to the first to admit you think it is.
You have not answered the question. It is not my group, it is 'our' group, meaning yours, mine, and everyone else's.

What gives you the right to come here and dominate this forum the way you have attempted to do?
 

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Hick boy, after WWII, many women workers were fired to make way for the returning men. A long precedent in layoffs was to release the women first, because the man was the 'bread winner'. Women were paid less because 'they didn't support a family'. No women appreciates that devaluation when confronted with it. Many women don't have to face that anymore, or aren't even aware it happened. Just like many people don't remember lynchings, separate accommodations, stepping off the sidewalk, literacy laws, etc.
 

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Hick boy, after WWII, many women workers were fired to make way for the returning men. A long precedent in layoffs was to release the women first, because the man was the 'bread winner'. Women were paid less because 'they didn't support a family'. No women appreciates that devaluation when confronted with it. Many women don't have to face that anymore, or aren't even aware it happened. Just like many people don't remember lynchings, separate accommodations, stepping off the sidewalk, literacy laws, etc.
Yes, I'm aware of that. Good point. But, ummm...

http://www.lpsg.org/272819-female-or-feminist-not-the-3.html#post3782779
 

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You have not answered the question. It is not my group, it is 'our' group, meaning yours, mine, and everyone else's.

What gives you the right to come here and dominate this forum the way you have attempted to do?

ohhh... your comfort zone is being challenged... must be scary, hide under your skirt :biglaugh:

btw your a boy right, its not your group
 
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