I don't normally talk to girls about sex openly so I have never discussed this before. Earlier, I was having a chat with my friends and we were talking about times we had sex and all that guy chat. I mentioned something about making a girl cum loads and they were being macho and said "who cares as long as you get yours." While my mentality for sex has always been the ladies pleasure first. For example my girlfriend orgasms and cums pretty much every other time we have sex, if not every time. I know pretty well what makes a girl orgasm very well from my past experience with ex girlfriends. Then I came across all these online topics such as "Have you ladies orgasmed before?" Which came to me to realise, are female orgasms really that rare to come by? I watch porn alot and the girl almost never cums but when she does I love it. I love it when women orgasm and I love it even more if I'm a factor in it happening. I also asked a few mates and they said they hadn't made a girl cum, while most guys never mention girls cumming at all when talking about sex stories. So in a way, I'm asking...is it really that big of a deal for a woman to orgasm? Do you guys make ladies cum alot? and are orgasms rare for you ladies?