Female Orgams.
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what a pile of horseshit!
i know what i like and i do what i like.
if a fragile male ego can't deal with that then tough.
there are highly orgasmic women who can't help but orgasm, even if the sex is unwanted.
and citing porn as evidence?
next time people debate military issues in iraq, i'll cite The A-Team as evidence to prove my point.
you spout misogynistic, cookie cutting, ill informed claptrap
I agree all round. What is with these guys who think a woman will orgasm if only they find the right man?
And I'm one of those highly orgasmic women who will cum even if the sex is unwanted. My orgasms are at a basic level, nothing to do with the guy I'm with. Some of them get all proud thinking that you're cumming because of them. Nope, sometimes I'm just cumming.
if you orgasm it's because they're great.
if you don't orgasm it's because you're faulty.
lame.
that horseshit about women having to want it to orgasm really pisses me off, because of the shit it causes victims or rape/assault. it's not your fault how strong your orgasm reflex is any more than how strong your gag reflex is. people are all different.
Wow..serious negativity now. Went from a half decent conversation to bitterness. Thing is, I love to see female orgasms because for me, it's something very attractive which makes me get off nicely! Even if my opinions are somewhat incorrect due to my lack of knowledge or whatso ever, there is never a need for any conversation to turn so negative. If you think I'm wrong just say that politely instead of coming out and posting like I've just offended you in a serious manner.
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I think you're still missing the point. You HAVE offended people in a serious manner.
I hear why your saying, we backlash hard because your not the first guy to say something like that. When you have to defend yourself as much as we do, you get mad. Please don't be upset and leave.
I usually get one orgasm. One so big I scream like a banshee, claw my husbands back, and act like a possessed woman for about a minute. Then I need a cool down, don't touch my pussy!!!! It's very sensitive right now. If there is one thing I hope men learn form this is, all women are different. Try the thing your ex girlfriend loved, just don't expect your new girl to love it as much. She might, she might not, move along.
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I've been in relationships where I've cum over and over and in ones where I never do. I think my orgasms or lack of are directly connected to the man I'm with. If I'm really seriously emotionally connected to him then it's going to happen and it's going to happen a lot. If I'm not really into him and I'm just going through the motions (I know, I know, shouldn't be in a relationship in the first place. blah blah) then I never do and get annoyed when they try to finish me after they get theirs because I know it's just not going to happen.
If I really want one and haven't had one after my S/O cums then I'll grab his hand and put it on my clit and rub. Kind of a subtle hint that I can keep going and I want him to finish me. Or, I'll just play with myself while he sits there and watches. Either way, if I'm going to orgasm I know it and I'll get mine one way or another. If I'm not, I'm not and I'll just stop when he's done.
If I really want one and haven't had one after my S/O cums then I'll grab his hand and put it on my clit and rub. Kind of a subtle hint that I can keep going and I want him to finish me. Or, I'll just play with myself while he sits there and watches. Either way, if I'm going to orgasm I know it and I'll get mine one way or another. If I'm not, I'm not and I'll just stop when he's done.
You would be very disappointed with me, then, if you needed to be a factor in order to feed your ego.
Yeah, it kind of is a big deal. Most women don't (during intercourse) and a LOT of women fake it.
Guys have never made me cum.
No, they are not rare for me - I have tons of orgasms, but 99% of them happen outside of intercourse.
I rarely take any social male discussion on sex seriously. Sure it can be fun or even funny at times, most of it is exaggeration or wishful thinking IMO. Notice how every male (in a friendly discussion) always has a huge dick and never has had bad sex?
One thing I've always tried to be mindful of is putting any pressure on a woman to orgasm during sex, especially when I've just met them or haven't been with them that long. Like many women have already said here, some women don't orgasm that easily and some have a hard time orgasming at all. If there is fun to be had, I think that kind of pressure can quickly take it away.
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I'm glad you agree with me but I'm no where near perfect by any means. :tongue:
I think we are a bit confused, because some equate sex with intercourse, and others like me equate sex with sex. For example, Petite's statistics are intercourse-focussed, and I tend not to get overly-stressed about my wife orgasming or not orgasming during intercourse. To some extent she suffers from a similar problem to Mme Rouge, in that orgasm can be uncomfortable due to my girth, but it is possible if she's really in the zone. But I do know that regardless of how many orgasms she may have before intercourse, the actual intercourse itself is the best part of sex for her. That may have something to do with my size as well.
My standard script is, and has been for many years, my partner comes first. This could be oral sex, it could be some other way, but it always happens. Then what happens after that is less stressful for both of us.
My standard script is, and has been for many years, my partner comes first. This could be oral sex, it could be some other way, but it always happens. Then what happens after that is less stressful for both of us.
If I don't make my girl cum I feel bad about it, it really turns me on to know that I made her cum.... so I always try to bring her to orgasm, does not always work, but hey, at least I tried then and I still enoyed the experience..
if your girl is likes it that way then great.
but, personally, i find that kind of pressure to O for his satisfaction a big turn off.
my sis throws a tantrum is she doesn't O.
i don't O and get pissed off when guys turn it into a quest.
