Re "the Big Tease". I agree with (and practice!) all that jonB Donk and littlbigguy have said about this, though I would myself, most of the time, see it as part of foreplay.
But what I meant about using my length to tease in my earlier post was something very specific.
It seems to me that when a long term partner adjusts (over a period of time) to a well endowed man, one of the things he is doing, aside from the gradual streching and the slow gains in depth and ease of penetration, is creating an appetite in her for the fullness and the distension that his size gives. For a man who is beyond just being "well endowed" this is all the more true. And normally of course it is our very great pleasure to satisfy the appetite we have created fully.
But by teasing I meant, just occasionally being a little cruel ... and withholding a good portion of the length she is used to receiving. Staying shallow. Being deaf to her pleas for "more!!". The more she begs and shouts, the more you pull out. Until she has quite given up .... when without warning and in one quick thrust you give her all that she wants, and maybe, with care, just a little more than she wants.
Described like this it seems an extreme example of male control freakery. Really, of course, it is just a bit of acting ... even down to the expression I try to keep on my face while doing it. But it never fails to provoke the most extreme climax in my wife. And in me. The trouble is of course, no way can I do this very often, or it becomes predictable and the whole effect is lost. Anyone else twisted enough to do this?