Alligator_Jack: it turns me on so much when my ex girlfriend begged after i teased her, her eyes got all glazed over, and shed be dripping wet, and begging and moaning, then like opening and closing her legs, the slightest bit of my cock sent her on the hardest orgasms, my new girl is just the same, cant wait to fuck her!
Guyincognito: Nothing beats a strong tongue and the ability to give her multiple orgasms before you even shove your dick inside her.
By the time your done shes a wey convulsing mess
Dave
By the time your done shes a wey convulsing mess
Dave
Ladies..
You have got to help us out. What really works?
Yeah, I know foreplay and intimacy. But if the best sex organ is the brain, how do we massage that spot? Is talking dirty the most obvious? or the only?
When I was a super cool stud of 19 and really going after it, my partner whispered to me to say something dirty. So I replied, "I'm gonna fxxk your brains out." Well, we both got tickled and stopped....temporarily, after ageeing that was not the best line for me.
thanx,
jay
You have got to help us out. What really works?
Yeah, I know foreplay and intimacy. But if the best sex organ is the brain, how do we massage that spot? Is talking dirty the most obvious? or the only?
When I was a super cool stud of 19 and really going after it, my partner whispered to me to say something dirty. So I replied, "I'm gonna fxxk your brains out." Well, we both got tickled and stopped....temporarily, after ageeing that was not the best line for me.
thanx,
jay
sammygirly: Wow ask a loaded question...how many words do I have here before I get cut off? ~laughs~
First thing to remember is, of course, all women are different and all women will react differently to you. No one technique works for all of us.
Having said that, the tease that's already been discussed in it's various forms is huge. We like to know you're patient enough to care what we're feeling - and I don't mean that in a wishy-washy "show me you love me" way necessarily...but if a man is attentive to what I'm feeling as opposed to what will get him off fastest...that's a biggy. There's absolutely nothing like the pressure of the head on a clit, or knowing my man is in control of himself enough to make me beg. Right but, I have control issues all around ~laughs~
Um, but just to confuse you totally- those times you toss me down and take me NOW because you can't help it is also a huge turn-on. ~grins~
As for sex talk, I'll admit to cracking up once or twice myself. Sometimes it just starts sounding like a really bad porno except there's no groovy soundtrack. I find, what works best for me, is when the sex talk is sudden, comes out of nowhere and is in direct contrast to what I'm already experiencing...or is just genuine.
It's most important to stimulate our minds, and the best way to do that is to let us know that we are sexy, that we drive you wild and that you are enjoying helping us enjoy ourselves....because you know that women are the most self-conscious creatures on the planet.
I could go on, but that's really most important, in my opinion.
First thing to remember is, of course, all women are different and all women will react differently to you. No one technique works for all of us.
Having said that, the tease that's already been discussed in it's various forms is huge. We like to know you're patient enough to care what we're feeling - and I don't mean that in a wishy-washy "show me you love me" way necessarily...but if a man is attentive to what I'm feeling as opposed to what will get him off fastest...that's a biggy. There's absolutely nothing like the pressure of the head on a clit, or knowing my man is in control of himself enough to make me beg. Right but, I have control issues all around ~laughs~
Um, but just to confuse you totally- those times you toss me down and take me NOW because you can't help it is also a huge turn-on. ~grins~
As for sex talk, I'll admit to cracking up once or twice myself. Sometimes it just starts sounding like a really bad porno except there's no groovy soundtrack. I find, what works best for me, is when the sex talk is sudden, comes out of nowhere and is in direct contrast to what I'm already experiencing...or is just genuine.
It's most important to stimulate our minds, and the best way to do that is to let us know that we are sexy, that we drive you wild and that you are enjoying helping us enjoy ourselves....because you know that women are the most self-conscious creatures on the planet.
I could go on, but that's really most important, in my opinion.
Maximillian: Hmm, I put some thought into how I was going to respond to this thread, and I have to say that foreplay is my preferential tease. I so love to tease my lady, whether it be tying her up and "torturing" every part of her body with a multitude of sensations, Wax, ice, feathers, just the warmth of my breath on her skin, the dragging of my fingertips over her, use of a blindfold to deprive her of sight to enhance the sensations, or even something so simple as not allowing her my touch. Sometimes deprivation of sensation and anticipation is more of a tease than anything. I think everyone else has already expressed the actual teasing during penetration, so I wont go there. This is just my opinion and so far I have received no complaints.
Maximillian: Okay, I have a serious complex now, posts seem to die when I reply, this is the 2nd one. Hmm ???
<slips back into the shadows, lurking and reading>
<slips back into the shadows, lurking and reading>
aussiechick63: I think your last post was a hard act to follow Max.
If that's your idea of foreplay I think I am going to have to get rid of Sammy and take over where she left. Unless you have a brother. I think that is the ultimate tease and definitely a turnon. You must drive her wild.
If that's your idea of foreplay I think I am going to have to get rid of Sammy and take over where she left. Unless you have a brother. I think that is the ultimate tease and definitely a turnon. You must drive her wild.
sammygirly: ~grins and nods slowly~
Oh yeah He does...um, but don't make me get out my knife. He's mine and I don't want to hurt anyone. ~LOL~
Oh yeah He does...um, but don't make me get out my knife. He's mine and I don't want to hurt anyone. ~LOL~
FunGirl: The thing that puts me over the top is when a guy is licking my pussy and moving a couple fingers in and out and all around the inside of me at the same time. Double the pleasure. Of course if you could get a third party involved the ultimate is having a real dick inside you whilst having your clit licked at the same time! Guys, for comparison purposes, it would be like getting your dick sucked and having your balls licked all at the same time. Sensory overload! :-*
Finedessert: "Guys, for comparison purposes, it would be like getting your dick sucked and having your balls licked all at the same time."
Bless me father for I have sinned......
Grandpa
Bless me father for I have sinned......
Grandpa
Cable_Guy: Sorry to take so long to reply...been offline for a good while...
You really nailed my technique - I normally insert first one, then a second finger. I turn my palm upward, so that my fingers are contacting the anterior vaginal wall several inches in. Then, while licking the girl's clit, I'll move my fingers about quickly and randomly while contacting the wall. I've been with many girls who went wild and experienced intense orgasms with this technique.
All that before inserting the bad boy.
Guy
You really nailed my technique - I normally insert first one, then a second finger. I turn my palm upward, so that my fingers are contacting the anterior vaginal wall several inches in. Then, while licking the girl's clit, I'll move my fingers about quickly and randomly while contacting the wall. I've been with many girls who went wild and experienced intense orgasms with this technique.
All that before inserting the bad boy.
Guy
nowoonder: My current gf -- like Donk's -- also comes to multiple orgasms just from doing nothing special. I just need to put my member into her and usually after not more than 30 s she will have her first orgasm. Bonus if I move nicely, but it is not a prerequisite. She can even get off without my moving at all -- just gripping her pc muscles around my dick is enough for her.
Normally, this continues for the whole session, i.e. every other 30s or so she will come again. Usually she relaxes every 5 minutes or so for maybe 2 or 3 minutes where she has at most one orgasm. And then the 20-40s rythm continues.
Sometimes, she has real multiple ones (as opposed to serial ones) and comes almost continously for at least a minute, sometimes even 2 or 3 minutes. In this phases there are some 4 or 5 second pauses between some of the orgasms and no noticeable ones between the others.
Only if sex lasts for a long time she stop coming so often and gets down to 1 or 2 orgasms each 5-10 minutes.
So, the bottom-line is that in a quickie she usually has 5 or 6 orgasms, regular sex is between 12 and 20 and on long sessions she just looses count.
Normally, this continues for the whole session, i.e. every other 30s or so she will come again. Usually she relaxes every 5 minutes or so for maybe 2 or 3 minutes where she has at most one orgasm. And then the 20-40s rythm continues.
Sometimes, she has real multiple ones (as opposed to serial ones) and comes almost continously for at least a minute, sometimes even 2 or 3 minutes. In this phases there are some 4 or 5 second pauses between some of the orgasms and no noticeable ones between the others.
Only if sex lasts for a long time she stop coming so often and gets down to 1 or 2 orgasms each 5-10 minutes.
So, the bottom-line is that in a quickie she usually has 5 or 6 orgasms, regular sex is between 12 and 20 and on long sessions she just looses count.
nowoonder: As for the reasons for my girlfriends's enormous orgasm capacity during intercourse I think that it is a mix of her sensitivity and my girth. My guess would be 80% sensitivity (she does not like oral sex at all because it is too intensive and she has no chance but to come immediately on contact with my tongue) and 20% pussy-filling girth. But I really cannot tell as I am her first guy and so she has nothing to compare with.
An affair of mine last year was older than me, though, and definitely had a lot to compare with. Before our affair one night she was sleeping over at my place. As I am not shy being naked and we had been naked together in saunas more than once I figured there would be nothing wrong with sleeping naked.
In the morning I had a morning hard-on, though. She had not had the chance to see it erect before and took a good and long look. I asked her how she liked it and she said she had seen ones that long (and one even longer), but it was thicker than any she had.
Well, guess, the end of the day she had to try and seduce me (although she was a good friend of my gf). We had great sex and she orgasmed quite often, though not as excessive as my gf. She later told me she had never had so many while fucking and especially it was her first time to have 3 in a quick succession of only a few seconds in between. Before she had only had like 2 or 3 in one session seperated by at least a few minutes. Only when masturbating had she had so many orgasms in only a few minutes.
So that's where my 80-20 guestimate comes from.
An affair of mine last year was older than me, though, and definitely had a lot to compare with. Before our affair one night she was sleeping over at my place. As I am not shy being naked and we had been naked together in saunas more than once I figured there would be nothing wrong with sleeping naked.
In the morning I had a morning hard-on, though. She had not had the chance to see it erect before and took a good and long look. I asked her how she liked it and she said she had seen ones that long (and one even longer), but it was thicker than any she had.
Well, guess, the end of the day she had to try and seduce me (although she was a good friend of my gf). We had great sex and she orgasmed quite often, though not as excessive as my gf. She later told me she had never had so many while fucking and especially it was her first time to have 3 in a quick succession of only a few seconds in between. Before she had only had like 2 or 3 in one session seperated by at least a few minutes. Only when masturbating had she had so many orgasms in only a few minutes.
So that's where my 80-20 guestimate comes from.
fitandhung: I've tried most of the techniques / games that everyones been discussing. I agree with Max's the witholding is a goood technique for an established partner, have tried it and then when she isnt looking 'wham'.
I've also experienced two-fister's femal shooting, really bizzare the first time it happened, but was told when she gets really turned on. Pretty cool that i managed to have that effect on a girl.
I have caused one or two mulitiple orgasms, and noramlly gurantee one in a session, like donk ive put it down to surface contact.
I've also experienced two-fister's femal shooting, really bizzare the first time it happened, but was told when she gets really turned on. Pretty cool that i managed to have that effect on a girl.
I have caused one or two mulitiple orgasms, and noramlly gurantee one in a session, like donk ive put it down to surface contact.
thickun: I once had a girlfriend who had an extra sensitive clit. The sensitivity increased whenever we were in the shower or tub with water. All I had to do was have the shower going and start rubbing her clit and within about 15 seconds she would cum. It was the same response if we were soaking in the tub. I’d start rubbing her clit and within 15 seconds it was the same response. I usually ended up carrying her out of the tub or shower and drying her off and putting her on the bed. The best response of all was when I’d go down on her. The first couple of times I went down on her she seemed to enjoy it, but we were still learning each other’s bodies. One time I was going down on her and she let out this blood-curdling scream. Normally, I would have the radio going to set the mood, but this time I didn’t have the radio going. I thought maybe I hurt her or something. Evidently, she really enjoyed herself, because she rolled over and went to sleep. There were even times when she would start hyperventilating when I went down on her. I guess that was the signal to stop and calm her down. From that point on the goal was to get her to scream. She seemed to have control of the screaming. She said that she would have mini orgasms and if she held back she could have one big one that would cause her to scream. Normally, I would go down on her and get her sopping wet. Then she would beg me to start giving it to her. I would drive her nuts and she would just beg for me to give it to her. If I didn’t give it to her then she most likely would have the big “O” and scream. The most fascinating thing was going down on her and getting her wet. I haven’t had a girlfriend since who got as wet, but she still had trouble accepting my width. I am about 6.5 inches around on a good day. She never complained either. After the initial thrust, she was good to go. The frustrating thing with her was that I don’t think she was ever able to cum from regular intercourse. She had no trouble cumming with me rubbing her clit with my tongue or fingers. I thought it was really interesting that instead of the man cumming and rolling over and going to sleep that it was the woman who did. It would be great to find a woman like that again!
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