Female partners and male bisexuality

[Chuck1226]

I'm curious how many other men had a female nudge or shove them towards their bisexuality. My ex wife was the first. She loved gay porn and would playfully insist that I watch with her. I resisted and truly had little interest in it and wouldn't admit the interest I did have. I watched because she liked it. I became desensitized over time. Then I found things that turned me on,quickly followed by things that didn't.
She liked seeing me get hard to it.

 

[dickthrobbing]

Ii was a girl friend I had many years ago that introduced me to sex with guys, it was at a swinging event I knew she was bi and she often talked about how seeing guy on guy turned her on

Basically a swinging party I had my face in a nice pussy when I was given a BJ after a while the pussy go off my face and I looked down at who was giving me an excellent BJ when I was my GF with a big grin and a lad with his lips locked around my cock, next think I knew I was in 69 with him ..............

The rest as they say is history ..........

The GF she ended up and is still happy in a female female relationship

 

[Chuck1226]

I'm curious how many other men had a female nudge or shove them towards their bisexuality. My ex wife was the first. She loved gay porn and would playfully insist that I watch with her. I resisted and truly had little interest in it and wouldn't admit the interest I did have. I watched because she liked it. I became desensitized over time. Then I found things that turned me on,quickly followed by things that didn't.
She liked seeing me get hard to it.

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Ii was a girl friend I had many years ago that introduced me to sex with guys, it was at a swinging event I knew she was bi and she often talked about how seeing guy on guy turned her on

Basically a swinging party I had my face in a nice pussy when I was given a BJ after a while the pussy go off my face and I looked down at who was giving me an excellent BJ when I was my GF with a big grin and a lad with his lips locked around my cock, next think I knew I was in 69 with him ..............

The rest as they say is history ..........

The GF she ended up and is still happy in a female female relationship

after my divorce that was not due to any sexual issues lol .
I rented a room from a female friend that was fully aware of my interest. I was open with my nudity and masturbation to cocks. She had a gay friend that came over to visit her daily and suggested that he and i jack together. He got rock hard staring at my cock and told me it was beautiful. Seeing his so hard from seeing mine got me hard. He started sucking and I came so hard in his mouth jacking his cock. The next time we met,I returned the favor. We met up often for awhile. I avoided relationships for quite awhile. I dont have romantic interest in men ,and didnt have the capacity in my heart for a woman at the time. I was pretty surprised at how much I was enjoying suck cock. Gay group porn,toy in ass and cock in my mouth had my attention. The next woman I was with loved to watch me with men and knew quite a few. We had a mutual friend that had same interest. Neither of us knew we were bi.
The 3 of us loved to fuck,suck and eat cum.

 

[Derringer]

One of my longer term girlfriends wanted to expand our sexual lifestyle to include others. guys, girls, couples. This came about after I found out she had been playing around with other guys.
Our overall relationship was rock solid but apparently she had been disatisfied with the sex. ( she always faked her enjoyment when I was actually fucking her although the foreplay etc was generally ok) She found she was lusting for a good fucking with a guy who had a decent sized cock. My penis is very small and she had always been used to much better hung guys.
Anyway we stayed together and indeed started engaging in mmfs and foursomes. I had developed a sph fetish and started to get off on watching her being fucked by other men.
During the course of a foursome with another couple ( the guy involved was definitely bi) my gf and his gf in the heat of the action cajoled me into interacting with him. It ended up with him pushing his much bigger cock up against mine then due to my sph fetish arousal level I was talked into letting him fuck me,. This activity under the gaze of the two,women was extremely arousing and I came almost immediately when his gf grabbed my penis.

 

[Scott8361]

My girlfriend of 11 years knows I had bi experiences right before we met. She was cool with it but told me she didn't want to "share me" with others.

Well, my desire for cock has come back strong and I have secretly indulged from time to time. I am wanting to let her know and want to include her in on that side of my sex life... but fear it wouldn't go over well.

 

[elklindoxxx]

For us, we only had male/female sex with other couples. Then we recently met a couple, and the woman asked me if I wanted to go with her man and I was fine with it. And I told my partner to let me experiment and she was a little surprised and said yes. So we agreed that I would top him.

When we were all done, she gives me the look and says....you really worked him and came on his butt like a pro. You really enjoyed it didn't you.... I just told her to not tell anybody else. She didn't get turned on by it but now she doesn't object to me doing it with other men.

 

[johnweek1]

I was never nudged or shoved into anything regarding my bisexuality. That said, once my ex (current FWB) found out when I came out out to her, she was super supportive and accepting. She was (and still is) always looking for ways to incorporate my bisexuality into our sex lives. We broke up because the spark was gone, but we remain good friends and are very sexually active with each other since we both agreed the sex was the only thing keeping us together originally, so we mine as well keep having it till we find new romantic partners.

 

[MNpervert]

My 'shove' was from a female milf I had the hots for not knowing her and her hubby were bi swingers. She pushed me off the dock basically right into the arms of her husband.

 

[lasolasbud]

There really isn’t a thread on the swinging community but this thread looks pretty close.

I recently hooked up with a straight married couple who are swingers. The wife had posted an ad for a bull cock for her husband. She was very specific about what she was looking for. She would not participate; she was arranging this just for her husband and would watch. She said her husband loved to suck cock, get fucked, and loved cum and would take multiple loads in his mouth and or hole.

She said, she got about thirty inquiries and selected me because I sounded like a nice guy and my cock was big. When I got there, she offered me a glass of wine and took me up to the bedroom where her husband was blindfolded and handcuffed to the bed. They were a good-looking couple, in their 50s, both remarried. She was a swinger in her first marriage; he was new to the scene but together they had been swinging for several years.

He was around 5’ 9”, very well built and was lying there with an average cock, hard and ready. She told me I could do whatever I wanted to do with him, just as long as I gave him lots of cum. I stripped down, got on the bed, stood over his head and slowly dropped my cock into his mouth. I couldn’t get all of my cock in his mouth, he started to choke. Soon after, his wife and I removed the handcuffs, and I fucked him for the next two hours. He was extremely flexible; on his back he grabbed his ankles and pulled his feet behind his head giving me full access to his hole.

When the night ended, we hung out for a while and chatted. They both thanked me, and he said he loved my cock and cum. I asked them, since they were swingers why they posted and ad. The guy had great oral skills and his hole was amazing, I would have guessed within the swinger’s community he would have plenty of cock.

Well, I was wrong. Apparently, here in Colorado most of the male swingers are not really interested in having their cocks sucked by other men or dipping their cocks into other men’s holes. They do like to watch their wives with other men and like the girl-on-girl sex, but man sex seems to be taboo.

This poor guy isn’t getting what he wants at swinger events and at home his wife pegs him with a huge strap-on.

I was wondering if this is a common occurrence within the swinging community. I’m not a swinger so I was just curious.

 

[deleted18817831]

Ii was a girl friend I had many years ago that introduced me to sex with guys, it was at a swinging event I knew she was bi and she often talked about how seeing guy on guy turned her on

Basically a swinging party I had my face in a nice pussy when I was given a BJ after a while the pussy go off my face and I looked down at who was giving me an excellent BJ when I was my GF with a big grin and a lad with his lips locked around my cock, next think I knew I was in 69 with him ..............

The rest as they say is history ..........

The GF she ended up and is still happy in a female female relationship

Most women I've been with were turned on by my bisexuality but nothing ever became of it

 

[Dutch1984]

I've not had any luck finding women who like bi guys, who are even into the idea of a mfm threesome. I usually keep my bi side a secret from women. At the most I make it sound like something I did when I was young.

 

[l3moning]

I know a couple of women who get off on the idea of gay sex but won't date bi men. Which is a bit frustrating, but not all that surprising either, tbh. For the most part I have no issue giving them wank fantasies if they want them lol

 

[Richiecable]

Wife is perfectly fine with me being Bi. As a matter of fact, we are going to a swing club in Dallas on the 14th to celebrate my Bday and she is looking for bi-couples. Lol.

 

[Supersteel876]

Wife is perfectly fine with me being Bi. As a matter of fact, we are going to a swing club in Dallas on the 14th to celebrate my Bday and she is looking for bi-couples. Lol.

Oh man I was just in Dallas a few nights ago I wish I knew about this!

 

[Supersteel876]

I’m bi and my fiancé is also bi. We’re open to seeing other people within certain limits. I wouldn’t have it any other way.

 

[Richiecable]

Oh man I was just in Dallas a few nights ago I wish I knew about this!

Let me know next time!

 

[bi20sman]

There really isn’t a thread on the swinging community but this thread looks pretty close.

I recently hooked up with a straight married couple who are swingers. The wife had posted an ad for a bull cock for her husband. She was very specific about what she was looking for. She would not participate; she was arranging this just for her husband and would watch. She said her husband loved to suck cock, get fucked, and loved cum and would take multiple loads in his mouth and or hole.

She said, she got about thirty inquiries and selected me because I sounded like a nice guy and my cock was big. When I got there, she offered me a glass of wine and took me up to the bedroom where her husband was blindfolded and handcuffed to the bed. They were a good-looking couple, in their 50s, both remarried. She was a swinger in her first marriage; he was new to the scene but together they had been swinging for several years.

He was around 5’ 9”, very well built and was lying there with an average cock, hard and ready. She told me I could do whatever I wanted to do with him, just as long as I gave him lots of cum. I stripped down, got on the bed, stood over his head and slowly dropped my cock into his mouth. I couldn’t get all of my cock in his mouth, he started to choke. Soon after, his wife and I removed the handcuffs, and I fucked him for the next two hours. He was extremely flexible; on his back he grabbed his ankles and pulled his feet behind his head giving me full access to his hole.

When the night ended, we hung out for a while and chatted. They both thanked me, and he said he loved my cock and cum. I asked them, since they were swingers why they posted and ad. The guy had great oral skills and his hole was amazing, I would have guessed within the swinger’s community he would have plenty of cock.

Well, I was wrong. Apparently, here in Colorado most of the male swingers are not really interested in having their cocks sucked by other men or dipping their cocks into other men’s holes. They do like to watch their wives with other men and like the girl-on-girl sex, but man sex seems to be taboo.

This poor guy isn’t getting what he wants at swinger events and at home his wife pegs him with a huge strap-on.

I was wondering if this is a common occurrence within the swinging community. I’m not a swinger so I was just curious.

Yes. In the middle part of the US this is a double standard. Bi Female is expected Bi male, Hell no.

 

[lasolasbud]

Yes. In the middle part of the US this is a double standard. Bi Female is expected Bi male, Hell no.

I wonder why there is a double standard. Aside from being penetrated by your wife’s strap-on, how do you find men in your area who are interested in pleasuring you in a three-way?

 

[Gracious_living]

My partner is quite supportive, especially when horny haha. The first real push was while she was giving me a blowjob, getting me really close to orgasm. She started asking me questions, like "would you sleep with... Would you do this .." etc as a tease.
She asked me if I'd suck a guys dick, and I surprised myself by playing cool and saying I might try it, but she had my cock in her mouth, and she told me she felt how hard I throbbed, how much I started to leak and how big I got when she asked that. She knew I wanted to, and since then she's done similar stuff to tease me, teasing me with my own cum when we're on round two.

 

[Lance V]

I've never had a wife ask me about my sexual orientation primarily because when I'm in a committed relationship I am solely focused on her.

My last marriage ended when I discovered she was not solely focused on me.

Anyway.

Only recently have I had another woman ask about my sexuality. She's a neighbor with whom I could harbor some significant feelings toward except that she's married. And that's not a mine field that I'd prefer to traverse. She's also about 30 years younger.

But at a rooftop party of residents in the building she cornered me and asked why I did not have a significant other. I explained that I was divorced twice and believed that I was the common factor in both cases, so I don't feel like making the same mistake three times.

She said I would be a great catch and asked if I dated, and I told her I had some friends that I would see every so often.

She shocked me when she asked if they were women. Now, I don't put off a gay vibe as far as I am able to tell, but I guess it's a reasonable question.

I said some are.

Her eyebrows rose. She said she had more questions but said it's best to leave it as is. And she apologized if she appeared to be nosy.

I told her no harm done.

I haven't spoken to her since, but I just wonder how long she's been concerned about my love life.