I think that many of the lpsg female members, after belonging here for a while and reading all those posts, may have realized that many men, if not most, who are considered to be straight, can under certain circumstances experience attraction, lust, feelings, whatever, for the same gender. I wonder how you have reacted to this realization, in other words, to finding out that a man's sexuality can also be a very complex thing, that it is not really clear-cut: 1. with surprise? 2. with repulse? 3. with resignation? or acceptance? 4. with skepticism? (that is, you haven't realized anything; you view a man's sexuality in the same way you did before joining lpsg) 5. with some other feeling?