Female size envy?

[Mal_the_Wolf]

Well.... All sarcasm aside the original issue is still a mystery, why the hell is it suddenly unfashionable to have large breasts? The opposite sex is no less attracted to them, they are no more or less a hassle, so why is it in the past 10 years the big boobs are suddenly considered unfashionable and if large enough, gross......... I suppose the large penis group and the love of being hung is what made me start thinking about it.......

 

[dolfette]

perhaps because large has a mental association with porn and plastic.

but women have always hated their cumbersome boobs. it's just that in the last few years there are operations to 'fix' them becoming available to ordinary people.
have you checked the states for all types of cosmetic ops? all have sky rocketed in the last decade.

that and we talk about everything more openly than we used to.

 

[ConstantComment]

you ever wish they were bigger? possibly consider surgery?

Yeah, I do. I wear a B cup and have a JLo type body.Problems I have with surgery is that quite often the results look unnatural, I don't want basketballs or even tennis balls attached to my chest wall. Also, I'm not sure if I could play it off. One day a B, and then the next week a D or E cup, you know people who have known you for a while are going to look and may even ask. I don't have that boshoi kind of attitude.

I do read on men's boards there are some men that prefer natural breasts what ever their size. And there are men who prefer large breasts no matter how they got there. I'll just keep myself in shape and find a man can love the package.

 

[voidout]

when it comes to fashion, large breasts are typically, unless a swimsuit/lingerie model, not wanted for obvious reasons. not all fashion trends flatter a woman's body who has curves. not to mention, they need less fabric and less alterations.

i don't think people find them unappealing or unfashionable, and i certainly don't dislike mine. do i think they're sagging? yeah. is that upsetting? duh. do i want to chop them off? fuck no.

as for other women, i think that typically applies for women who have breasts dd and up. the back pain, the sagging, the bra strap pain/indents. (yes, indents. my grandmother has them in her shoulder, and my god it makes me shiver every time i see them.) i think it's pretty easy to see why some women would want them reduced.

there's only so much "the right bra" and "the right exercise routine" will do for some women out there.

 

[Mal_the_Wolf]

there's only so much "the right bra" and "the right exercise routine" will do for some women out there.

Of course....... We all age and that's the big thing to suffer on a woman , she wasn't with out everyday aches and pains you have in your late 40's but my ex's mom is. a JJ cup and she went from barely being able to walk with out doing the leg drag thing after a half mile to being able to do the big midtown race through the park a year or so back..... With the help of 2 bad ass sports bras and a big ace bandage.......

Of the major causes of a woman's back issues aside from the boobs is the natural bone issues you all are prone to, which are preventable to a HUGE degree, with a regular squat routine and calcium supplements. Nothing is gonna stop time and gravity (dunno what you're talking about, I didn't any sag on yours, just myop) but you can slow it down and float instead of fall

That and the reduction scars are ........ Not as unoticable as the docs say

 

[sassy Lisa]

it's strange to me that large breasted women so often hate their breasts, why is that? I hear all the time (even in here) about how a woman with large hates them. Its the main reason I left my job a trainer, its so odd to me that even with the hassles of a large penis, the difficulty finding clothing, single minded or unwanted or attention, sexual limitations etc. I don't think even the freakishly large guys in here ever say what olivia said about her (IMO perfect) breasts "they're TOO big" would even consider a penis reduction even if there were no scars or loss of sensation. But many young girls, for no reason other than cosmetic, ACTIVLY seek breast reductions. Not looking for a turn on from the busty girls talking about their boobs, I just wanted your thoughts

Yes being a 42G I find there are times my breast are the most fustrating thing in the world. Like when I want to get a bra and I have to special order it, trying blouses on at the store and not finding anything that looks good or even riding my horse cause it can get painful.

That being said, I like my breast they are fun when it comes to playtime in the bedroom. I wear an extra sports bra when I go riding my horse to reduce the bounce, play pool on a regular basis and can sleep on my stomach with no problems.

I know I would go down a bra size if I lost some weight, but I still will have to special order my bras but I might find some blouses that fit better in the stores.

 

[NotSoDumb_Blonde]

I'm just wondering whether smaller women just simply don't broadcast their bra size. Are there any A B C's on this board?

Sure there are. I'm a C, and I often get back pain -- I'm not huge, they spill over a bit in the C cup, but I don't fit a D, so...And I do get a proper bra! I even get fitted. I also work on the muscles supporting the back and the stomach, but even my C cup breasts can cause some back pain. But, that said, I like them, not too big, not too small and yeah gravity is a bitch!!! lol, but I think there are also women out there with small breasts that get enlargements. Are we going to discuss this? And, some women I know with large breasts hit a growth spurt that left them with stretch marks. So....interesting topic, but it's all about your own perception of yourself, I think. Although, that being said, a compliment to your body goes a long, long way! LOL So, maybe if more women with large breasts could avoid back pain and feel good about their size....they'd keep them??

 

[whatireallywant]

Yeah, I do. I wear a B cup and have a JLo type body.Problems I have with surgery is that quite often the results look unnatural, I don't want basketballs or even tennis balls attached to my chest wall. Also, I'm not sure if I could play it off. One day a B, and then the next week a D or E cup, you know people who have known you for a while are going to look and may even ask. I don't have that boshoi kind of attitude.

I do read on men's boards there are some men that prefer natural breasts what ever their size. And there are men who prefer large breasts no matter how they got there. I'll just keep myself in shape and find a man can love the package.

Also a B here - not sure I'd describe my body as "JLo type" but I do have more of a pear-shaped body - but I'm thick waisted (always have been, even when I was slim). I love my butt though! I always did... But I'm kinda weird breast wise - I'm a 38B and wish I was like a 32J or something! (but all natural! And perky despite the size! And of course slim everywhere else! Well, except I like my bubble butt, that is... And never gain weight anywhere else! Yeah, I know, dream on... doesn't exist in nature and all that...) But then, most men I've known won't even look at a woman if she isn't busty. And I have those years-long dry spells and all. And yes, I know there are men who prefer small breasts (but they usually prefer thin girls, which I'm not - or not anymore anyway; haven't been since I was around 19 years old...), and some for whom it doesn't matter (those are the ones I want... but for me size DOES matter in a man! I'm on LPSG for a reason... :biggrin1

And as for the other supposed drawbacks to large breasts, I HATE sleeping on my stomach and never do that anyway, so that'd be no big deal. I don't run and haven't been able to run since I was in my early teens, so no change there either. Possible back pain is the only drawback I can even think of... I mean, unwanted attention? Try being not noticed by men hardly at all!

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

OH and sometimes you want to swim without having your tits stared at. A full piece swimsuit still doesnt hide them, often they just make for a lot of clevage just like a bikini. By the time you fit your tits in a full piece the rest of it is too big. A lot of larger women end up putting a shirt over their swim suit to avoid the embarassment.

 

[Mal_the_Wolf]

OH and sometimes you want to swim without having your tits stared at. A full piece swimsuit still doesnt hide them, often they just make for a lot of clevage just like a bikini. By the time you fit your tits in a full piece the rest of it is too big. A lot of larger women end up putting a shirt over their swim suit to avoid the embarassment.

*COUGH..........YEAH.........MR.................. NOT WANTING ATTENTION....... YEAH...............YOU MUST ONLY GO SWIMMING ON ALL THOSE DAYS THAT DONT END IN Y..........



LOL
J/K

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

*COUGH..........YEAH.........MR.................. NOT WANTING ATTENTION....... YEAH...............YOU MUST ONLY GO SWIMMING ON ALL THOSE DAYS THAT DONT END IN Y..........



LOL
J/K

AS much as you might think that, the photos i have online are a comfortable alterego that i can be on the net where its not necessarily smart or safe to run around showing yourself like that.

I live in a very small town, so its especially not comfortable to walk around looking provocative.

So when i swim, its usually at someones house in my family, so showing of my tits isnt exactly on my priority list.

 

[dolfette]

i'm with you, mantis.
the gawking & comments i get rl make getting into a swimming costume just plain tedious.
just because i have pics online, doesn't mean i'm comfortable with being half naked in a public place.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I've been pretty fortunate not getting public comments that i can recall. Maybe its the area that i live in that could generate a lack of comments from strangers.

I know plenty of people who arent impressed with breasts and are more attracted to other parts of the female body so its not like everywhere one goes they are going to get everyone noticing their chest. Some guys are going to notice, some guys arent going to. In my daily life, it really rather it not be the first thing noticed on me.

Most women i know arent comfortable with the public attention from strangers. We all might be vixens on the internet but when we are buying toilet paper at the grocery store- we don't look our best and care not to be noticed at all.

 

[EllieP]

34G, cmon some people would worship those gravity or not

Like Dolfette says "they're just tits." I know guys look. Heaven knows guys look. I really don't care anymore. I use to be uncomfortable because I thought they were pervs. When I got remarried we became very open about our sexuality (never did that in my first marriage) and I learned a lot about a guy's thought process. Cap says men would pay good money to watch me unhook my bra at the end of the day, even if my shirt were on. OK, that's kind of sick, but there's a lot in this world I don't understand.

My biggest problem is that I love to work out. I love to spend two or three hours at the gym. I am so strapped in that it becomes hard to breathe sometimes. My swimsuits are pretty constrictive too. I have one two-piece that I'd never wear in public.

I'm not really comfortable being worshipped and personally don't see anything too attractive about it. But different strokes for different folks, no pun intended.

 

[ConstantComment]

One thing that good about this thread is that it seems that women are honest about their bra size. Ever notice when the tabloids give out some minor celebrities bra size, it's always some large letter E+, but always some tiny number like 34 or 32, like Katie Price.

 

[dolfette]

One thing that good about this thread is that it seems that women are honest about their bra size. Ever notice when the tabloids give out some minor celebrities bra size, it's always some large letter E+, but always some tiny number like 34 or 32, like Katie Price.

jordan? hers are plastic though.
the woman is tiny! very skinny & easily only a 34.
i'm only a 36, so my E looks big on my frame.

it's not always true that only larger women have larger breasts.

 

[Mal_the_Wolf]

I was just teasing MR , I actually understand and relate to that. If you check my posts I seem to always be asking for any advice on how NOT to be so out there, because gay men and some women like to comment or even try to be physical, and where as I do some times enjoy being on display. Some times its inappropriate

But I ask you girls, is there any time specifically that having large breasts makes you feel not just desirable but also....... More "womanly" I guess?

 

[dolfette]

But I ask you girls, is there any time specifically that having large breasts makes you feel not just desirable but also....... More "womanly" I guess?

nope. they're just tits.

an A can feed a baby as well as an E.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

I think it depends on what breasts mean to you personally. Some women don't feel like their breasts are attractive and thus might not see their breasts as feminine or sexual. Some guys arent even into large breasts at all. Strangely, i've met a lot of gay men who love female breasts. So it obviously represents something different to everyone.

I grew up with a mom that has a large chest so i always saw them as something i wanted to have, that meant i was built like a woman. I always wanted large breasts even when i was an adult and underweight and smaller. So it never dawned on me how they might be an inconvenience in my day to day life.

Now that im on the other side, i will admit i do utilize them during foreplay and my husband enjoys them and thats where i get to feel like all the hassles i deal with are worth it.

Unfortunately my larger breasts means that i have a larger tummy as well because it took packing on some weight to get some boobs.

Im sure my views might be different had i been toting around D cups from 6th grade.

 

[chestybbwsizequeen]

I have been a bbw all of my life (started wearing a training bra in 3rd grade). The only time I have had back problems is the day after wearing a push up bra for a long period of time. I am a 44g/h cup. (You can defy gravity but there will be a price to pay) I have never had a problem finding bras. And now they are being made in a range of colors and styles.