Hmmm... good questions, but difficult to answer, especially since I don't always like the same things in my porn, depends on my hormones. It took me a while to write this all down (somewhat) properly...
1) What do you specifically seek out when you are looking for things to turn you on? Whether it's literotica, pictures or videos.
In porn:
- a really tall guy with broad shoulders and some muscles on him, and please-please-please a somewhat hairy chest!
Big thighs are a plus too.
- a fit couple, they don't have to be "thin" or "chiseled", but if they're "fat" in an unhealthy way I'll be less likely to watch. If they have kick-ass chemistry together though I don't mind how they look.
- a guy that genuinely enjoys pleasuring the woman, for the right reason. (not because giving her orgasms gives him mojo!)
- a guy that respects the woman and knows how to handle her, someone that can read her signs and does the right things at the right time
- a lot lot lot of sweet foreplay, lots of kissing, joking around, getting all flirty with each other and just really having fun together
- a woman that really lets go, that really enjoys being there and is not "doing her job to earn her monies"
- a long, good oral scene with, again, a guy that knows what he's doing and catches on the woman's vibe quickly
- a guy that takes the lead during sex can be hot, especially when he does it in a very "enveloping" way? Hmmm... I wouldn't know how to properly say this in english.
- the two together must bring chemistry on the screen, in a way that you forget there's even a camera
- lots of kissing!
- I sometimes really like somewhat male-dominant porn, even towards BDSM, but the guy in those scenes must be very "giving" and not "taking"
- those "very caught up in the moment softly putting his hand around her throat while staring in her eyes"-scenes. HOT!!
- still lots of kissing
- when he softly bites in her neck during doggie
- a guy that starts grunting when he's about to come... so hot!
- when the guy comes, INSIDE the pussy please, and no, I don't want to see the woman push the semen out. I want to see him lying spent on top of her just snuggling a bit.
In erotica:
- character development and good, intelligent conversations
- bad boys, alpha males, strong characters
- intelligent women, strong personalities
- a good story, preferably of two strong characters that are very passionate
- vampire/werewolf stories, they bring out more passion, and there's usually the whole alpha-male thing going on, which I dig!
- romance stories
It's not really about the sex scenes (though those should be well-written as well), but about the mood that is set, the way the story is transformed in my mind to feeling, emotion, turned-onness
In pictures:
- artistics
- lightnening
- passion, love, emotions coming through
- esthetic physiques
2) What do you dislike when you see or read about it?
In porn:
- most blowjobs, they're boring, they mostly involve trying to facefuck, they're mostly shot at weird angles and I HATE IT when they faceslap the dick on her. All in all, most blowjobs in porn are not respectful towards the woman, and that bothers me.
- ridiculous big dicks that never really get hard, most dicks in porn are too long anyways, if they're hurting the girl trying to ram it in try to strangle them through my screen. (is not good for laptop!)
- most porn scenes. They're BORING! most couples don't have chemistry at all. Watching a dick sliding in and out of a pussy when there's no eye-contact, no kissing, no whispering into each others ears or
- a constant minding of camera angles... I don't really care if I get a good view of that dick sliding into her pussy, as long as it doesn't interfere with the passion on-screen. When they're minding camera angles, they're not focussed on each other.
- the lack of hair. I like the men to be hairy, I like the women to be hairy. It doesn't have to be jungle-style, but at least some hair please!
- fake boobs, they're horrible! I won't notice the woman's boobs unless when they're fake. Then they annoy me.
- anal = instant turn-off.
In erotic stories:
- bad writing
- spelling/grammar errors
- science fiction
Well... that's a start. I can't really write it *ALL* down...
1) What do you specifically seek out when you are looking for things to turn you on? Whether it's literotica, pictures or videos.
In porn:
- a really tall guy with broad shoulders and some muscles on him, and please-please-please a somewhat hairy chest!
- a fit couple, they don't have to be "thin" or "chiseled", but if they're "fat" in an unhealthy way I'll be less likely to watch. If they have kick-ass chemistry together though I don't mind how they look.
- a guy that genuinely enjoys pleasuring the woman, for the right reason. (not because giving her orgasms gives him mojo!)
- a guy that respects the woman and knows how to handle her, someone that can read her signs and does the right things at the right time
- a lot lot lot of sweet foreplay, lots of kissing, joking around, getting all flirty with each other and just really having fun together
- a woman that really lets go, that really enjoys being there and is not "doing her job to earn her monies"
- a long, good oral scene with, again, a guy that knows what he's doing and catches on the woman's vibe quickly
- a guy that takes the lead during sex can be hot, especially when he does it in a very "enveloping" way? Hmmm... I wouldn't know how to properly say this in english.
- the two together must bring chemistry on the screen, in a way that you forget there's even a camera
- lots of kissing!
- I sometimes really like somewhat male-dominant porn, even towards BDSM, but the guy in those scenes must be very "giving" and not "taking"
- those "very caught up in the moment softly putting his hand around her throat while staring in her eyes"-scenes. HOT!!
- still lots of kissing
- when he softly bites in her neck during doggie
- a guy that starts grunting when he's about to come... so hot!
- when the guy comes, INSIDE the pussy please, and no, I don't want to see the woman push the semen out. I want to see him lying spent on top of her just snuggling a bit.
In erotica:
- character development and good, intelligent conversations
- bad boys, alpha males, strong characters
- intelligent women, strong personalities
- a good story, preferably of two strong characters that are very passionate
- vampire/werewolf stories, they bring out more passion, and there's usually the whole alpha-male thing going on, which I dig!
- romance stories
It's not really about the sex scenes (though those should be well-written as well), but about the mood that is set, the way the story is transformed in my mind to feeling, emotion, turned-onness
In pictures:
- artistics
- lightnening
- passion, love, emotions coming through
- esthetic physiques
2) What do you dislike when you see or read about it?
In porn:
- most blowjobs, they're boring, they mostly involve trying to facefuck, they're mostly shot at weird angles and I HATE IT when they faceslap the dick on her. All in all, most blowjobs in porn are not respectful towards the woman, and that bothers me.
- ridiculous big dicks that never really get hard, most dicks in porn are too long anyways, if they're hurting the girl trying to ram it in try to strangle them through my screen. (is not good for laptop!)
- most porn scenes. They're BORING! most couples don't have chemistry at all. Watching a dick sliding in and out of a pussy when there's no eye-contact, no kissing, no whispering into each others ears or
- a constant minding of camera angles... I don't really care if I get a good view of that dick sliding into her pussy, as long as it doesn't interfere with the passion on-screen. When they're minding camera angles, they're not focussed on each other.
- the lack of hair. I like the men to be hairy, I like the women to be hairy. It doesn't have to be jungle-style, but at least some hair please!
- fake boobs, they're horrible! I won't notice the woman's boobs unless when they're fake. Then they annoy me.
- anal = instant turn-off.
In erotic stories:
- bad writing
- spelling/grammar errors
- science fiction
Well... that's a start. I can't really write it *ALL* down...