First off I have to explain that I don't bond to humans like normal people do. I do not hold friendships or relationships of any sort and I've never regretted removing people from my life. I just don't form the normal bonds that a person normally would form. Strange as it is, I've come to accept this as normal, I've removed my best friend of 8 years from my life completely without a word and have no remorse or regret.
Herein lies the problem though. I met this amazing person off the site and I've spent almost 10 months getting to know him, I have love for him like I've never experienced for a straight guy before, so it's all new to me, except I understand the feelings as love. It is though pretty obviously one sided, I love him, he whatevers me. That doesn't even bother me. The feeling of trying to run away when I don't think things are going to work is what is making me feel like I'm doing this for all the wrong reasons.
There is no doubt in my mind that he is the most beautiful person I've ever met and I indeed care about him more than he understands, but I can't seem to stop myself from wanting to run. It's not fair to him because he's never had someone stick around in his life to love him, I want to be there. But I get these vibes that he doesn't want me around, that I'm wasting my time and that I'm just an annoyance to him, which in turn makes me want to turn around and get out. I don't know if those vibes are really there, or if I am just making it up, but it makes me really sad, because I really care.
I don't know what to do, or where to turn...
Herein lies the problem though. I met this amazing person off the site and I've spent almost 10 months getting to know him, I have love for him like I've never experienced for a straight guy before, so it's all new to me, except I understand the feelings as love. It is though pretty obviously one sided, I love him, he whatevers me. That doesn't even bother me. The feeling of trying to run away when I don't think things are going to work is what is making me feel like I'm doing this for all the wrong reasons.
There is no doubt in my mind that he is the most beautiful person I've ever met and I indeed care about him more than he understands, but I can't seem to stop myself from wanting to run. It's not fair to him because he's never had someone stick around in his life to love him, I want to be there. But I get these vibes that he doesn't want me around, that I'm wasting my time and that I'm just an annoyance to him, which in turn makes me want to turn around and get out. I don't know if those vibes are really there, or if I am just making it up, but it makes me really sad, because I really care.
I don't know what to do, or where to turn...