One topic everyone always seems to debate daily is whether or not one is born gay/straight, and if they choose what they end up being. Here is a better question, I think: First off: I am male, I have had sex with women a few times, it wasn't really that great. I find myself sexually attracted to men more than women. I have never had sex with a man. I fantasize about sex with men. So even though I have never had male/male sex. One, actually everyone, would say that I fall into the "gay" category. So I was either born gay, or I chose to be gay. ...According to the differing opinions on the issue. Well I can tell you I didn't choose to be gay. So that would mean I was born gay. So if I was born gay, how do I justify the fact that deep inside I want to have a family someday. I want to have a beautiful wife and raise a great family together. I want to raise children. All of the great things that any heterosexual male wants in life ...This doesn't really seem to fall into the gay category. So if I am gay, why would I have these feelings? it seems easy...but it's like I have everything except the sexual attraction to women to make this happen. Why don't I have this? Part 2: (if you're offended by religious banter ignore this part) I believe in God, Jesus as savior. I am not in church every Sunday. But, I have my personal faith. The bible says God wants humans to have sexual relations with a woman and multiply. (I am not here to argue whether or not it denounces homosexual activity, I have no opinion on that) So if that is the case, again, what am I missing? What didn't I get? Shouldn't I be pissed at someone, ready to kick their ass? I mean really, What the fuck!?