contrary to what some say, there are couples and groups that want single males. You just have to work a little to find them. First, join some swinger sites, SLS is a good one for the PA area (I used to live in Harrisburg and thats the site most swingers used in that area). You might also search for swinger clubs in the area. PA has some good ones. I know of several in the central PA region. TJ's is worth the trip for you. It's north of Harrisburg about 30 miles. I'm sure there are some in eastern PA as well. If you're cool, laid back, not overly pushy and have a personality it's not hard to meet eager couples or groups at clubs like this. Another bit of advice, if you can find a female playmate your search for naked fun will be so much easier. It's cheaper to get into the clubs as a couple, and she can draw in the fun. The simple fact of it is that there are many more couples searching for couples than a single guy. if you can find a cool non-jealous chick opportunities will open up quicker. The skinny... be willing to spend a little bit of money to join these websites, be willing to travel a bit, and be willing to put in the time emailing people and making introductions and you can find some fun shit. I was supposed to be at a party in Richmond tonight, but damn the hurricane I canceled. oh well. Hope this helps, just my 2 cents of being in the lifestyle as both a couple and a single guy.