finding a fuck on LPSG ain't that easy!

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Well, like I said in a previous post, I don't come here to hook up but have had several offers. I can only assume that they were honest about their invitations but since I declined I won't know for sure. Out of the dozen or so offers, three were from married males wanting to watch me and their wives (I saved the pm's). Some was from fm's and the rest from males. It doesn't appear to be hard (pardon the pun) to find someone on this site for sex but if I don't know you well enough I won't get together with you. That is why I don't come here for hooking up with someone. But like I said the cyber sex can be very very good.
 

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I've never really thought that seriously about hooking up on LPSG, because living in the most isolated city in the world I find that there generally isn't that many people near me on this sort of website. I do know some hooking up goes on.

In terms of real life hookups, I think people generally have much higher standards than who'll they'll have a dirty conversation with online. People want to feel safe and they don't want to risk that for anything but quality.

It causes the catch 22 of online interactions; If someone is attractive enough that you want to meet up with them, many other people want them as well. Because of this, the most attractive can choose the best from a large pool, especially if you're a real woman (definitely a minority here) or abnormally well hung good looking gay guy.

I know there are some women on here that have met guys from the site, but they're often very discrete about it (unless it becomes a relationship), because they don't want other guys knowing they do... mainly because that would invite a deluge of "me too".
 

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hey NJQT, I think it should be easier for men AND women to hook up through LPSG. and bigdikked, both you and I are actually in the personal ads section of LPSG, so it ain't such a dumb idea that you're not looking ;)
still haven't found a date tho' LOL
I put that ad up 6 months ago and rcv'd NO interested male response, only well wishers. :rolleyes:

People on here (especially guys) certainly like to brag and bullshit, BUT they surely dont like to leave their house to meet you. Maybe cause they are FAKE? That's my thought as well. Who knows. So I learned to not take this seriously, not to expect anything, and go with the flow. Just look at it as a time-killer, and entertainment. I do the same thing and it's fine until someone announces they have met their soulmate, are getting married and they met on this site! Then I either feel elated for them and hopeful for myself or angry and depressed because it's not me. :tongue::cool: I am in NYC and havent met a single guy on AOL in the 7 yrs Ive been there, nor have I met anyone here. I meet alot of guys on-line but most turn out to be players, fakes or guys that just want to cyber. I met one guy on AOL and that was by accident. I forgot I had AOL IM on and he IM'd me while I was playing bejeweled2 lol:biggrin1: we chatted for maybe 6 weeks before becoming fuckbuddies.
But dont give up people, Maybe you'll have better luck. Ya got nothing to lose. Alyn - NYC

But like I said the cyber sex can be very very good.
Damn it Josiah thats supposed to be a secret!


I've never really thought that seriously about hooking up on LPSG, because living in the most isolated city in the world I find that there generally aren't that many people near me on this sort of website. I do know some hooking up goes on.
In terms of real life hookups, I think people generally have much higher standards than who'll they'll have a dirty conversation with online. People want to feel safe and they don't want to risk that for anything but quality. This is very true. However, I don't cyber with just anybody and am in fact quite selective. I never cyber with anyone that I wouldn't at least go have a burger with. :cool: It causes the catch 22 of online interactions; If someone is attractive enough that you want to meet up with them, many other people want them as well. Because of this, the most attractive can choose the best from a large pool, Ahh so that's the problem! especially if you're a real woman (definitely a minority here) Speaking as a real woman, I have to disagree. The pool of quality straight men on this site is woefully small. or abnormally well hung good looking gay guy.

I know there are some women on here that have met guys from the site, but they're often very discrete about it (unless it becomes a relationship), because they don't want other guys knowing they do... mainly because that would invite a deluge of "me too". I imagine that would happen, because guys don't realize that just any old man won't do.:tongue:
 

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I appreciate that most of the guys on here identify as straight (and who am i to argue)

What? There are way more gay or gay-leaning/gay-friendly openly bi guys here than straight guys. At the very least among active posters, if not in general.

That said, this isn't expressly a hookup site. Even if I suspect that's part of what Mark created it for six or seven years ago or whenever. But whether that was the original creator's ulterior motive or not, it was never mission #1 of the site and still is not. It's a support site. Most of the support offered here is in the form of sharing words or pictures online.

Not everyone here is all talk. If you're only hanging out in certain sections of the board, perhaps the majority of people you run into there are. and there are MANY fakers here, though most of them are pretending to be straight women. But there are some real people. I've met several of them. I'm open to meeting more. But in the five or six years I've been around I've only ever had sexual relations with a couple people I met here. So... one every 3 years?
 

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Totally easy. I just waved my cock around and said "how you doin'?" in an English accent. :biggrin1:

That actually works on most American girls, sadly enough.

I have a friend from college who started speaking with an English accent, all the time, for this very reason. It eventually became quite convincing, too. and it worked.
 

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well many people have hang ups about meeting internet personalities, with the whole insane murderers and everything. i'd believe that would be especially true on a site dedicated to big cocks- something that could really fire up the envy/jealousy/lust whatever of individuals who are already off balance.
 

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Exhibitionism and promiscuity are two very different things. I am not modest with my body (obviously) but that doesn't mean I like to sleep around, just as I know many modest people that do like to have sex with different people.

I actually don't believe (I only apply this to myself, others do what is right for them) in fooling around with someone unless I am in a relationship, and I only get into a relationship if my feelings are real and I see a lasting future. This has happened only twice.

Sometimes it can be confusing, but i'm a prude who likes to show off his cock. I don't believe I am the only one.
 

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That actually works on most American girls, sadly enough.

I have a friend from college who started speaking with an English accent, all the time, for this very reason. It eventually became quite convincing, too. and it worked.

That's not a bad venture to make. Everyone I've met stateside seemed to love my accent and although I'm shy and too much attention can make me feel awkward, it is nice to garner some attention that I otherwise would likely not receive based on my own 'merits'.
 

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... you'd think that finding a fuck when you're a willing guy in a big city like london, on a great website like LPSG would be really easy.

It's not as easy as you might think. seems to me there's a lot of talk on this site, but a lot less action.
I would wager several here would agree with you. About half of the unsolicited e-mails I receive are from men who want to get together based solely on proximity (I haven't uploaded any pictures and I make no secret of the fact I am straight with a girlfriend).
 

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That actually works on most American girls, sadly enough. I told you to do that a month ago in a different thread but you wouldn't listen.:rolleyes:
I have a friend from college who started speaking with an English accent, all the time, for this very reason. It eventually became quite convincing, too. and it worked.
I used to use a fake French accent when shopping in NYC because I rcv'd better treatment from the help. They would fall all over each other to get to me. :rolleyes: I am no where near fluent in the language I used to call it my Miss Piggy French.:tongue:


That's not a bad venture to make. Everyone I've met stateside seemed to love my accent Americans LOVE accents! and although I'm shy and too much attention can make me feel awkward, it is nice to garner some attention that I otherwise would likely not receive based on my own 'merits'.
I suppose you could have been mute; but then you may have had to wave your cock about in order for them to fawn all over you.:biggrin1:


...another quality straight man...:wink:


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The pool of quality straight men on this site is woefully small.
Hi there. :smile:



Hi Guy-jin

Conchis, buona mattina voi uomo bello
 

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There are lots of delectable men on this site, straight and otherwise, including a number that I rather fancy.

However, I am here as an exhibitionist, not to sleep around. I need to be mentally engaged before I can be sexually engaged.

My "fastidiousness" drives my s/o crazy because -- gotta love him -- he likes to share/voyeur or even just plain "hear about" more adventures than I am capable of. :eek::rolleyes:
 

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Dear what I really want...
Whay I really want is to hook up with a woman like you who is not all talk, amd really wants cock.
I have 9 inches to give, and it stays hard most of the time...I cam cum 6-8 times a day, give you all the cock you want, eeverywhere you want it, for as lomg as you want it.
I need to be sucked, and eat pussy for at least an hour then just do what you want. interested?
I am not all talk, I am a firm believer in loving kinfness.
I'm in Oklahoma, but I can meet you half way, or come to where you are. what do you thinK?
 

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Jeffin, i get your point about unsolicited messages from people you're not interested in not warranting a response. I've sent a couple of 'beautiful dick' messages to straight guys, but i don't expect that to come to anything, I'm just admiring some of the great cocks on the site and I appreciate a compliment from anyone..

also, I appreciate that there are a great number of exhibitionists on the site who have no intention of hooking up, and that's fine, keep it up guys and girls, we all love to watch!

what I'm talking about is seemingly normal people who are keen, make first contact, strike up a conversation online, create a rapport, say they want to meet you and then disappear the instant you say 'ok lets meet for a coffee and see how things go'

I'm not one of those guys who'll drop their drawers for anyone, but i do have an appetite for sex, as do most men and women, and I like big cocks, and with so many beautiful people on the site, LPSG seemed as good a place as any to look....
 

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It's been said in this thread, but not explicitly nor why, that other websites are better equipped to handle hook-ups. It's actually really simple.

I am an active member of Manhunt.net (which, on another message board I've been able to successfully recoin as "Mancunt") and use them pretty much exclusively for hooking up these days.

My reasons?

1) All my pervy eccentricities are laid out, easy to read, no surprises.
2) The HIV/condom thing is dealt with in black-and-white to a group of my peers.
3) I personally prefer a wide, generous ass and a small, uncut dick. Hunting on LPSG would be kind of a waste of time, non?
4) The pool of available bottoms on LPSG is minuscule compared to the variety available 24/7 on Mancunt.
5) When I want a hook-up it's now, not after you've secured great rates on your hotel reservation online.
6) No mess, no fuss, no history, no promises...