Finding a 'suck buddy'

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I have also had difficulties finding a local/regular Suck Buddy!

Never have any luck via the net...too many fakes, and or men only looking for the ego stroke, most of them who simply lack the masculine confidence to meet and work out a connection. As for Spa's and Book Stores...to each his own, for me...not my cup of coffee.

Like many Bi Men I am already married (wife knows). The Gay Men I have met "secretly" (lol) want only a relationship and some know very little about mature discretion (a few actually tried to "out" me, Jealously for Bi-Sexuals - promiscuous & incapable of commitment.. LOL!) I am way too old for a "youthful in-discretion" ).

I honestly would like to find another Married Bi Man who was looking for a trusted friend & occasional bud (wink)!

As for where to find MEN...my best experiences have always been Hotel Bars (while staying there...not trolling). Have found that other business men (bi-or just curious) are more relaxed and have a small amount of anonymity (business trips you are never truly anonymous).

Over time I have met many GREAT MEN and have keep touch with several of them! We do occasionally re-connect! As for a local and regular brother...the connection continues to elude me. Best of Luck! Guy
 

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:| I've had no luck. I pretty much just want to suck dick. I do not want to be sucked off though. Pretty much use my face instead of your hand, nut in my mouth or all over me, its all good. If the guy wants anal, then he can just bend me over. Seems like a pretty sweet deal to me at least :\ . Sadly never happens. Working to get a car for I can get out of dumbass Indiana.
 

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Dorang...don't give it away! Make sure the dude is worthy of your attention! I am surprised your local Hotel Bar hasn't helped you to connect!

That said, if you are really at your wits end...I know a filthy book store/porn shop there in Indiana should keep you busy! Just be careful of diseases! I have also heard of men establishing there own glory hole at home or in their garage and spreading the word!
 

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Dorang...don't give it away! Make sure the dude is worthy of your attention! I am surprised your local Hotel Bar hasn't helped you to connect!

That said, if you are really at your wits end...I know a filthy book store/porn shop there in Indiana should keep you busy! Just be careful of diseases! I have also heard of men establishing there own glory hole at home or in their garage and spreading the word!

not really sure what you mean by hotel bar. Not really sure why giving it away matters. :| I mean keeping it sucks more than I'm willing to suck lololol. Yeah STD's are ewwww... life ruiners, Don't want any of those.


What do you mean filthy book store/porn shop?
 

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I didn't even know a suck buddy was a thing! I'm new to admitting I want to suck cock, and it's really only the big ones that make me feel this way. I would love to find a guy with a huge cock who liked to have it sucked every once in a while and is discreet. I don't want any reciprocation, just the chance to suck a huge cock for hours while he chills out, watches TV, whatever, just generally enjoys the benefits of being well-endowed.
 

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I didn't even know a suck buddy was a thing! I'm new to admitting I want to suck cock, and it's really only the big ones that make me feel this way. I would love to find a guy with a huge cock who liked to have it sucked every once in a while and is discreet. I don't want any reciprocation, just the chance to suck a huge cock for hours while he chills out, watches TV, whatever, just generally enjoys the benefits of being well-endowed.


Hey Kevin! Where is New River Valley, Virginia?
 

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believe it or not haven't found one in LA. Talk to alot but none have come thru.

There are only a few left in So Cal.....used to be fun for a temporary thrill. Event went with a female friend once. We sucked off a few guys together, until one started getting a bit too 'stalkerish'.

I know of a few now, at least on the border between OC and LA, just look me up if interested.
 

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It's rough out there for a reg suck bud and usually I just settle for ABSs. It's nice tho because my size and youth lets me be a chooser instead of a beggar haha it's when I started frequenting ABSs that I realized that most guys are smaller than me
 
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dammmm I have been looking for a long time but all I get is guys living far
i used to have a reg married bud I sucked him once a week for about 4 years then they moved to a different part of the state which was too far

know the post is old...but where in nj are you?
 

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How about looking for a good masseuse? I found an m4m masseuse on craigslist in the area, it was not clear he was willing to provide more than a massage, his prices were reasonable so I took a chance and made an appointment. The massage started as usual on my back, shoulders, neck and arms then moved to my legs. He started on my calves and worked his way up my legs working my legs thoroughly including my inner thighs. Most masseuses stay away from this area so I knew I found a good one. As he worked my inner thighs, his warm hands brushed against my balls numerous times. Wow, my cock started to grow stiff as he moved up my ass cheeks. He spent a long time on my ass and whispered in my ear how hot my ass was. I was throbbing hard by the time he asked me to roll over, I did so reluctantly having never showed my hard cock to another guy before. As I rolled over he asked if I wanted to loose the towel draped over my hard cock. I just nodded in silence not believing how horny I was. He completed the massage briefly touching my cock. The massage was over for this visit but I set up an appointment for the same time next week. The next time he did the same thing and got me horny as hell only this time he jacked me off to completion, wow did I shoot loads. I continued to see him for quite some time and eventually enjoyed sucking and getting sucked quite regularly. Have not seen him in a while but would love to see if he is still in the area.
Nice story. It just happens......just like you described........makes me hard just thinking about it.....
 

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I have a suck buddy, He is a little is a little shorter and has a thick 8". Mine is longer and we get into a 69 until we cum. We time it so we shoot at the same time.
I love a nice tight 69....the kind where both of you are slowly moving and gently thrusting with your hips.....just deeply sucking on each others cock.....for me, all my senses get in tune...feeling and tasting his cock, smelling and looking at his balls and tight asshole inches from my face, moving and feeling your body move gently with his...thrusting cocks into each others mouth.......and then exploding in orgasms....feeling and tasting that warm gush of sperm into your mouth and down your throat.......love it....
 

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I've searched without luck to find one guy to suck off regularly. I know they all want discretion which I can definitely offer but I understand that may be difficult to believe with all the odd ones out there. I just want the guy who loves getting blown as much as I like blowing. Can you imagine how satisfying that would be?