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Have any of you had any experience finding guys looking to experiment on the down low? If so, how? I know it's kinda like winning the lottery but I'm wanting to find a local friend with the occasional benefits but no thought of "being together" or anything. I still want to date/marry a woman some day but I'm the meantime, haha...

Anyone got any ideas?
 

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If you are putting yourself out there as a a straight guy who wants some bi-benefits then I don’t think it will take you long to find someone using the usual channels for hooking up…

just be up front about what you want and your expectations and boundaries…. Feelings are a bitch and they creep up on you unaware… and if your engaging in casual hookups that’s two sets of feelings to be accounted for…
 
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grindr lmao just be up front with people about what you want

it’s the only gay app i have seen most dl guys use because you’re actually able to have some sort of anonymity while using it

Bet. I've never used it - didn't know I could be anonymous. I'll have to check it out
 

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I actually just met up with a guy I met on Grindr. About a week ago. Super hot and amazing cock .. around 6.5 and thick. He was only looking to get sucked. Didn't even want me to touch any other part of him, except for his legs while I was sucking. He said he was very straight, just wanted to get great head.
 

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I actually just met up with a guy I met on Grindr. About a week ago. Super hot and amazing cock .. around 6.5 and thick. He was only looking to get sucked. Didn't even want me to touch any other part of him, except for his legs while I was sucking. He said he was very straight, just wanted to get great head.
Funny my friend just had a similar experience. Guy walked in dropped his trousers and just told him not touch anywhere except his cock and around his legs to hold for leverage.

@Jax20 Grindr is usually a good place to start but be clear with what you want and you’ll usually find guys willing to agree to it.
 

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Damn. I mean, I guess to each their own. I guess I'd rather it be a homie and benefits on the side. I've never really thought about just the benefits. In those cases does the guy get the blow job and the other just leaves after? I don't see how that benefits the blower but if that's what you agree to then that's fine, I guess.
 
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Damn. I mean, I guess to each their own. I guess I'd rather it be a homie and benefits on the side. I've never really thought about just the benefits. In those cases does the guy get the blow job and the other just leaves after? I don't see how that benefits the blower but if that's what you agree to then that's fine, I guess.
Usually the guy blowing enjoys giving oral or enjoys the idea of blowing a straight guy so although he’s not getting anything back physically from you he enjoys it overall.
 
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If possible, why not hookup through here?

All I want to do is blow some Hot, Straight Dude. Blow-n-go’s are perfectly fine if not acceptable.

Feeders, please don’t be concerned so much about the cocksucker. We’re more than happy with just sucking Your Dick and swallowing Your Load. It’s true. Most all cocksuckers are.
 

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I’m so glad I found this thread today because a guy who I’ve been dming for a bout a year who I’ve strongly suspected to be bi on the low, I find in his follows (and he follows like 2000 pages) a bdsm art page and the only post on he liked was a pic of a woman with a breakfast tray with a STRAP ON ON IT. I think I hit the DL LOTTO!! :joy::joy::joy: