finding love??? where and how

[t3ddyb34rb0tt0m]

so, i see everywhere gay guys saying how theyre looking for dating and relationships and yet it seems like none of us can find each other? what do we do about this? where do we go to find each other? ive gotten to the point of searching out fringe forums like this one in the hopes of just happening across someone my age. and god forbid you arent the stereotypical gay body standard. anyone have any ideas or heard anything? be the change you want to see in the world and all that lol. anyway thanks!

 

[t3ddyb34rb0tt0m]

also like, a lot of responses ive seen to other people asking this question is to move to a major city, but thats not something a lot of people can do, including myself

 

[luvhusky1]

There is no answer to this question, you live your life and if it comes, it comes. There are so many factors. Your mindset, your acceptance. It’s not that easy.
I was fortunate to find a partner who’s great and we are on 17 years. It’s not easy to survive. It takes work

 

[Prurient]

It's hard for everyone, including heterosexuals, because of the paradox of infinite options.

In order to increase your chances of finding love, I believe you need to:

Work on yourself in order to be as close to a muscular body as possible (there are diminishing returns on the amount of muscle after a certain threshold)
Have a good financial situation or be open to being financially dominated by your partner
Be -very- open to compromise in order to meet your partner's needs
Don't be desperate to find a relationship because it scares people, let it develop naturally

I know, it doesn't sound "good" or aspirational but this is what I observed in lasting couples so far.