One of my older brother's friends, whom we were both brought up with, has recently been discovered as being big downstairs. Not far short of 10, apparently. Although reasonably good looking, I've never really thought of him (as you say) 'in that way'; not ever. Until last Christmas when we heard about his size, that is lol I've no idea if he is attracted to me, he's certainly never given that impression, and I definitely, no, probably, would never make a move on him (even with the knowledge I now have) but I don't know how I'd react if he came on to me. The thought of being 'with' him gives me butterflies and I'm pretty sure it just wouldn't feel right (I've known him since we were tiny) but I just don't know. That said, the thought is there, very much so. Whether I'd ever act upon it is the question I can't answer ...