Finding out her ex was small

[socalfreak]

Horseshit.
You admit that your behavior is "very shallow" & yet you prod whoever you're with, to see if your dick is bigger.
Then, admit that you get a "charge" out of it & get turned on.
Going so far as to refer to somebody you know nothing about as an "asshole".
Pathetic.

As far as what turns me on...
My girl does.... In a hundred different ways... Every day.
You know what *doesn't* turn me on?
Thinking about my dick size, in comparison to others.

And, thinking your dick size is gonna have an " emotional value"? LMFAO

I stand by my comment....
Grow up.

 

[Hatt_101]

I wouldn't care anything about an ex, thats the past and has noithing to do with me.

 

[Nosuportneeded]

Horseshit.
You admit that your behavior is "very shallow" & yet you prod whoever you're with, to see if your dick is bigger.
Then, admit that you get a "charge" out of it & get turned on.
Going so far as to refer to somebody you know nothing about as an "asshole".
Pathetic.

As far as what turns me on...
My girl does.... In a hundred different ways... Every day.
You know what *doesn't* turn me on?
Thinking about my dick size, in comparison to others.

And, thinking your dick size is gonna have an " emotional value"? LMFAO

I stand by my comment....
Grow up.

Dude, you are entitled to your opinion, and are welcome to comment, but from where I'm standing, you are hating on this guy.

This is a place for sharing. He openly admitted to enjoying a guilty pleasure, and wondered about others' experiences and opinions on the matter.

If you have a problem with his post or want to teach us something about what he shared, I want to hear it, but a point gets lost amongst such spicy rhetoric

 

[LilJock]

If I were at church or around the coffee machine at work, I'd think it highly irregular and inappropriate if my priest/minister or fellow worker asked whether other guys also got a charge out of hearing their SO's exes were a lot smaller-hung, in fact were very small-hung. But this isn't a church or a work place. This is a site dedicated to large penises. It's a place where people can ask questions and discuss things they wouldn't elsewhere. Regardless whether these were admittedly shallow. The question is a legitimate question for the superiorly endowed. What is inappropriate is to chide anyone for this. Not your cup of tea? Not praise-worthy to your way of thinking? Move on and don't interrupt and derail the other guy's thread. Let those who have something to say on the subject respond.

I'm hung like a chipmunk but I'm very good-looking, well-built and athletic. I know its shallow but I often get an ego boost realizing I'm the best-looking guy in the room, or the best built, or the most athletic. I don't make a big thing of it but those thoughts do pass through my head every now and then. So I don't get all worked up if others get an ego boost from something else. Like having a big cock. Or being smarter. When I was younger, I was the typical dumb jock. The last to figure something out in math class. The one who never raised his hand and, when called on, never had the right answer. Without tutoring would never have made it through school. It wasn't until my last year or so of college that I started to click mentally. But I would never have taken offense if the Stephen Hawkings of the world secretly got off knowing they had a lot of IQ points on me. Or whether the OP has a goodly number of inches on me and would consequently get a boost if I were his SO's ex. For me, it's kind of like reverse-schadenfreude.

 

[sodominsane]

How in Beelzebub's , name do any of you know how big or how small your GF / Wifes, X lovers were ?

Were you therein bed with them, did you help put on the condom. ?

I've done a shit load of fucking....lots of partners

when i was young. like under 25 years old i would ask....50 50....sometimes id ask....sometimes it was volunteered....mainly cause i was curious about all things sexual

after 25....didnt really ask but sometimes it came up...after some like vigorous sex or when she got drunk

sometimes its just the rumor mill around socal circles

and alot of times i never know....its i don't ask and they don't volunteer....

as a kid....young adult it gave me a charge

but now I've heard it so much its just background

I'm beginning to think its like default sex talk.....ooo ahhh ...it feels so good....your so big....ooo ahhh....i can't take it...its so deep...you so much bigger than my ex


and come on ....does it shock you....when was the last time you told a girl....damn that was good....you give the eight best blowjob i ever had....right behind Karen and a smig sloppier than jessica

 

[Geoffrey2_0]

Every girl I have ever dated has had every ex smaller than me--and that there boys is what's called bragging--lol

 

[socalfreak]

Dude, you are entitled to your opinion, and are welcome to comment, but from where I'm standing, you are hating on this guy.

This is a place for sharing. He openly admitted to enjoying a guilty pleasure, and wondered about others' experiences and opinions on the matter.

If you have a problem with his post or want to teach us something about what he shared, I want to hear it, but a point gets lost amongst such spicy rhetoric

"Hating"? Not even close. Buy a dictionary.
And, I wouldn't worry too much.
I'm sure he'll be just fine there, snowflake.

 

[Tosantos]

The women I've been with have never talked about their past sexual experiences and the topic of other guys' dick sizes has thankfully never come up. Never been compared to their exes. It's just something normal people don't ever talk about with their partners. Or so I thought.
And I sure as hell don't care about other guys' junk or how it compares to mine

 

[941691]

My ex girlfriend went around boasting how this new guy she was dating had a huge penis and how it was much more larger (& better) than mine is after we had broken up. Two women that I’ve had short term sexual encounters with have also said I was smaller than the other men they’ve been with. I don’t take it personally though. Your self worth and entire existence shouldn’t be based on your penis size wether you’re 4 inches or 9 inches.

 

[Nosuportneeded]

"Hating"? Not even close. Buy a dictionary.
And, I wouldn't worry too much.
I'm sure he'll be just fine there, snowflake.

"Hating" in the non-literal, popular definition. I overestimated your grasp of pop culture, my apologies. I didn't think you actually hated him. I have a dictionary:

I'm sure he's fine too, namecaller. I was just being supportive, since this is a support group

 

[Nosuportneeded]

If I were at church or around the coffee machine at work, I'd think it highly irregular and inappropriate if my priest/minister or fellow worker asked whether other guys also got a charge out of hearing their SO's exes were a lot smaller-hung, in fact were very small-hung. But this isn't a church or a work place. This is a site dedicated to large penises. It's a place where people can ask questions and discuss things they wouldn't elsewhere. Regardless whether these were admittedly shallow. The question is a legitimate question for the superiorly endowed. What is inappropriate is to chide anyone for this. Not your cup of tea? Not praise-worthy to your way of thinking? Move on and don't interrupt and derail the other guy's thread. Let those who have something to say on the subject respond.

I'm hung like a chipmunk but I'm very good-looking, well-built and athletic. I know its shallow but I often get an ego boost realizing I'm the best-looking guy in the room, or the best built, or the most athletic. I don't make a big thing of it but those thoughts do pass through my head every now and then. So I don't get all worked up if others get an ego boost from something else. Like having a big cock. Or being smarter. When I was younger, I was the typical dumb jock. The last to figure something out in math class. The one who never raised his hand and, when called on, never had the right answer. Without tutoring would never have made it through school. It wasn't until my last year or so of college that I started to click mentally. But I would never have taken offense if the Stephen Hawkings of the world secretly got off knowing they had a lot of IQ points on me. Or whether the OP has a goodly number of inches on me and would consequently get a boost if I were his SO's ex. For me, it's kind of like reverse-schadenfreude.

Well said

 

[socalfreak]

"Hating" in the non-literal, popular definition. I overestimated your grasp of pop culture, my apologies. I didn't think you actually hated him. I have a dictionary: View attachment 881147

I'm sure he's fine too, namecaller. I was just being supportive, since this is a support group

Apparently, my grasp of Pop culture is better than your ability to see a joke title on a website... (Although, everybody else seems to get it.)
Get over yourself, blowhard.
The isn't the time or place to audition for moderator or thread police.
Give your opinion on the topic, or just lurk, or just go on about your business.

 

[ManchesterTom]

Who ever said I asked. I am telling you that this information gets volunteered a little more often than you realize.

Yes, I have had this kind of information offered, never asked for.

 

[Nosuportneeded]

Yes, I have had this kind of information offered, never asked for.

I've asked about a woman's big dick experience before, but not small, and I don't ask for names.

Although I get a pang of shameless pride from it, I have been genuinely uncomfortable and horrified when my partner says, by name, an ex is very small. It's happened a couple of times.

Probably just trying to make me feel good, but yikes.

 

[twoton]

I'd probably feel a lil bad for the dude.

I have to admit I sort of do, too. The guy she was with right before me has a small one. I won't say what her reaction to it was because it wouldn't be fair to him. She didn't make any comments to him, though, which is the important part.

 

[twoton]

by name, an ex is very small. It's happened a couple of times.

Probably just trying to make me feel good, but yikes.

In a case I recall, she told a friend of mine was really small. I asked how she knew. She said she had heard about him. Maybe it was remarkable because he is a big guy. All-American Linebacker on the college football team. On the other hand, his girlfriend at the time was tiny and super hot. So.....maybe dick size isn't everything a woman looks for in a man. Who knew?

Frankly, I didn't want to know anything about his penis size (or anyone else's for that matter).

 

[At.your.cervix]

I just pretty much assume that I'm bigger than the last guy and maybe because of that I've never asked about previous lovers' appendages except when there have been real problems with entering--and those conversations were always afterwards. I have been told about previous lovers, but never from my asking. I never really cared about those other penises, as long as my partner found my size something that made sex satisfying for her. I have a sexual history as well, and what is ultimately important isn't the penises or vaginas we've experienced in our past, but rather the one we are experiencing in the moment.

 

[Coronahead]

Every girl I have ever dated has had every ex smaller than me--and that there boys is what's called bragging--lol

So did that mean in the reveal, they would say that's the hugest cock they had seen? Taking one step further how did the first time you entered their pussy go? Did they have to do lots of stopping to adjust? When you started to fuck them would their eyes start to roll back in their heads?

 

[Itsmeandyou]

There must have been something wrong with the HUGE HUNG EX. Otherwise they wouldn't be an EX ....... No ?

 

[1IamSmall123]

It matters not.

The only thing that matters is that I am her lover now.