Finds Intelligent ppl very sexy

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by Juicee Jubes, Oct 31, 2011.

  1. Juicee Jubes

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    After reading one of the recent posts, I found myself compelled to see if others may be more attracted to someone beyond superficial attributes. This was the thread i replied to http://www.lpsg.org/129203-can-a-man-be-too-10.html#post3773631

    So my Question :- Do we fall inlove with a person or do we fall inlove with the perception of the person we want.

    Cuddle.
     
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    Depends what kind a person you are, no?

    I fall in love with the person... The way he talks, laughs, holds his hands, eats & drinks, smells, walks, ...
    If I only have an image, nothing else, then it doesn't work for me. I think my brain needs something more than a cute or handsome face.

    It doesn't mean that you can't feel a sexual attraction, bit this is in my opinion only superficial - kind of shallow water.
     
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    I'm a Goffmanian so I've gotta ask, what's the difference?
     
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