I think everyone has some level of preference when it comes to sex, but some people don't advertise a highly, detailed checklist of requirements. IMHO, it looks funny when someone claims to be open minded and accepting, but then goes on and list things like, "No Blacks, No Asians, No Small Dicks, No Queens," or whatever in their profiles. Even if you wanted to get these points across there's a better way to word these things so it doesn't sound so cold. Anyone that knows me also knows that I favor caucasions (which makes for interesting commentary in some circles since I'm black). However, I don't reject the notion of being with any particular race for I have had plenty of relations with people of different nationalities. With the exception of the one girlfriend I had, my long term relationships have been with caucasions. There's got to be something more than just the physical appearance to make me want to sleep with them. By the time it get to the level of cock size, I've (hopefully) have developed some kind of liking to the person mentally so it doesn't matter if they are big or small... even though deep down, everyone likes to see a nice present in one's package. In the end I try not to allow my physical needs to overshadow my mental ones and try to be as delicate as possible when rejecting someone for any reason, and wish that others would do the same.