Finger licking good

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  1. RamIt

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    I have noticed that the last few women I have slept with liked to rub their clit during sex. Im all for it, if it helps them cum. Its one less thing I need to think about to insure her pleasure.

    What bugs me about it, is how a woman will lick her fingers wet over and over, even near the brink of orgasm. It makes me wonder how they can keep doing that and not lose the build to orgasm. I always love to use lube with sex, so its always around, but even when I suggest a woman use the lube on her clit to keep it slick, she always ends up licking her fingers anyway.

    Do women like to taste themselves and find it a turn on? Or is it an ingrained habit from solo masturbation?
     
  2. ManlyBanisters

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    I think you'll find that every woman is different and really you need to ask the woman / women who are doing this why they prefer their own saliva to lube.

    If I'm rubbing my clit during sex or masturbation it is rare, if I am anywhere near orgasm it is unknown, that I will not have enough natural lube going on already.
     
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    I've never licked my fingers to use as lube, I make enough of my own.
     
  4. MickeyLee

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    i blame porn. you see the same lick-it/flick-it move in just about every porn. people pick up strange habits from watching too much porn. can't tell you how many times i stop to adjust the lighting, switch positions for a better camera angle, shout out directions to the male lead :rolleyes: :redface: :tongue:

    ml
     
  5. ManlyBanisters

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    :biggrin: Good grief, ML - next you'll be saying 'fuck me with that big cock' when he's already doing it! I habit which, I reckon if I were a guy, I'd find somewhat offensive...
     
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    nah, he only gets offended if he catches me reading cue cards :cool::eek::biggrin1:

    "oh god, yes!! baby... fuck me?!?!....*line?* umm fuck me with your huge cock!"


    scene and...... cut.

    ml
     
  7. ManlyBanisters

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    My problem is I'm somewhat prone to misreading things.

    Oo, baby - I love your fat coke

    CUT!

    Oh God, I think I'm going to cam!

    CUT!

    Yes! Yes! Fuck my larder!

    *gives up, goes home*

    :rolleyes:
     
  8. 7x6

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    You just can't generalise about this. I have an ex who could never cum from just a simple fuck. She would often play with her clit or sometimes I would, It was almost impossible to be too rough, she needed a _lot_ of stimulation.

    The woman i'm with now finds all but the gentlest manipulation of her clit with a soft wet tongue "irritating and distracting" and flinches away if I get a finger anywhere near it while fucking. She also won't play with herself while my cock is in her, she just begs to be fucked but then she does cum very easily. The only exception to this rule is when she is extremely horny and sits on my face, then it's almost like she's fucking my mouth with her big clit.

    It's tempting to conclude that clit size is related to sensitivity. pushing her wide apart couldn't-be-too-rough girl's 'clit' was a barely discernable bump in the glistening pink at the top of her stretched labia while the same thing with my super sensitive girlfriend reveals a fingertip sized mini cockhead. The effect is possibly enhanced by the contrast of the pink against her black skin but it makes you understand why some guys have trouble finding the clit.

    That said, I don't think clit size is related to how much women like direct stimulation. The biggest I ever had was at least twice the size but covered with more of a 'foreskin' so less exposed. She loved having that thing sucked hard. In fact i've seen pics of cocks that probably wouldn't have felt very different in my mouth. She was a complete freak, multi-orgasmic, insatiable, broad shouldered, almost flat chested with this huge clit. The least feminine woman I ever fucked but fucking fantastic in bed. I've gone a little off topic now haven't I?...
     
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    dyslexic porn - fcke mu.

    myopic porn - could you move a bit closer?

    stu-stu-stu-stu-stut-t-t-ter p-p-p-p-..... :irked: fuck flix.

    *black tea is hard on the sinuses and ya keyboard*
     
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    Amputee porn -- Break a leg!
     
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    Amputee Porn 2 - Break a Foot Off in His Ass *giggling*

    ml
     
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    My girlfriend does this pretty much any time we aren't in a position where I can stimulate her directly with my body. I actually asked her about this not too long ago, her response was that she thinks it might take longer for girls to 'back-off' than boys. If she's rubbed herself (or i've rubbed her) up to a certain point, a brief break to lube up or simply delay her Orgasm isn't going to set her back very far from getting there........my $.02
     
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    Like you Ramit i always use lube, regardless of how wet i am. Ive tried saliva and it dries up to quick
     
  14. RamIt

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    Thats what I was looking for, thank you for your response. All I know is that it doesnt take much of a break in rhythm for me to lose my momentum towards the brink. It never occured to me that women might not lose as much steam as quickly. Not to mention, she might not be in as big of a hurry to cum as I am anxious to make her cum. I dont rush her, I just want to be sure she gets there.
     
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    This *might* be an individual thing -- I often lose my momentum quickly, like you.
    Also, I don't lick my fingers during masturbation or sex (as a way to increase lubrication). I've never done that; I produce enough (natural lube) on my own and/or lube is handy.
     
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