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Any tips for a first timer :redface:? I'm hooking up with this girl for the first time tonight and don't know exactly what to do, she's only given me head before.
 

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Well. If I'd had more warning, I could've told you to go to your local novelty shop/video rental store and get a movie called, "How to Eat Pussy Like a Champ". :tongue: It's actually very informative.

It's never a bad idea to ask a girl what she likes. When fingering, most girls only like 1-2 fingers, and the g-spot is located on the upper wall of her vag, so massaging that is always good. As far as licking her clit goes, what women want varies so much that I can't give you much more advice other than just ask her what she likes!
 

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go to xtube, you got several hours to learn. just make sure you don't cum till then:biggrin1::biggrin1::biggrin1:
 

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Any tips for a first timer :redface:? I'm hooking up with this girl for the first time tonight and don't know exactly what to do, she's only given me head before.

Asking her is the best advice. I hate both and don't like when a man assumes that ALL women will enjoy what he thinks (or has heard) ALL women like.
 

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Asking her is the best advice. I hate both and don't like when a man assumes that ALL women will enjoy what he thinks (or has heard) ALL women like.

OMG...you mean communicate????

Listen to the (HOT) wise sage....she speaks the truth young one :tongue:
 

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I certainly agree that communication is important, but having a knowledge of what to do helps a lot. I recommend White Tiger Tantra or Squirting 101 (more of a porno)– they teach things that even your girl might not know.

The weirdness of watching instructional sex films will be offset when you give her a powerful, squirting orgasm! :biggrin1:
 

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Ok, my personal preferences: the flick of a tongue is the most popular method and not strong enough for me. I prefer clit sucking or a flat tongue grinding but it is hard to communicate that during the act. As far as banging goes, I am surprised that some guys think pumping a finger or two in and out will do the trick. Banging the upper wall is awesome. Try letting her ride your fingers upright while kissing. Biggest mistake is being too gentle while banging.
 

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go slow (unless she says to go faster), be gentle (unless she says to be rough), and listen to what she says. ask her if it feels good or not. vary your speed, pressure, and location. don't be obsessed with making her cum, instead focus on making her feel good and making her feel relaxed.
 

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go slow (unless she says to go faster), be gentle (unless she says to be rough), and listen to what she says. ask her if it feels good or not. vary your speed, pressure, and location. don't be obsessed with making her cum, instead focus on making her feel good and making her feel relaxed.
What he said.

Don't be hell-bent on giving her a mind-blowing, screaming orgasm in under 5 minutes. TAKE YOUR TIME and don't just start pressing the hot button immediately. Listen to what she says, both verbally and non-verbally by how her body responds. If you're a good "listener", cunnilingus is actually pretty easy to be good at.