fingering and penetration together

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by Imported, Nov 24, 2003.

  1. Imported

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    ruscular: I had a female partner one time that wants to finger herself during penetration. I did not handle the situation very well. I didn't mind her doing that except her finger nails kept slicing up the penus. So I couldn't maintain a stiff one. I tried moving her hand away and finger her myself, and she didn't like that. I of course told her how it made me feel when she did that to me. Do woman need to finger themself during penetration? How should I have handle that?
    I thought about maybe sliding in a vibrator at the same time, but I have a pretty big girth as it is. Anyway, I like to hear some suggestion.
     
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    Ruscular,

    Why do you spell penis p-e-n-u-s?
     
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    I would assume it's just a slip. u is next to i on the keyboard, after all. Or perhaps an analogical spelling based on 'Venus'. The first option is more likely.

    (Sorry I can't help you with your situation, ruscular. Vaginas are outside of my scope of experience.)
     
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    ruscular: I guess in school I didn't get to study the word penis very well. And I dont remember it being used in a spelling bee contest.
    I didn't realize I spell it wrong. I must of block the word out of my head. I was raise by a very uptight woman, who frown on the idea of sex. My mom only had sex to have 4 children and that's it. This site is just a huge new experience for me, such candid openess.
     
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    Tender: [quote author=ruscular link=board=sex;num=1069695476;start=0#0 date=11/24/03 at 09:28:56]I had a female partner one time that wants to finger herself during penetration. I did not handle the situation very well. I didn't mind her doing that except her finger nails kept slicing up the penus. So I couldn't maintain a stiff one.  I tried moving her hand away and finger her myself, and she didn't like that. I of course told her how it made me feel when she did that to me.  Do woman need to finger themself during penetration? How should I have handle that?
    I thought about maybe sliding in a vibrator at the same time, but I have a pretty big girth as it is. Anyway, I like to hear some suggestion.[/quote]

    well do women need to do that?
    uh no. not me at least. never have.
    perhaps she was just not educated at all :-/ ... she should have known that would hurt you and want to keep her fingernails far away from there... and enjoy feeling YOU ... not her fingers...

    Tender
     
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    gicast: hello. As a woman, sometimes I like to use my finger also. I have very short nails and try not to use that side of my finger. I really like to feel his penis moving against my finger and my vagina at the same time, he likes it too.
     
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    fakkan: My wife and I enjoy a lot of different fingering techniques. Sometimes I'll give her a pussy massage. I almost always wear a latex glove when doing heavy fingering. I'll use alot of lube and start by rubbing her labia and clit. I'll warm up the lube. I'll then use one and two fingers inside her and keep massaging outside with my thumb. Sometimes I'll even glove both hands and use them both massaging the outside first and then using one to begin fingering. I loosen her up a bit and then begin to massage the g-spot. I usually make her cum this way and then go further. I'll go to three and then four fingers slowly. I'll then get into a position and lube my cock. I'll trade out going from three or four fingers to pulling them out and sliding my cock in. Then I'll push down on the top of my cock shaft with one or two fingers, letting them slide into her pussy just below her clit and peehole. I'll then hold them in place and stroke with my cock, then I'll hold my cock deep in and probe with my fingers. I'll turn them up and rub her g-spot. I usually work three and then four fingers around the top of my cock shaft. I like to practicly hold my cock in my hand and thrust my cock and fingers in at the same time. I love feeling the pressure of her pussy squeeze in around my cock with my fingers. She usually really enjoys it when we can take our time working her open a bit. I also like when she's well spread and I'll pull my cock out and really feel around inside her with two or three fingers. I'll massage her inside and usually make her cum good. I'll work into four fingers slowly grinding around about as comfortably deep as they will go. I have often worked in my whole last row of knuckles. We also like using various sizes of dildos inside of her along with my cock. I am not small at 8 and a half by over 7 around. I also sometimes pump my cock to well over twice as thick across and use it mostly by itself once we have her opened up a bit. I found also that if I take some viagra when I pump up my cock stays very hard. She and I also really enjoy putting one or two vibrating eggs inside of her. I set my cock in deep, resting my head and glans among the eggs. I can slowly grind it in deep and we both cum easily. Overall, I really enjoy touching my wife's pussy with my fingers and hands, inside and out
     
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    roedhunt: I have tried that once, but only when I was younger and dumber.. no offence to your gf...What I didnt realize was that I needed to go up a little higher...duh... During sex, most times the penis doesnt come near the clit.. I'm talking about missionary of course...so the woman feels good, its just something is missing...

    Next time she tries that, say, "here, let me help.." and massage her whole top pubic area (clit, mound and lips). Boy, if she doesnt roll her eyeballs back into their sockets.. you aint doing it right.... :D Keep doing that everything you have sex, and she might get the idea that, hey, fingers on clit feels better...

    Good luck...
     
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