Fingering Urself

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  1. windcaster

    windcaster New Member

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    So how can a man finger himself correctly?
     
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    aim for the prostate, use lube, and hold on cuz you're gonna cum like you've never cum before!
     
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    If you do it like unabear09 told you,your going to be able to ejaculate with out masturbating!....
     
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    is there a particular way we go in? as in where is the prostate?
     
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    im asking the the same thing
     
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    When your inside(finger) go and touch your prostate,if your XXXiteded your prostate is going to be big and easy to find.
    Massage gently by moving your finger and by no time your going to fell the flow going up...and up....:eek:
    Have fun!:wink:
     
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    how far up is it?



    is touching it dangerous
     
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    your prostate is located about an inch or so inside the anus , its about the size of a walnut and to get to it, gently insert you finger (or cock, vibrator, dildo, or any other household item that'll fit lol) and go in to about your 2nd knuckle or futher....and gently feel around until you find it....you most likely (if you hit the right spot) will start to have the urge to piss (that means you have hit your g-spot) play around around and find what feels best to you and have at it....when you get ready to nutt, put some moderate pressure on your prostate......be prepared for cum to go flying everywhere, your whole body to shake, scream uncontrolably, and make sounds that you didn't know you could make.....just a note, before anything is inserted in your ass make sure its clean, especially your fingers, and make sure your nails are trimmed and smooth, and use pretty of lube.....hope you all enjoy (and you will....believe me)
     
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    whats the best position to do this in?
     
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    whatevers comfortable.... the first few times its a matter of trial and error and feeling out what feels the best to you....I personally (if I'm just using my fingers) just sit like I normally would....I really like getting in the shower and getting hot and relaxed and squat down and reach around and start rubbing my hole, and then slowly start to gently push a finger in, then two, and finger fuck my asshole and massage my prostate..... oh yeah another tip would be to try and shit before you start any type of anal play, b/c if you don't it can (and usually does) get messy
     
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    And if it gets messy that would be shitty.

    :wink:
     
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    First time... I would suggest lying on your back with your legs in the air. Use lots of lube, go slowly. Put your finger in gently and once you're a bit more comfortable try going deeper. The prostate is a couple of inches inside, in this position all you need to do is curl your finger up (like a come hither motion). Hope this helps. Enjoy!
     
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    I finger-fuck my ass all the time, but never really knew where the prostate was. I thought that was what was getting hit when a big dick went too far up for easy comfort. Can't believe I've never known I must have been massaging the prostate, thought I was massaging inside the asshole, but I think I know what the sensation is. I have never finger-fucked to orgasm though, and when fucked by a dick this happened only once. I always have a hard-on when I'm getting fucked in the ass, but I have always had to jack my dick in order to come even with a big dick way up my ass. Any explanations why it would have been like this? Because most of you are saying it is almost immediate that you come when finger-fucking yourself. I never had it happen.
     
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    not doing anything wrong....my suggestion would be to go and piss, then dig right back in playing with your prostate....I have found that when I reach this point (where I need to piss bad), if I speed up and put more pressure on my prostate, and then kinda just let go and push like you do to pee, that I have a non ejaculating orgasm....I mean I spray a piss and cum mix all over the place, but I don't actually cum....after I do this, I jack off and the feeling is mind-blowing
     
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    Is my prostate towards my abdomen or towards my spine? Or is it off to one side? I've never cum from fingering my self but when I got fucked about three weeks ago (for the first time...WOOHOO!)I came twice while he was drilling down on me...I was on my back.
     
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    straight guys do it? maybe one day i will try with my finger :)

    just curious
     
  18. clav2

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    Would you believe I've just started exploring this aspect of my sexuality??? What I'd really like is some helpful suggestions about how to clean the anus out BEFORE putting my finger (or anything else) in there. No matter how much toilet paper I use, I always seem to end up with shit on the finger/dildo/etc.

    Any ideas? (and stop laughing, for Pete's sake! This is serious!!!)
     
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    You could try an enima I guess, although I've used them before sex and there's still a little dirty at the end of the act. Johnny Carson once told Milton Berle that he'd invented a new way to fuck and Milton Berle replied "No shit?" and Johnny said "...well...a little"
     
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    Yeah, I was thinking that must be what the porn stars do, 'cause their cocks always seem to come out reasonably clean, but I'm not that keen on enemae. I guess it's just a case of cleaning up afterwards...

    Thanks for the suggestion, Cowboy.
     
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