So I just lost my virginity a few weeks ago, and I'm having a problem I was not expecting to have. I can't come! Usually you hear about how guys who just started having sex can't control themselves and end up being a let down, but that isn't happening for me. At first I thought it was just because I was really, really, really loaded drunk when I lost my virginity with this girl. We had sex for a long time - at least 45 minutes - and she finished three times before we eventually stopped because our friends were calling/texting us like mad (we were at a party that night.) So I brushed it off and was like oh well, it was only the first time, it was still awesome and felt great, I was just too drunk to finish. However, we've had sex 3 more times since then and I haven't been able to finish during the act since. The second time we even tried so hard that we had to stop because she was tired after having come 4 or 5 times, and the other 2 times she finished me off with a blowjob. I know it sounds like I'm bragging or trying to gloat but really I just want to be able to finish! I like this girl, am attracted to her and fucking love the sex but it just seems like she is a woman who is prone to finishing easily and I'm a guy who takes a lot of work to get off. Anyone have any tips? Should I try to get more foreplay in before we jump right into the sex? Is it nerves? Anyone else out there like this?