First date in three years!

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  1. Tickled Pink

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    On friday 12th September I will be going on my first date for three years, and my first after getting rid of my abusive husband, and am feeling VERY NERVOUS!!!!!!

    What should I wear? How should I act? Should I shag him? etc.......

    HELP!
     
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    Relax and let it go as it does. Don't make any set plans on what you want to do.. or else it will seem pre-planned. Just take it where it goes. This is a new beginning for you and it's going to be great.

    Good luck!
     
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    Yes, good luck with everything. Glad you're able to move on. Just don't make yourself too available and be yourself.
     
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    this is what I told a friend of mine who recently had the same experience:

    relax...you're just gonna spend a little time with someone you like & who likes you...have a little food...maybe a drink or two...and just have some fun!

    don't be nervous...

    don't overthink the situation...

    definitely do NOT mention your ex...

    let the past be in the past & don't let it affect your future...

    I wouldn't have sex on the first date, but that's just me...

    sex can really complicate things...

    don't try to impress him...just be your charming self...:grinning-smiley-003

    regarding what to wear - wear whatever makes you feel super attractive & confident...trust me, it pays dividends!
     
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    :tongue::biggrin1::wink:now why u told everybody we were going to have a date???
     
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    Just relax and you'll see how it turns out.
    Congrats on getting a date
     
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    Dont be fake, keep the conversation light heated, don't panic if there a times of silence and enjoy yourself.
     
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    Good luck! :smile: Wear something form fitting that showcases your best feature. I'm assuming your breasts. :wink: Go light on the make up, but use a nice gloss. Moist lips always work. :)Treat yourself to a mani/pedi, scrub, facial, etc., a few days before the date so you feel good in your skin.
     
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    And U agree with Killerb I dont have sex on the first date because it can complicate things. But Hope it works out, just go with the flow and he cant say no!
     
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    After three years, I'm more worried for him;) lol

    I agree with others here, just relax, have fun and see how you feel. The drought is over.
     
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    It's getting nearer (tomorrow, Friday 12th) am getting more nervous but also excited! Have read all your posts with interest and they are all great - thanks peeps xx

    I have had my nails done and have sorted out what I am going to wear so that I don't panic last minute! I'm going for snug but comfy in the clothes department and never wear much make-up anyway so shall just 'jazz' it up a bit!

    We have talked and texted each other quite a bit so thats a good start.

    Anyway, as soon as I can I will let you guys know how it goes, and whether he needs to join this site! Ha ha ha !!!
     
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    Best wishes for tonight, Pink. It all sounds good so far!
     
  13. got_lost

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    WOW!!!

    Tonights the night!!!

    :laola::laola:

    Goodluck! Have a wonderful time!

    Just don't forget to breathe! :biggrin1:

    Oh and don't get tooooo tipsy! Have a water between each drink! :09:

    And ENJOY yourself! :wink:
     
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    Oh My! How did I miss this thread?!

    Congrats TP! Have fun, relax, be sexy and go get'im!

    You go, girl!

    Have fun and I send you lots of luck!!!:You_Rock_Emoticon:
     
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    hey tp, hope you had a real good time tonite & wowed him:biggthumpup2:
     
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    Be yourself, relax, and enjoy...
     
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    Did it go well for you?

    I hope you had a great time!
     
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    Yes!!! Come on!

    We want news!!! :biggrin1:

    How'd it go?!?!
     
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    Hello beautiful, so how did it go??? Details! details!:popcorn::popcorn::popcorn:
     
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    Do you think it is good news seeing as she's not up yet!??! :wink:
     
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