So, I went out with this guy the second time last night. He's 55 but and has a totally hot ripped muscular body. He told me he was HIV pos. so the first date when it came around to talk of sex I was kinda apprehensive so we agreed just to make out and fool around a bit. He then sent me some info on HIV pos undetectable(which he is) Last night we went out on a second date and we finally got to business in the bedroom but I could not get hard to save my life. I normally have a little problem in this area anyway but it was worse last night. Im recently single after a 13 year relationship. So I'm thinking the combo of me thinking in my head hes pos, plus me being recently single. plus doing it in my ex partners bed may have had something to do with it.(Lotta head stuff going on) The guys really nice and he said he had a good time. Anyway, and i really want to see him again, but im apprehensive about calling him again if this is how my dating performance is gonna be. Any advice or similar experiences?