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So ive been using an anal trainer for the last several months and can comfortably fit all the sizes. So think I'm ready to step it up and get an actual dildo next. I just dont know what size i should get.

The largest plug I can take is approximately 6inches long and 1.5 at the widest part. Aio im not sure should i stick with around those same dimensions & just get something cock shaped so i get used to the shape and feeling or should I go up a size?

My goal is to eventually bottom for a guy at some point next year but i wanna be ready for all that and beable to make sure i can enjoy it on my own (and so far i do!).
 
If you can take it comfortably, you should do good with a standard 5-7 I would just be conscious of the thickness. As far as being ready to bottom, you’re ready to bottom now if you can find someone who isn’t just gonna jam it in. You are past the “virgin“ stage so you just need to breathe and experiment.
 
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If you can take it comfortably, you should do good with a standard 5-7 I would just be conscious of the thickness. As far as being ready to bottom, you’re ready to bottom now if you can find someone who isn’t just gonna jam it in. You are past the “virgin“ stage so you just need to breathe and experiment.
Thanks! As far as me bottoming... i think one of the reasons its taken me so long to do it is i need some kind of connection and trust with whomever is gonna be topping me. The 2 times i attempted to be the bottom in my life were not enjoyable at all cause the top literally just thrusted with no thought of me receiving any pleasure.
 
Thanks! As far as me bottoming... i think one of the reasons its taken me so long to do it is i need some kind of connection and trust with whomever is gonna be topping me. The 2 times i attempted to be the bottom in my life were not enjoyable at all cause the top literally just thrusted with no thought of me receiving any pleasure.
Lol and that’s the hard part. Just try not to fall in love with the first dude that it works out with. Also your Profile says DFW go to “Club Dallas” you might have some luck. Just be careful getting in the sauna or hot tub if you try poppers to loosen up.
 
Lol and that’s the hard part. Just try not to fall in love with the first dude that it works out with. Also your Profile says DFW go to “Club Dallas” you might have some luck. Just be careful getting in the sauna or hot tub if you try poppers to loosen up.
nah my first time bottoming wont be at Club Dallas lol