First Ejaculation...Did you know?

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  1. RocketMan

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    I experienced my very first ejaculation at twelve years old. The thing is, I was expecting it because my parents had provided literature to me and my brothers from the family doctor that explained about puberty and various changes that occur. My folks never mentioned a word, and sex ed didn't happen until junior high. From age eleven, not fully understanding exactly what the "intensely pleasurable sensation" would be like, I manipulated my erection in every way I could think of waiting for that "special" moment, whatever it was. Finally, it happened in the bathtub. Wow...the book was right and I've been thrilled ever since!

    Some friends have told me they had no idea what was happening their first time. So, I'm curious, was my experience out of the ordinary? Did any of you know what was coming?
    (a little pun intended)
     
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    I had wet dreams before I masturbated to orgasm. Reached puberty at 11 but it was 12 before I realised what was happening. Sex never discussed in our household. Not concerning, just pleasurable!
     
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    Wet dreams came later for me. Again, seeming out of sequence.
     
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    I'm not sure whether I had ejaculated before...(never had a wet dream!)...but I do remember vividly when I was about twelve urinating a steady stream of pure white semen. - One for the doctors...is that right? I presume to this day that it was semen, but the plumming doesn't add up!!
     
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    I also had wet dreams, probably for about a year, prior to figuring out I could make those amazing sensations occur in my body myself. Wet dreams are tons of fun but you're 100% NOT in control; you can't wish your body to have one when you fall asleep at night. Masturbation proved much more powerful, and once I figured out how to make myself orgasm that was IT. I was in my bedroom every night experimenting. Ah, the joys of being an only child :) And, no, sex was never discussed in my family.....I figured stuff out from friends, and one other book, "Everything You Always Wanted To Know About Sex but were Afraid To Ask." That book was a bastion of mis-information [homosexuality is bad, blah blah blah] but was surprisingly open & honest about the topic of masturbation so I felt pretty good about it from the get-go.
     
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    It's possible you may have experienced a "retrograde ejaculation." One that released into the bladder instead of shooting out of your penis. I don't know the reasons for this, but have learned it happens to some folks. In that case, it makes sense to me that you did indeed experience ejaculation in a wet dream, then urinate semen.
     
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    I think my first ejaculation was at age 11, the summer after fifth grade. I'd had the "birds and bees" talk from my mom one memorable afternoon when I came home from school in the third grade, but that talk didn't get into masturbation (just the informative topic of "special hugs" and reading the book "Where Did I Come From?") so the first time I ejaculated a couple years later I was worried something had gone horribly wrong.

    Steve :smile:
     
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    Yah Steve, me too.

    I was dry jerking for a year or so before it happened. One day, I decided to try jerking my dick off instead of just rubbing it. I couldn't believe how good it felt. Then I blew. I freaked out. I had NO idea why I was ejaculating, I thought it only happened when you wanted to make a kid.

    I didn't jerk off for two days after that:biggrin1:
     
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    Sounds plausable.
     
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    13 + nude sunbathing + lots of suntan lotion = first load.
     
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    I was a big reader as a kid (still am), and I always tried to inform myself. Naturally, I was very curious about sex, so I read up on it. The first time I shot a load I was probably about 12 and I knew objectively it would happen. Frankly, I don't remember jackin' off without shooting, so I think it all came together at the same time (and isn't that what we want to do--come at the same time?).
     
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    Yeh i was expecting the experience the first time but no one told me what it would feel like. i was blown away & have been ever since.:biggrin1:
     
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    My first ejaculations were due to wet dreams, and no, I didn't know what was going on at the time. I don't remember what age I was, but the 'sex ed' class I had covered what sex was and the changes boys and girls go through, but nothing specific on ejaculation and orgasm. I was a little frightened by the pleasure that was waking me up to wet pj's, and made sure I washed out the semen so Mom wouldn't find out. :eek:

    Shortly after this started happening, I got an erection while taking a bath, and cleaning myself, I discovered how good it felt. Of course one thing led to another and I unknowingly jerked myself off for the first time. :wink:
    Since I was in control this time, I enjoyed the sensation of an orgasm and haven't stopped since! I quickly learned to jerk off into the toilet, as we actually shared the bath water most of the time when were were all young, and I certainly didn't want to leave any 'evidence' behind! :redface:

    Oh, I remember being able to hang the bath towel on my erection.
    Isn't amazing what boys will do? :biggrin1:
     
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    About 12 yrs, i was jerking the drops out after a piss...and didn't stop! My first ejaculate!
     
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    I was about 12 or 13 we had company and i moved to the spare room detached from the house. I remember that i used two hands with both thumbs on top of my dick and the four fingers on the underside. I remember that i kept going since it felt good and came but didnt know what had happened except to want to do it again. So i tried again the second night but ended up rubbing it raw so i had to wait a few days for it to heal. Changed to more conventional hold when a friend told me how he held it...
     
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    I was eleven years old, playing around with one of my regular erections inside of my pants. I noticed that when I had reached an orgasm, there was wetness inside of my pants, so I took it out and played around. When I saw what was coming out, I knew.
     
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    My first time was after having found an old erotic book titled "Memoirs of a Russian Princess". I was a 10th grader at the time. (This book remains in my memory as one of the better i've read though, by comparison to standards in such literature, less "direct" in terminology used to describe sexual acts.) In fact, that book essentially served as my "sex-education" manual, as it was at that time my first, and only source of information.

    I had erections before this of course, and played with it, but that was the first time I had been brought to ejaculation. I didn't expect it, didn't know something other than pee could come out of there. But I guess I was able to connect what just happened to the vague references in the novel, enough so that I didn't conclude that I was about to die, besides which, it felt too good to be lethal.
     
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