First Experience

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  1. Private101

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    This goes for more Bi people but other people can join the discusion also.
    How old were you when you had your first anal experience? Did you ask for it or someone asked you? Where did loose your 'virginity'?
    I'm a very curious person :p
     
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    It was many years ago, with my husband who asked for it, we were both inexperienced at bum fun so it hurt like hell and I didn't try it again for a few years after I'd had a little advice from someone. That time it went much better although much more slowly :)
     
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    About 10 years ago I went looking for it because I was curious. I must say I prefer to be shagged up the arse than to shag someone up the arse. I do love the sight of an attractive woman wearing a strapon even better when she is thrusting in me :cool:
     
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    I was 14 and it seemed like a natural extension of our mutual jack-off and buddy sucking. We, sadly, didn't know about lube so I just jammed my cock up my friend's ass and he nearly cried it hurt so much. I pulled out, horrified that I hurt him and he kept rubbing his ass saying how much it hurt. I felt really bad for him. He pulled-up his cords and mumbled that he was going downstairs to dinner (this was in a dorm) and I felt I could only be solicitous so I replied that it was OK. All through dinner I felt like a total jerk, wondering if he was going to bleed or need medical care and how embarrassed I'd be. Later on we made-up and continued to some wonderful experiences but that first time was just awful.
     
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    I had my first anal experience when I was about 23 I guess, and that was me penetrating my then-girlfriend anally. I mean, before that I had eaten plenty of asshole but I had just never been with a woman that was up for letting me put it in her butt. We had anal sex face to face (missionary) and it was slow and awesome. Since then I've had a few lady friends who i've had this type of anal sex with. As for my asshole, I haven't really had anything other than my own finger (and once a string of beads) in my ass and while i definitely think it feels way different to be stimulated this way, i'm not sold on whether or not i like it. I guess I'm just not into it all that much. My current girlfriend has fantasies about fucking a guy with a strapon but I'm definitely not interested in going there. It isn't a matter of straight-gay or masculine-feminine. It's simply a matter of me not really giving a crap (no pun intended) about going through the effort to put anything more than my (or someone's) finger in my ass.

    But hey. I've known plenty of women who never gave a damn about g-spot stimulation because nobody had ever hit it properly. So maybe if I have one of those mind-blowing prostate orgasms i keep hearing good things about, I'll change my tune...
     
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    I was 12.
    I was talked into it.
    It was a clubhouse a 16 year old boy's step father had built for him, with bunk beds and stuff.
     
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    I WAS 30, it was with my lover at the time, he was large 8.5 X 6 . I had never done it before, we tried together a few times at first hurt like hell even after massage . So, one day he came home with a toy close to his size and told me that on my own i could play with it and try it out. I did and a week or so later i was able to accomondate him very well , and i enjoyed it thouroughly. On a side note, i think , that is a great way to get into anal. and pretty nice of my now ex lover.
     
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    Tried it first in my teens. A friend and I took turns. I entered him first, and then he tried entering me. Quite uncomfortable since we didn't know anything about lube, relaxing the sphincter or anything like that.
     
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    I was 16, and like jason_els, it was a bad experience the first time! We weren't really aware of the lube thing either, we just figured that if we went slow, it would work out... but it didn't... and he didn't go nearly slow enough. It hurt and it sucked.
     
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    His house
    Mutual decision
     
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    I was 17 with my HS girlfriend. I talked her into it...
     
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