First Five People to See Your Penis That You Remember

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  1. Freddie53

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    There is a thread about who were the first five people whose penis you saw still active here in this same forum.

    This thread is about the first five people who saw YOUR penis. To help make the posts more consistent, there are some qualifiers here.

    Within an hour of your birth more than five people saw your penis. So only count people that you can actually remember seeing it. (Do not include sexual encounters before the age of puberty.)

    Don't count medical personnel, being a patient in the hospital or the 250 other boys changing at the Y whom you didn't know then and couldn't identify now.

    Also we will separate parents from the question by asking them separately.

    When was your age the last time your mother saw your penis?
    When was your age the last time your dad saw your penis?
    and then.
    Who were the first five people you remember seeing your penis?

    My mother last saw my penis when I was in fifth grade. I was 11 years old.

    My father last saw my penis when I was age either 30 or 31. We went together to clean out my grandmother's house. The electricity was already turned off. It was rustic to say the least. The house was so hot that night, my underwear was soaked with sweat. We were in separate beds in the same room. I finally just took off my underwear and he saw me naked as a matter of course.

    My brother saw my penis more than another other person during childhood. He last saw my penis several decades ago, not sure when. We saw each other nude while we each went through puberty. One bathroom house. He is three years older than me.

    I will not name the many boys that I'm sure saw it at the urinal in grade school. There were no dividers. In fifth grade though, a boy made fun of my penis. Up to that time, I wasn't modest at all. That was a life changing experience. I became immediately a super modest person.

    The next people to see my penis were dorm mates. I remember one who because of our class schedule always got up at the same time and met each other at the shower. There were no curtains on the shower stalls, He was not modest at all. Over time, I became more relaxed and he did see my penis.

    The next two guys were and still are my best friends. As seniors we got first chances at room assignments. We picked our floor and our rooms. That meant that we shared the same showers which also didn't have curtains on the shower stalls.


    Those are my five that I KNOW saw my penis. There were others that I don't remember seeing it I'm sure.

    Note: When I tried to answer this, I realized how much more difficult this is than naming the first five I SAW. I can remember that.

    Trying to name the first five that SAW me and KNEW me well enough to REMEMBER seeing me or US talking about it is quite another. Just because one of us are nude in the shower room doesn't mean the other people present "saw" our penis unless we were walking around and doing "Show and Tell." Today, they may have no remembrance of it at all.
    They may have not SEEN that day either. That is the sight of your penis never registered in THEIR brain. (Everything we see with our eyes does not register in our brains If it did, our minds would be so cluttered we couldn't function.)
     
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    My mum last saw my cock when i was 13
    my dad last saw my cock at 13

    last five people to see me cock

    Jade Randell
    dean homer
    jess forbes
    vickie homer
    Tom watt
     
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    Probably when I was about 8 years old...

    At age 9, I was trusted to shower without supervision.

    1. Teachers in general. We had to take communal showers and we had to do them naked. This caused many people distress, especially at the beginning of puberty. I remember one teacher who would stand by the showers and look at our bits. After recieving complaints about his behaviour, he 'retired forever'.

    2. After I moved school, I was very secretive because I was the most innocent thing and didn't want people to think I wasn't cute because of my penis. When I was about 14 my towel dropped off when I was getting changed :redface: A few boys saw my doodle and one of them 2 years later went on to hit on me numerous times...

    3. My brother. I forgot to lock the bathroom door :redface:

    4. At 16, I was messing around with some friends and somehow things slipped out... :eek:

    5. The first girl was either at 16 or 17 :kiss: :hug: She was supercool :cool:
     
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    this is by far the weirdest thread i've ever read
     
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    Mom
    Dad
    Brother
    No name-BJ
    no namw-BJ
    Cindy H-14yo, lost my virginity
    Howard M, first male I fucked
    oops more than 5, lol
     
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    Yeah, I don't really see the point in this.
     
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    I'm really shocked that a moderator started this thread. I don't understand the point of this and it obviously would shift the focus to thinking about the penises of children and who is looking at them. How is this acceptable? Why are we continuing to give pedophiles masturbation material?
     
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    I think Freddies post was honest, sincere and honorable. This thread is NOT to lure out pedophiles or other off color people, it is just asking for the first 5 people who saw your cock. to suggest otherwise is just nuts. I guess we could all go count to 25,000.

    No offense to anyone, just my opinion
     
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    I agree with Monster. There was no intent of paedophilia is the original query...
     
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    Not counting Family........my tent mates at Boy Scout camp when I was 13.....we had a circle jerk(I won the largest dick contest)
     
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    Who won, :tongue:
     
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    I'm not going to spend too much time on this because it starts to sound like a broken record or that I have a crusade that I don't have. You all are reading the thread and post like normal people or normal cows and forgetting that pedophiles don't read the threads the same way. No, we can't and shouldn't censor everything we do because we are afraid of pedophiles, but we still have a responsibility for what we write and we all have knowledge of who is reading what we write. I don't see the point in these threads--sorry. I don't see why penis and first grade have to be linked in a title. I find these threads creepy and disturbing. But sure, I'll play...

    The first person to see my penis after First grade was the person who molested me--I was still in First grade. After that, everything else is a blur

    Gee, what a fun thread
     
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    Mother; Probably by age eight was her last view.

    Father; I was about age twenty-six. I was in the process of shaving. I was nude. He opened the bathroom door. Comment: WOW! His five sons would add up to quite a total---one yard or better. Genes from our English, Scottish, Welsh, Irish, and Dutch ancesters. Couldn't ask for more.
     
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    LMFAO. Basically.

    And I agree with Hyperhulk.

    The first five people to see your penis...AFTER THE FIRST GRADE? Why are we worrying about who saw our penis as a child. Or whose penis we saw as a child. I just don't see the intent behind it.
     
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    First let me say I am very sorry that one of the posters responding was abused as a child. There is no excuse for child abuse. And some of the worst child abuse comes in the form of emotional and physical abuse which unfortunately is still allowed even when their is proof that it is happening. There are few things that don't get me riled up faster than adults that chose to abuse children in any form shape or fashion.

    Now not a single person complained about the first thread. Every poster responding gave the first penises they saw happening during their childhood. Needless to say when no one complained about the other five penises thread, I was surprised to see people complaining about this one. I never intended for this discussion to be sexualized. And I should have known that the first time for some people may have been when they were sexually abused. Those scars last a lifetime. And that thought did not enter my mind on the first thread or this one.

    I added the part after first grade to the post. That wasn't needed in the other thread. There were at least five doctors and nurses who saw all of our penises probably even before our mothers saw them.

    I was really expect guys to name friends, not only adults. The only men I remember seeing my penis were my father and my grandfather except for doctors nurses etc.

    I suppose I should have written that you can remember instead of putting first grade.

    I would have never even thought about starting such a thread had it not been for three events, all of them here at the LPSG.

    One:
    Previous discussions here and only here that let me know that many guys here had childhood experiences that were greatly different from my own. I don't remember who all saw mine as a young child using the dressing room in the public swimming pools before fifth grade,but I remember a vague idea from that time what both little boys, teens and adult men looked like, but except for the instances I gave. I don't remember any specific men. I can't put faces with penises I saw at that age, much less names.

    Two:
    On the First Five Penises You Saw thread I found out that there are guys who had never seen an adult penis period until their teens. Had no idea about hair down there, sizes, etc



    Discussion here about nudity among family and friends and I realized that some many here did not have the experiences that my generation had where seeing penises was a dime a dozen down at the local Y.

    That other thread about the first five penises you saw. Some of those answers such as I never saw my dad's penis or my brother's got me to wondering got me to wondering just when modesty began for each guy here. As in what age were you when you became modest. That may been a much better title.

    Three
    That thread itself. That is not one I would have thought to start. And there was not a single complaint about that one. I believe the words first grade caused questions to pop in people's minds that might not would have happened if I had just said the First Five People Who Saw Your Penis

    To the poster here that said there is nothing wrong with this discussion but the child predators look for such as this to read. I see your point, but I don't see that this thread is going to bring child predators here to the LPSG. I don't know what all they read. They read the newspaper as well. There are all kinds of things to read that might arouse them that are innocent in themselves.

    If there isn't anything wrong with the discussion itself, then what is the problem? I really doubt that child predators have selected the LPSG to be their main avenue to read and view. Some how I would think there has to be something about somewhere that would appeal to them more than adult dicks and adult conversation. We are very strict as we can be about the posting of minors. Minors posts don't have to be pornographic for the mods to delete it.


    I am sorry that some confused this with some kind predator thread that would attract child predators to want to read. The thought that some adult might list having a child being in the first five is just something I didn't cross my mind. I was well past five people who had seen my dick long before I was 18.

    You can rest assured that if a post from someone listing a child as being the first to see their penis after they became adults, it will be deleted.
     
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    Not even close.......my fave weird thread is,"Can you fit your penis in a toilet paper roll?"........I wonder how many people tried!
     
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    I have to run off so I won't be able to respond to all of this.

    I don't think that pedophiles are coming to LPSG looking for kids. They don't need to. But don't fool yourself, they would have this website bookmarked. With a category called "Young & Hung"--this place is on their radar. And with a thread like "penis after first grade"--they're reading this thread. Pedophiles see the world differently than normal people. What normal people think of as innocent stories regarding our childhood, pedophiles see as confirmation that children are sexually aware and interested. So if someone writes about being in boy scouts and circle jerking, then the pedophile is jerking off trying to imagine the scenario. The more the pedophile sees these stories, the more they start to believe that kids are out there looking for fun sexual experiences and what starts off as fantasy becomes a desire to make fantasy a reality. 50% of girls are molested and 25% of boys are molested. Please don't pretend that child sexual abuse isn't an issue or a problem. The Catholic Church didn't spend 3 billion in settlements for nothing.

    So yes, I think we have an obligation and responsibility to think about the threads we write and how even our innocent actions can be perverted by perverted people. I think we can make better choices. I personally wish adults would turn their focus away from the sexual expression of children and focus on their own sexual expression as adults--but that's just a personal thing. As for combating pedophilia, I strive to be part of the solution instead of contributing to the problem. And I know your intention was not meaning to be bad, but I find the thread a bit irresponsible. That's just my opinion and we all are free to have different opinions.
     
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    Bring Child predators to LPSG? You speak as if they aren't already here. This site is CRAWLING with pedophiles.

    If it's not the "Hi I"m an 18yo newbie" thread that pops up everyday in the New Members thread, when you can clearly tell it's some fake old pervert with fake pics pretending...

    then it's the threads where random people begin sharing all too graphic, all to sexualized, clearly more fantastic than realistic stories about encounters they had as a child that seem more pedophilic than psychologically reminiscent.

    Or all sorts of other threads that to anyone with a level of discernment are clearly pretend and clearly meant for other purposes that sharing or approaching things properly.

    People seem to be very naive about the pedophiles on this site. If you do research on them (and I did because of what I experienced as a child) you will find that pedophiles don't come out and overtly say "hey I wanna bang a 6 year old" or "tell me some story about kids screwing". They're more intelligent then that. It's the subtlety in these threads that gives it away. Reading BETWEEN the lines. Almost instantly I noticed the ways many members sexualize child behavior/experiences and claim to discuss it from a "psychological" or "intellectulized" point of view, when in reality their beating their monkeys as someone types some phony, long, all too graphic story about what dick they saw when they were a kid, or some fantasy of a circle jerk session when they were in the gym, or all the other crap that reeks of fiction worse than a Tolkien novel.

    I can understand discussions based around the psychology of child experiences with sexuality. However, these threads always turn into nothing more but stories that reek of fiction and discussions that have NO psychological analyzation and no intellectual merit.

    In another thread recently I shared very BRIEFLY in less a paragraph the fact that I was raped as a child. I can't tell you how many PM's I was barraged with afterward asking questions that clearly had no psychological merit, or no intent to commend for being courageous enough to share my story. They just wanted to know in GRAPHIC detail what happened to me or was I raped because my dick was big as kid too. These subtle questions give way to the REAL intent of alot of posters and alot of threads. To feed of fantasies or real stories that involve sex between children or sexualized situations between children.

    Personally I don't care about what people on the site do, because I use it very rarely. And if you all like the threads, then hey I love them. I tend to avoid most threads that are clearly idiocy because most times the thread title gives away the intent even before you read it. But I have noticed an increasing amount of threads that seem more to be pedophile fodder than the attempt to discuss and understand psychology of child sexuality.

    And as I said earlier, I can't for the LIFE of me figure out WHY anyone would want to know the first five penises you saw when you were in elementary school or the first five people who saw your penis. What merit does that have. Why not just ask "Did you ever see another male naked when you were a child and did it affect your modesty with nudity growing up". THEN, the question is formulated in such a way that the intent for real psychological observation/discussion is clear. Why the need for graphic detail or numerous experiences and detail on who each person was. I don't get it.

    And needless to say had I seen any of the other threads you speak of asking a similar question I would have given the same response. It just to me doesn't seem a necessary question. Nor does it focus on any of the markers or details that would be RELEVANT to an intellectual discussion on child sexuality.

    There is a difference between pedophilic stories and psychological observation. And these threads would be more of a help to Old Mr. Wayne from 54th Street than they would be to Freud, in my opinion.

    I don't mean to offend. And I'm not saying that this was your intention. However...what I am saying is that while your intention may have been noble, it quickly is going to turn into tomfoolery and ballyhoo...sorry I was watching Good Will Hunting...
     
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    i agree with hyperhulk and haagen. i'm sure there are some people who genuinely just want to discuss the topics at hand, but i'm having a hard time swallowing "discussing the penis in a non-sexual way". the penis is an intergral part of sexuality and discussing it in a 'non-sexual' way is like going to a farm with the intent of "not running into animals". personally i may have benefited if my father had spoken to me about my penis at a younger age. being uncut i didn't learn that you're supposed to clean underneath the head until a sexual encounter at 19 when the foreskin retracted and revealed a bit of... well, ya know. anyhow, i agree that 9 times out of 10, these kinds of threads often turn into little more than fantasy stories. you can't argue that there aren't pedophiles on the site, like someone said: pedophiles are smart adults otherwise they wouldn't get away with their behavior for sometimes many many years. they won't start a thread saying "show me pics of your 10 year-old sons penis", they're more discrete than that. i guess what i don't understand is why grown adults would feel compelled to discuss penis experiences from childhood. if you read the threads on similar subjects, they're often worded in an erotic and sensual manners, sometimes disguised as attempts to understand or analyze these situations. personally it's certainly a better bet to google any questions you have, there's a government site for EVERYTHING and its not hard to find good sources of information. once again these kind of threads more oft. than not turn into fanatasies and fictional stories about childhood sexual experiences that certainly don't belong on this site. i feel bad for the people with genuine questions but is it worth asking your question if it gives a pedophile an opportunity to get their rocks off??

    it should also be noted that many convicted pedophiles are often caught in "rings". they connect on sites like this by starting with cleverly-disguised threads, then recognizing similar interest, PM each other, and there you go, you've got pedophiles networking on your site
     
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    Thank you for a very well written commentary on this. I'm sure I would have never worded the thread that way except it was a copy cat of the other thread that caused me to have questions.

    Psychological observatoin/discussion for me is what effect has growing up where a boy can be 15 or 16 years old and never seen an adult penis or no adult has seen his penis since he was little. Obviously babies can't take care of themselves, so their has to be a minimum age where boys are able to take care of themselves in normal situations. It won't be the same for every boy.

    I am interested in how did having adults seeing you and you seeing them in the nude in locker rooms, nude only YMCA swimming pools etc compare with a boy not being seen by an adult and an adult seeing them in the nude affect boys then and as adults.

    For instance, girls raised in some Islamic cultures do not ever let a male other than certain family members see their face. So, they are humiliated and have been sexually invaded when they are forced to reveal their face publicly by Western culture people who have no understanding of their culture.

    Is America now at a point were some men and boys view having someone else see their penis is a sexual invasion, not just an invasion of privacy but a sexual invasion or sexual act. This thread was about included all people, not limited to age or gender.


    I am also very concerned that just seeing someone else's penis or someone else seeing your penis is automatically a sexual act by the public at large no matter the circumstances. I wasn't raised that way. In my time a boy that tried to be modest was labeled a sissy and a queer. (Those are the words that were used then. Not my choice of words.) It was better to be laughed at for having a penis too small or have an erection or whatever, than to show that you were trying to hide your privates. That was an invitation for not just ridicule, but to be stripped and paraded around.

    That was way way wrong as well.

    The one point that we do agree on very much is that all of this shouldn't have to be sexualized by anyone and shouldn't be. It is very tragic that the child predators out there are do what they do, but the second word in their name says it all "predator."

    The child predators I'm sure visit this site. They are going to make the rounds of any porn site and certainly a porn site with the name penis are part of the title. That is how I found this site. I had a problem with my penis and ended up going to the urologist over it and had to take medication for it. As always I searched the net first. This name caught me eye and here I am.

    Back to the child predators. I prefer that name because child in our nation means minor and predator is self explanatory. Pedophilia only refers to children who have NOT started puberty and there are child predators after 14-17 year old minors. A person could be a pedophile in their sexual orientation but has the good sense not to pursue it. People aren't predators until they actually take part in trying to prey on someone.

    I don't know that the latest statistics and opinions on what does and does not increase the number of actual child predator events and how severe they are and what is the long term damage done to the children involved.

    For me I am looking at how many children were assaulted sexually by an adult. But I want to know more than many people are interested in. What about the adults who never make a physical sexual assault, but use other methods to sexually assault a child emotionally. The case of a teacher watching intently as teens are showering in the nude could be in the minds of the teen a sexual assault. But, I don't want to teach our children that - the doctor, the nurse or the coach who happens to see your penis as a matter of their professional duties and done properly according to professional standards - have sexually assaulted them.

    If we have a statistic that says that when child predators see nude pictures of the kids that interest them the number of child predators actually assaulting kids like the ones in the picture, I want to know that. I also want to know that if a group of child predators show a similar group of kids fully clothed would that increase the number of sexual assaults.

    We certainly don't want the LPSG to have any role in increasing the number of sexual assaults on children. I'm sure that there are links to research and statistics on this subject. I invite anyone to post such links. I do advise though that you do it on a thread that stands alone. and I believe that the ETC section would be the best forum as that is both a moral and political issue.

    I would be heart broken if I were to find out that just one child was sexually assaulted by someone and had they not visited the LPSG the assault would not have happened.

    I know this post is long. But I have a reputation for writing long posts.

    I am going to ask that future responders to this do it with the concept of how did others seeing your penis affect you then and now. Of course the age and who the person is does matter. When at age 13, my testicles swelled up like grapefruit, my doctor examined them. I had a hernia and it had to be repaired. But if I wrote that I went to a man's office when I was 13 and he had me drop my pants and he touched my balls real good, that would be technically right, but extremely misleading. It was a doctor's office, not just any man, but a doctor. I had a real physical problem that had to be fixed. My father was present when the examination took place.

    Please everyone consider the concerns and do not sexualize your answers in anyway. If being assaulted was an event in your childhood, it is permissible to mention it, but if you write in in a sexualized way, most of us won't believe it and will also believe that you are a pervert faking a childhood experience to get your jollies. Consider that when you write your post.
     
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